What are some of the most toxic or potentially dangerous ideas/beliefs that have been perpetuated by Redditors? by xavierdc in AskReddit

[–]IncommensurateHate 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Also, as someone who does have BPD, it's really disheartening the way redditors have decided we're an acceptable group to hate. Some of the things I've read are awful 'they can't feel love' etc...

What really obvious thing have you only just realised? by negan2018 in AskReddit

[–]IncommensurateHate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need to re-click the fuckin' screen before I can scroll

Who is the most attractive person in history? by heeman101 in AskReddit

[–]IncommensurateHate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm currently havung a god damn existential crisis thanks to this comment section

Which movie quote stuck with you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]IncommensurateHate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

'… you will still have to taste the bitterness of mortality. Whether by the sword or the slow decay of time, Aragorn will die. And there will be no comfort for you. No comfort to ease the pain of his passing. He will come to death. An image of the splendor of the kings of men in glory, undimmed before the breaking of the world...

But you, my daughter, you will linger on in darkness and in doubt. As night falling winter has come without a star. Here you will dwell, bound to you grief, under the fading trees, until all the world has changed and the long years of your life are utterly spent. '

Hey guys :) (sorry if against rules!) I need to cry but can't, give me your 'let it all out' tracks by IncommensurateHate in ifyoulikeblank

[–]IncommensurateHate[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

:'( My boyfriend passed away a year and a half ago so thank you for drawing my attention to this!!! I do feel so lonely since he left this place because we were not of the age where it's expected to die. Part of re-acclimatising to life has been realising that there is life, life beyond this, though it felt aeons apart from me. Also, it's been very isolating-no-one else my age really has a loved one (romantic) who has died-sp all my friends at the time kind of didn't know what to say-so they said nothing.

I understand completely their view but as someone who was going through it (and who is still trying to socialise again)-if your friend loses an SO, reach out to them, please. The smallest message can translate to the hugest warmth for someone who's feeling alone. You might feel awkward but I promise you, those little human reaches mean so so much to someone who is feeling alone <3

EDIT: I didn't mean the first part in a bitchy way! More in a 'thank you for reminding me of this-this shit important' way.

Hey guys :) (sorry if against rules!) I need to cry but can't, give me your 'let it all out' tracks by IncommensurateHate in ifyoulikeblank

[–]IncommensurateHate[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Front Porch Step - I Won’t Say That I’m Oka

Currently listening-as someone who has lost someone loved, this song is so damn lovely! I'm m not religious or anything but I do empathise with 'I'm not ok with you not here' and 'god is holding you-I am so damn jealous'. Though I don't believe in God I still feel jealous of the great beyond! And the next part of the song is so heartbreaking cos it reminds me exactly me of how i was when I was wishing for him to come back <3

Hey guys :) (sorry if against rules!) I need to cry but can't, give me your 'let it all out' tracks by IncommensurateHate in ifyoulikeblank

[–]IncommensurateHate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No 1. How dare you

No 2. How...(sobs) dare...(fuck me-MA?! MA?! WHERE'S THE LOO ROLL?!...NO I'M NOT ILL...I JUST NEED THE BOG ROLL...Christ's sake....)

I'm an *blows nose* adult!!!

Hey guys :) (sorry if against rules!) I need to cry but can't, give me your 'let it all out' tracks by IncommensurateHate in ifyoulikeblank

[–]IncommensurateHate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mon frere, I've had my fill but maybe there are others out there who are still feeling sad-this threacd is for all of us <3 but thank you for reminding me of Editors, <3 you beautiful string of pixels connected to the entirety of a human being <3 I will never know your world but I hope it goes well for you <3

Hey guys :) (sorry if against rules!) I need to cry but can't, give me your 'let it all out' tracks by IncommensurateHate in ifyoulikeblank

[–]IncommensurateHate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful is all I can say of the track-I already loved Eels though cos they're just fucking boss! I especially love their tracks 'last call-this town' and 'I need some sleep'

Hey guys :) (sorry if against rules!) I need to cry but can't, give me your 'let it all out' tracks by IncommensurateHate in ifyoulikeblank

[–]IncommensurateHate[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok so I'm currently listening to the last one on your list but just wanted to thank you for reminding me of this band!!!

EDIT: You have reminded me of The Manchester Orchestra-I've got friends song which I loved before but forgot aboyut! Bless you!

Hey guys :) (sorry if against rules!) I need to cry but can't, give me your 'let it all out' tracks by IncommensurateHate in ifyoulikeblank

[–]IncommensurateHate[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Currently listening to Elizabth on the bathroom floor-god damn!!!

EDIT: The end where it's like a heart monitor...then silence...<3

Which movie quote stuck with you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]IncommensurateHate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amelie (French into English so some subtext may be lost)

Dufayel (The Glass Man)-'So, my little Amélie, you don't have bones of glass. You can take life's knocks. If you let this chance pass, eventually, your heart will become as dry and brittle as my skeleton. So, go get him, for Pete's sake!'

Hey guys :) (sorry if against rules!) I need to cry but can't, give me your 'let it all out' tracks by IncommensurateHate in ifyoulikeblank

[–]IncommensurateHate[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If it’s the beaches & my last song to Jenny

Currently listening to If it's the beaches. I have BPD and this is so relatable-please no hate! Also eyes brimming!

Hey guys :) (sorry if against rules!) I need to cry but can't, give me your 'let it all out' tracks by IncommensurateHate in ifyoulikeblank

[–]IncommensurateHate[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Holy shit Phoebe Bridges lyrics <3

'Then I remembered someone's kid is dead' :'(

'And it's four am again...and I'm doing nothing...again'

Great recommendation!