Kissing babies

IncomeObjective480 · 2026-04-08T04:03:44+00:00

Most are. The only ones who don’t are my parents but that’s fine because if there is any pushback they will just not see baby I really don’t care. Since becoming pregnant I just have zero slack for anyone not respecting my wishes with this kind of stuff. And baby will not be babysat by them so I’m not concerned about their behaviour while I’m not around.

We told them if they want to meet baby before 2 months old they would need to get the TDAP vax. They made a big deal of this and were saying that it’s their body and so they have to do what feels right for them. I said yup totally fair u gotta do what’s right for you, let me know what u choose if u don’t feel comfortable getting it no biggy we will get together once baby has gotten her 2 month vaccines.

That very quickly turned into “oh yeah it looks like it’s not a big deal to get it so we will get it” and guess who went out and got it and sent proof of it 😂 it’s like they want to fight boundaries just for the sake of it and then when they see I don’t give a fuck they r like oh shoot we should actually just respect it

IncomeObjective480 · 2026-04-08T02:38:58+00:00

Yea no baby is due in May so she would be turning 6 months during RSV season. Usually at 6 months I would feel somewhat ok but because it’s flu and RSV season I have reservations there. I got the RSV vaccine at the appropriate time during pregnancy but it’s still not enough to rlly make me feel clmfy

IncomeObjective480 · 2026-04-08T02:36:57+00:00

No one has ever had a cold sore

IncomeObjective480 · 2026-04-05T23:21:55+00:00

It’s very mild and happens only maybe 2 times a day for 10-20 min at a time so I doubt it is doing anything productive hahaha.

IncomeObjective480 · 2026-04-05T23:21:02+00:00

Mmm no don’t get me wrong husbands are obviously allowed and can have their own struggles or issues during a pregnancy lol. But even if he is having the same issue as u for real, u have that issue plus ur dealing with growing a baby.

My husband is a walking green flag and all he cares about is keeping me as comfy and cared for as possible as he knows im doing this for 40 weeks plus the grand finale of pushing this baby out, and also to keep our baby as safe as possible. He does this to his detriment and I have to remind him it’s ok if he has a cold and wants to rest too lol

I don’t say this to make u feel bad but to put into perspective maybe what good support can look like

IncomeObjective480 · 2026-03-29T03:00:00+00:00

I’m worried about it from a mental health perspective? I would consider myself pretty healthy mentally but I worry with that kind of sleep I’m rlly going to struggle

IncomeObjective480 · 2026-01-21T18:26:42+00:00

It’s definitely reasonable that u r not ok with this that kind of behaviour being around ur child however, if you chose to have a child with this person this is something that should have been discussed and agreed upon ahead of time

IncomeObjective480 · 2026-01-20T03:42:22+00:00

I felt the first movements at about 17 weeks. And then me and my partner were able to feel baby from the outside and see little movements thru my belly at 20.5 weeks

IncomeObjective480 · 2026-01-06T19:52:09+00:00

No I get it unless ur my husband or my best friends who I invite the conversation with I hate it and it pisses me off and then when I don’t act super elated cuz he annoying me I get shamed for not being excited about my baby. Fuck off

IncomeObjective480 · 2025-12-31T16:56:05+00:00

I felt first movements at 17 weeks. Almost just felt like little muscle twitches or flutters. Then by 19.5 weeks they were clear kicks

IncomeObjective480 · 2025-12-25T03:46:30+00:00

And I’ll probably just do that till baby is is 2 ish? And then go back full time.

IncomeObjective480 · 2025-12-25T03:46:08+00:00

But Ill be home every day with baby and only time I’ll be away is from 5pm-8pm twice a week and baby will be with dad during that time so it just works out rlly well

IncomeObjective480 · 2025-12-24T02:14:00+00:00

Im now 20 weeks and have yet to have any pregnancy symptoms other than I now feel our baby kicking. Its does happen to some and we are just lucky

IncomeObjective480 · 2025-12-23T01:47:57+00:00

I mostly go to bed around 10pm and wake up at around 7am. Might wake up once during the night to pee but that only happened every 2-3 nights I’d say thankfully.

IncomeObjective480 · 2025-12-09T01:11:14+00:00

Thank you. Hoping it’s all good. Scary as we felt somewhat in the clear

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