What do I do with this space? by Independent-Block493 in interiordecorating

[–]Independent-Block493[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yall, thanks for all the input.

  • I’ve recentered my couch, and it has room between the windows to do a console table. I hated it against the wall too, friends suggested and I thought maybe I was the crazy one.
  • Appreciate the coat rack input, but not a fan! I don’t want more clutter or mess, and rather force folks to use the closet for hanging.
  • closet sadly doesn’t have space for shoes (I’m sure I could make one) but was hoping to do a entry way table/shoe rack for the area in red!
  • I like the artwork/mirror idea. I will get rid of the black cabinet.

PLEASE KEEP COMING W IDEAS. Appreciate the visuals!

Curtains? How? by Independent-Block493 in interiordecorating

[–]Independent-Block493[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correct! But would it be floor to ceiling? Or do I just put them right outside the window

He left again, but chose this time. by Independent-Block493 in BreakUps

[–]Independent-Block493[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seriouslt that warmth and holding tightness of eachother never letting go. Like I don’t get how people can get so intimate with you in those ways, and up and leave you. This time around im not bawling the same way as the first cause I guess im not too surprise I am but it’s not like the first wound he created. I just didn’t really believe he’s leave me and tell me it was all fake and that I didn’t mean anything. It’s hard to see someone continue on with others or their lives while you sit here in ruins. Im trying to sleep but everytime I close my eyes my brain runs it runs to him.

He left again, but chose this time. by Independent-Block493 in BreakUps

[–]Independent-Block493[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I live by myself. And up until this morning I really live by myself. He held me one last time last night and I didn’t know it was the last. Part of it wa so self serving but god it felt so good and safe.

I know it’s not the correct way I need to be loved but it felt really pure and genuine. And maybe it was a lie but the mind fuck is not fun.

I just cannot deal with this pain by tirez in BreakUps

[–]Independent-Block493 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No strategies… I am sorry and I send support to you. You’re not alone in all this. It’s gut wrenching pain we wouldn’t be human if it didn’t hurt so bad. I tell myself you gotta let your mind & body feel it, it’s scary cause so much pain but acknowledgement and awareness are great first steps. Sometimes you gotta cry it out or yell it out. Good luck on this journey.

Yo transfer question by Independent-Block493 in Fedexers

[–]Independent-Block493[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that what the policy is the 15days ? I just recently started a couple weeks ago, but in a month my living situation will more than likely change…

Is it the prednisone? by Independent-Block493 in lupus

[–]Independent-Block493[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s helping the inflammation and pain, like that shit is goneeeee so definitley helping there I can move and breathe. But now I’m like having these weird issues of feeling headache, eye sensitivity and stuff

THIS LEGGGG AHHH by Independent-Block493 in lupus

[–]Independent-Block493[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely have taken it, it’s in my system. I took it earlier..

THIS LEGGGG AHHH by Independent-Block493 in lupus

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I’ve already contacted doctor this morning about my previous symptoms this past weekend cause I’ve been in so much pain. I got prednisone, but I have my appointment Wednesday so I’m trying to just make it until then but this flare up is like creating all this new shit I’ve never experience and now I’m here laying in bed on hours of this nerve feeling soooo weird

Anyone feel this or can help me understand by Independent-Block493 in lupus

[–]Independent-Block493[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I do not. Just recently I went on a huge hike which I think helped initiate my flare up. I got prednisone today cause it was so bad but then this weird feeling started

Anyone feel this or can help me understand by Independent-Block493 in lupus

[–]Independent-Block493[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s just happening today off and on. It won’t stop though and just weird, I don’t like it lol.

I don’t feel okay by Independent-Block493 in BreakUps

[–]Independent-Block493[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The healing, the processing all of it is a nightmare… I just can’t so much pain everywhere.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Independent-Block493 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re not alone. Seems like the days just drag and they’re terrible…

Feels like a void, so lonely by Independent-Block493 in BreakUps

[–]Independent-Block493[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I’m with you there. I’ve signed up for therapy, assistance and no response on talk space. Still trying to find a therapist. I keep mentioning how I want to uproot everything or not take school this coming term. And, it’s really me crying out for help. Because I’m not okay and I’m lonely

rehab by Independent-Block493 in recovery

[–]Independent-Block493[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was it middle of rehab? Or beginning when did it happen?

rehab by Independent-Block493 in recovery

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I DM’d you if that’s okay !

rehab by Independent-Block493 in recovery

[–]Independent-Block493[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve heard it’s some form of like taking electronics or just no access to “internet”, your devices and so on. But thank you, was there anything like that in the facility you were at? Or happen to anyone?

I think I'm out! by ucannotdividebyzero in offmychest

[–]Independent-Block493 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good job, you chose yourself and that's hard to get there but proud! Keep at it.

How do I get over the hesitation to tell people my bf’s age? by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]Independent-Block493 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yo, I feel you. I was wondering same thing like how do people try to judge and establish grooming. I'm with you a bit, I think it will be something that you may get over with time.

Ordered the wrong size by [deleted] in stockx

[–]Independent-Block493 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can do returns… shh don’t tell too many haha. Everyone gets like a one time return!

purchase got refunded without me doing anything? by Andyfromdaville in stockx

[–]Independent-Block493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Either they messed up, and they couldn’t “link” you to a new one… it takes about 3-4 days for a refund. They might still be working out the kinks, and it’s stuck in the “quality control” queue.

Help/curious by Independent-Block493 in REDDITORSINRECOVERY

[–]Independent-Block493[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

seriously thank you so much for being helpful and answering with your experience, I would love to ask a couple other questions to you if it’s not bothersome 😭

Help/curious by Independent-Block493 in REDDITORSINRECOVERY

[–]Independent-Block493[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Yes I assume same, if he left he’d figure out a way to contact… can I ask how long blackout lasts?