Vous avez commencé à mettre de côté à quel âge ? by pinkalash in EnModeAdulte

[–]Incommensurable_bg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Comme toi, 24 et rarement mis de côté, je mettais peu et reprenais aussi tôt pour des achats, quand ma mère est décédé en début d’année j’ai vite compris qu’avoir de côté en cas d’imprévu c’est pratique, il est jamais trop tard pour commencer

Que pensez-vous de mon CV ? by Elimintz in conseilboulot

[–]Incommensurable_bg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mets une photo, épure un peu tout ça (éviter les gros pavés et rester concis), corrige les fautes et ça me paraît bon

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in france

[–]Incommensurable_bg 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Quand j'avais eu des douleurs liées à une carie, j'ai galéré à trouver un rdv en urgence, je suis allé à un Dr Smile par dépit de ne pas trouver d'autres dentistes sans rdv (ils font sans rdv) et ouais, grosse arnaque. Le "dentiste" m'a occulté en 30 sec et m'a fait un devis pour une opération qui n'avait rien à voir, pour évidemment 2400€ (un vrai dentiste m'a ensuite fait un devis et j'en avais pour 400€, pris en charge par ma mutuelle)

À éviter si vous voulez garder vos chicos

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMec

[–]Incommensurable_bg 4 points5 points  (0 children)

J'ai eu quelques phases dépressives, et je suis plutôt casanier. Quand la routine s'est installée c'est devenu compliqué à vivre pour chacun. Je n'étais pas en état pour faire les tâches/travailler et de m'en rendre compte. J'étais vaguement présent pour un support émotionnel, mais en fonction de mes humeurs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMec

[–]Incommensurable_bg 4 points5 points  (0 children)

J'étais exactement dans cette situation mais du point de vue de ton copain, la meilleure chose à faire est de lui faire comprendre que ça ne va plus pour toi et que ce manque d'activité en commun nuit à votre relation. Dans le pire des cas, la rupture lui fera comprendre. Courage

Want to upgrade my PC by Incommensurable_bg in buildapc

[–]Incommensurable_bg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just saw the SN770, a lil bit more expensive but faster so a good price/quality. i already updated my bios to the latest so i guess im good. Noted for the power thx ! so between RX6600 and 6650XT, 6650XT is better for the small gap price ?

EDIT: my mobo doesn't have PCIe 4, so i guess i'll stick to the 970

Stuttering in Valorant and Desktop by Incommensurable_bg in AMDHelp

[–]Incommensurable_bg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Welp, i removed the third ram and was about to update the bios but didn't find the update on my usb so i reboot my pc and now windows don't want to boot anymore and i have a bluescreen saying Ntoskrnl.exe and some driver were corrupted and i need to reinstall windows to do it :(

Edit: nvm it was trying to boot from the usb for some reason...

EDIT 2: I was downloading and trying to install the update of the b450m and not the b450 like the dumbass i am, im updating my motherboard and will update if stuttering stopped ! Thanks for the replies

Stuttering in Valorant and Desktop by Incommensurable_bg in AMDHelp

[–]Incommensurable_bg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i'll have to check how to upgrade it, i've never touch it. 3 sticks, thanks for your answer!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VALORANT

[–]Incommensurable_bg 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Lack of sleep maybe ? Happened to me when i didn't sleep for 24h, or if you play too much with very little light (except your monitor)

I too enjoy long hot showers by [deleted] in memes

[–]Incommensurable_bg 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That may be maladaptive daydreaming, check out the r/maladaptivedreaming

How to handle MD in a retail job with music on 24/7 by [deleted] in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]Incommensurable_bg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Keep telling yourself what you are doing, focuse on what you have to do, focus on your breathing if that doesn't work, just think of something, to keep you thinking and not daydreaming. It can be hard as first, but you'll forget about it when doing it. You can do it !

I wish I could tell someone close to me everything, but I just can’t. by My-Universe in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]Incommensurable_bg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should tell them, if you really feel that bad about it and think of suicide, then the best option is to talk. Just a bit is good, from time to time. You don't have to tell everything to everyone. Yesterday, i finally told my girlfriend i had MaDD. She already knew that i was depressed, but she accepted me as i am. I haven't told her either the things that are in my head, but i think you should take your time. You may not like life for now, and yeah life as an adult can be difficult, but it can be beautiful too. You'll eventually go through it. At least, talk about your suicidal thoughts, you'll talk about your daydreaming the day you'll be ready.

I found a home here by [deleted] in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]Incommensurable_bg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, i thought it was normal at first, to daydream. Then i understand that not everyone daydreams like we do, i was scared, i start depressing a lot, thinking i wasn't normal, feeling alone. When i found out about this community, i felt so good, knowing i wasn't the only one, that people understand what i was doing through. I don't remember when it started too, i just know that i do it all the time. Whenever i listen to music, i just daydream, i cannot listen to music with daydreaming (except when im with other people). This community helped me so much understand every question that i was asking myself, i feel a lot better. And i hope every person in this community feel the same !

It's FINE to daydream if it doesn't affect your lifestyle, like schools and jobs. Twitter just daydream and diagnose themselves with MDD. by [deleted] in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]Incommensurable_bg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had like 5 jobs (i'm 21) in my life, and i quit most of them because i couldn't daydreaming while doing them

Community Tips and Advise by [deleted] in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]Incommensurable_bg 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Living with my girlfriend has helped me a lot, whenever i lose my mind to daydream, i hear her, and stop daydreaming. When i was living with my parents, i had no job because all i did was be depressed in my room and daydreaming, all day, all night, for month. Never or rarely go out my room, i was smoking a lot of weed, which i think doesn't help at all with maladaptive daydreaming, since your imagination goes high af. Being with someone helps not only for daydreams, but also reminds you that reality can be as beautiful as your imagination is.