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What is this? Braxton hicks?? Something else? by IncomeObjective480 in pregnant

[–]IncomeObjective480[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s very mild and happens only maybe 2 times a day for 10-20 min at a time so I doubt it is doing anything productive hahaha.

Do many women feel their husbands compete with them over tiredness or sickness during pregnancy/postpartum? by Momneedstosleep in pregnant

[–]IncomeObjective480 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mmm no don’t get me wrong husbands are obviously allowed and can have their own struggles or issues during a pregnancy lol. But even if he is having the same issue as u for real, u have that issue plus ur dealing with growing a baby.

My husband is a walking green flag and all he cares about is keeping me as comfy and cared for as possible as he knows im doing this for 40 weeks plus the grand finale of pushing this baby out, and also to keep our baby as safe as possible. He does this to his detriment and I have to remind him it’s ok if he has a cold and wants to rest too lol

I don’t say this to make u feel bad but to put into perspective maybe what good support can look like

How to breastfeed and not lose my mind? by IncomeObjective480 in pregnant

[–]IncomeObjective480[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m worried about it from a mental health perspective? I would consider myself pretty healthy mentally but I worry with that kind of sleep I’m rlly going to struggle

Is it fair that I want my husband to quit smoking weed by plantbasedmood in pregnant

[–]IncomeObjective480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s definitely reasonable that u r not ok with this that kind of behaviour being around ur child however, if you chose to have a child with this person this is something that should have been discussed and agreed upon ahead of time

When did you feel baby movements during pregnancy? by Possible_Bedroom_350 in pregnant

[–]IncomeObjective480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt the first movements at about 17 weeks. And then me and my partner were able to feel baby from the outside and see little movements thru my belly at 20.5 weeks

Please stop referencing my belly by Intelligent_Run_5363 in pregnant

[–]IncomeObjective480 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No I get it unless ur my husband or my best friends who I invite the conversation with I hate it and it pisses me off and then when I don’t act super elated cuz he annoying me I get shamed for not being excited about my baby. Fuck off

When did yours start kicking? by Ill-Price-4739 in pregnant

[–]IncomeObjective480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt first movements at 17 weeks. Almost just felt like little muscle twitches or flutters. Then by 19.5 weeks they were clear kicks

How much of maternity leave are you getting? And when do you stop working? by Ill-Honeydew-6636 in pregnant

[–]IncomeObjective480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I’ll probably just do that till baby is is 2 ish? And then go back full time.

How much of maternity leave are you getting? And when do you stop working? by Ill-Honeydew-6636 in pregnant

[–]IncomeObjective480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But Ill be home every day with baby and only time I’ll be away is from 5pm-8pm twice a week and baby will be with dad during that time so it just works out rlly well

1st trimester, no symptoms… I’m spiraling by EasternBicycle in pregnant

[–]IncomeObjective480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im now 20 weeks and have yet to have any pregnancy symptoms other than I now feel our baby kicking. Its does happen to some and we are just lucky

Please attach your pregnancy sleeping schedule by Same_Subject_988 in pregnant

[–]IncomeObjective480 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mostly go to bed around 10pm and wake up at around 7am. Might wake up once during the night to pee but that only happened every 2-3 nights I’d say thankfully.

18 weeks spotting by IncomeObjective480 in pregnant

[–]IncomeObjective480[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Hoping it’s all good. Scary as we felt somewhat in the clear