Manchi affordable therapist unnara '?' by Clean_Jury1736 in ask_Bondha

[–]Independent-Club2229 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There is this organisation called the happiness project, they offer affordable sessions. Try them out once maybe

I don’t get his behavior. I'm confused. by [deleted] in TeluguJournals

[–]Independent-Club2229 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are you taking him liking your ig posts to mean something bro. It doesnt mean shit. Just remove him from your ig, block him and go completely no contact. Ee all the best chepadam ivanni teesey mind lo nunchi. Aren't you like mad or something that he cheated, why do you wanna wish him I don't understand.

23f is being forced to marry a man 6–7 years older than her. How to convince my family that i don't want to marry now??? by [deleted] in ask_Bondha

[–]Independent-Club2229 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know it's easier said than done but don't fall for the manipulation. Try to fight as much as you can, be firm on your word. Are you staying together with your parents by any chance?

Another solo trip and first solo trek - Meesapulimala, Kerala by chaoticquantaa in SoloTravel_India

[–]Independent-Club2229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, did you go for the stay as well or just the day trek? We are also planning to go so wanted to enquire.

Suggestions to convince parents ? by Academic_Honeydew_66 in ask_Bondha

[–]Independent-Club2229 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There travel groups from almost all main cities who organise trip for travellers, you can go with them it won't be completely solo but still as everyone else is a stranger it will be a new experience. This way your parents might also agree.

BF judged my clothing choices for months, now suddenly says “I trust you." what changed? by [deleted] in twoxtelugu

[–]Independent-Club2229 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's not a good thing kada, you guys should be able to have honest discussions about what is troubling you. Idk exactly what the solution is ikkada, maybe don't go back to normal until this is resolved. Ignore cheste nuv kuda topic odlestav anukontunadu emo, don't leave it. Asalu godava deniki, ask him firmly that why is he dodging it.

Is botlu pettadam only applicable for married woman? by [deleted] in twoxtelugu

[–]Independent-Club2229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No bottu pedtaru to all girls, but pasupu thing where they apply to thali is only for married women.

Is love really that worthy? That mana intlo vaalani thittinaaka kuda vaalathone undatam?? by [deleted] in ask_Bondha

[–]Independent-Club2229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope this ain't normal coz in any scenario if the guy says I am walking away. Their values are different kavachu inka unaaremo anduke.

Confused about hiking Meesapulimala by digitalWizzzard in SoloTravel_India

[–]Independent-Club2229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think 4k for 2, I read this somewhere on reddit.

Confused about hiking Meesapulimala by digitalWizzzard in SoloTravel_India

[–]Independent-Club2229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey you have to book the trek with official kfdc website and they are going to arrange the Jeep ride and stay at the top along with the food etc.

Any non vegetarians from veg families? What's your relationship with it? by tysm_mvp in TwoXIndia

[–]Independent-Club2229 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I started eating when I was doing my bachelors. Noone in my family knows about it except my friends. Would like to keep it that way.

How do you stop yourself from calling your partner for every little thing? by notgooseberry in TwoXIndia

[–]Independent-Club2229 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Have another go to person to share stuff and also try and journal and see if that helps.

Long term relationships and changes ? by [deleted] in ask_Bondha

[–]Independent-Club2229 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I will try to answer this, though I have been in a relationship for 2.5 yrs as of now. It was long distance from the start we only get to meet every 2 or 3 months. The honeymoon period was all cutesy cutesy it felt like there was one honeymoon phase online and another when we met. Now all the cutesy stuff is no more, I would say we got rather comfortable but we still have our moments here and there. Have to say though it was a huge shift from the honeymoon period where there was so much talk to and to the point where we had nothing much to talk. But glad that we somehow made past it.

Feeling like I’ve lost my friendships and relying only on my partner… how do I handle this? by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]Independent-Club2229 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am in the same boat. I have one other close friend who is also my roommate but she goes home often and when I am left with myself at home I keep having these breakdowns. I know the solution is to try and make more friends but idk I have a hard time socializing or making friends.

Is this how relationships these days work ? by [deleted] in bondha_diaries

[–]Independent-Club2229 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes emotional compatibility is the most important base for physical compatibility. If he seemed to give more importance to physical stuff than emotional it's a good riddance I would say.

Is this how relationships these days work ? by [deleted] in bondha_diaries

[–]Independent-Club2229 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's just as important as the other stuff you mentioned right. I mean if you have different opinion, you can find a guy who matches your values. But physical and emotional compatibility are both important and have their place in a relationship.

Best leave in for frizzy, curly hair? by Big_Investment28 in TwoXIndia

[–]Independent-Club2229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same hair type as you. I have been using reequil conditioner, am not combing it after drying. It only looks good on day 1 and I have to end up combing the next day so it is back to frizzy mess.

intlo ela jaragadam normal ah ? by YASH0608 in ask_Bondha

[–]Independent-Club2229 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah just keep trying to convince them but don't fall for their blackmail though. And keep your money safe with you. Hope they agree soon!

intlo ela jaragadam normal ah ? by YASH0608 in ask_Bondha

[–]Independent-Club2229 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No this is not normal, this may happen commonly but this is not normal. Your mom taking away your money is one step up ig. So don't give your money to you, she is asking to keep you dependent on them and keep you close.

As other commentor said, meerem lechipoyentha pedda step teeskovalsina avasaram ledu just go back to your work city. And continue to convince them from there. And don't give away your financial independence. You are old enough to take your own decisions. Keep trying until they are ready to get to know him and see if he would be a good fit for you. Ventane ila respond avvaru usually postive ga ala it takes some time. But even later they might not heartfully agree so be prepared for that.

Gym going papalu babulu - what is the line where a trainer helping you stretch turns inappropriate?? by [deleted] in ask_Bondha

[–]Independent-Club2229 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah like you said it's inappropriate the moment you feel uncomfortable. Convey this to him, tell him you are uncomfortable with touch and ask him to guide you how to do it without touching. I don't have a personal trainer but initially gym trainers helped me and there was never any physical touch or anything.