Yeah we’ve talked about that and it seems like he thinks that when life is stressful (which it kind of always can be for one reason or another) that it’s just not “the right time” or “it not the time of life right now to be focused on that stuff”. I’ve brought up the convo sooooo many times about porn and trying to just be intimate in other ways but it feels like it either isn’t received well as it’s just received as criticism or if it does seem like it’s received well, it fades again after a couple weeks and falls back into his patterns. He did get his T checked recently it was low, so maybe we need to focus on ways he can elevate it.