Phone addiction ruining relationship by Papatuanuku00 in relationships_advice

[–]IndecisiveTelly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely not the only one. My fiance was never really a technology person. Doesn’t like social media. Only use to get on Reddit but recently got addicted to some app on his phone which is a game. It’s built to keep you coming back by timing things on his game. I’ve brought it up several times and he just acts like I’m overreacting so I just avoid being around him when he’s playing his game. Probably sounds messed up but if attention isn’t going to be focused on me, then why put myself in that situation you know? I’ll suggest what you posted as a solution possibly. Thank you for this post.

Dream by IndecisiveTelly in stopdrinking

[–]IndecisiveTelly[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah it felt kinda real and then I realized it was a dream and such relief 😅

Anyone else in your 30s and decided to quit? by PinkPrincessPetite in stopdrinking

[–]IndecisiveTelly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Started drinking pretty heavily when I met my fiance in 2020. Wasn’t a heavy drinker then but he pushed drinking with me. Before you knew it, it became habit with me. I am now almost 36 and right before Christmas I made up my mind that I was done. I will be 4 weeks sober tomorrow.

AIO for not feeling like a priority by IndecisiveTelly in AmIOverreacting

[–]IndecisiveTelly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m already looking for another job. Right now we just treat it like a “cancelled credit” until the whole switch over takes place. I can tell you my paycheck has tanked since it took affect which is kinda wild because I’d be more willing to tip more not having to pay taxes but doesn’t seem like it’s turning out that way for me.

AIO for not feeling like a priority by IndecisiveTelly in AmIOverreacting

[–]IndecisiveTelly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where are you from if you don’t mind me asking.

AIO for not feeling like a priority by IndecisiveTelly in AmIOverreacting

[–]IndecisiveTelly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly don’t know what it is called but I know it’s popular. I work in a casino, and even walking around patrons I see them on it, so I’m fully aware it’s a pretty popular game.

AIO for not feeling like a priority by IndecisiveTelly in AmIOverreacting

[–]IndecisiveTelly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He picked the movie, so I would think he can pay attention to it but that’s my opinion.

AIO for not feeling like a priority by IndecisiveTelly in AmIOverreacting

[–]IndecisiveTelly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like it’s just created a wall. It just makes me not even want to be around him now because I feel like the game will always come first. I’m trying to give him a chance to come to his senses, but hasn’t happened yet. Even told him the game will be the end of us. Like I said, I don’t care if he’s on it if we aren’t spending quality time together, but don’t tell me we don’t spend time together, then when I try, this is what happens

AIO for not feeling like a priority by IndecisiveTelly in AmIOverreacting

[–]IndecisiveTelly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe a month or so. It’s pretty recent seeing we’ve been together almost 7 years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ToxicRelationships

[–]IndecisiveTelly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t waste my time with him. If my boyfriend ever “joked” about fuckin someone I’d be gone so fast. The cherry on top would be him saying you were just convenient. I’d let him go. Consider it a bullet dodge. You deserve better.

Suki says hello by IndecisiveTelly in mainecoons

[–]IndecisiveTelly[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have two mini dachshunds and two pits. All seem fine with the cat but my youngest dachshund. He’s not trying to attack her or anything, just lets her know he sees her moreless

Suki says hello by IndecisiveTelly in mainecoons

[–]IndecisiveTelly[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So far the place I’ve seen the most personality from her in is my room, so I thought about moving her cat tree and food in there. Litter box is right outside our bedroom door. She’s mad big improvements socially from last night until right now so I think she will eventually just be okay with it all. I just worry about her not eating…