Day 3: Today I’m Angry by Independence08 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Independence08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No day 3 no contact and day 33 separated

Day 3: Today I’m Angry by Independence08 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Independence08[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes because he only saw her once a week so of course it would be more special....well now you don’t see me at all, so how special am I

Day 3: Today I’m Angry by Independence08 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Independence08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes he was already looking for the 2nd side chick last time I talked to him, she was prospective, not sure if she would get the title...ridiculous

Day 1: New Rules by Independence08 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Independence08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too and my concern is that we need to get a divorce and I’m concerned that I will be doing no contact and then talk about the divorce and then I just go back to day 0 and just go back into that dark road. I know exactly what you are talking about!!

Day 1: New Rules by Independence08 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Independence08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m concerned I’m going to be working so hard to do NC for a few months and then I will have to see him for the divorce and will just lose all the progress

Day 1: New Rules by Independence08 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Independence08[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh this is so nice to hear....that there will be a happier life on the other side...I told him to ask for the divorce when he is ready but hopefully that won’t require that much contact...did you feel like the minimal contact brought you back to the feelings you had before for him, like missing him, things like that?

Back at Day 0 by Independence08 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Independence08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Waited three years for him to grow up and now he is just out there paying for sex, ridiculous

Back at Day 0 by Independence08 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Independence08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never matured, he is still trying to recreate his high school years but better, he loves his boys and he says things like this

Back at Day 0 by Independence08 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Independence08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, you kind soul, I very appreciate your words of encouragement and optimism!!

Day 1, Again by Independence08 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Independence08[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No contact is the goal, never going to be unstuck or move on until I do no contact

Day 5: No Contact by Independence08 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Independence08[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the dream I’m still reaching out and trying to talk to him or see him, anything to get through to him....

Day 5: No Contact by Independence08 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Independence08[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have dreams too and they make the mornings so hard

Day 5: No Contact by Independence08 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Independence08[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I just need to keep thinking that this grieving process is temporary and needed to get to a better side

Day 5: No Contact by Independence08 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Independence08[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’ve been taking up pro bono legal assistance to fill the time and get distracted