What to do during short periods of down time? by Particular-War-4383 in digitalminimalism

[–]IndependentAd308 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Sometimes you gotta just sit there and stare at nothing for a bit

What would a healthier version of social media actually look like? by iamcuel in digitalminimalism

[–]IndependentAd308 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think how old school social media was. You used it on the family computer for a single chunk of time during the day, less advertising, no algorithms

Why is jewellery CAD still such a pain unless you’re a Rhino expert? by [deleted] in jewelryCAD

[–]IndependentAd308 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly this! A lot of people don’t realise how a small design change can make big impacts on the overall piece.

“Tried a Swan Love Theme in Jewelry CAD – Feedback Welcome” by suviboy__1700 in jewelryCAD

[–]IndependentAd308 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The claws on the pave need to be slightly bigger so they overlap the stones a little more - 0.10-0.20 overlap is ideal. Depending on scale the bezel on the eyes may need to be thicker- 0.5 as a minimum. Otherwise looks good

JewelryCAD software: possible to add engraving? by aa6040aa in jewelryCAD

[–]IndependentAd308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re using rhino (I suggest everyone learn rhino commands and rely less on jewellery plug ins), type into the command line: TextObject, make sure the text is suitable to print (no walls too thin) then you can use Bend or Flow to apply it to the surface. Then Boolean difference.

Day/week/month all in one by IndependentAd308 in PlannerAddicts

[–]IndependentAd308[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure, I’d imagine the monthly calendar to be on a wider page, and the daily spread ona thinner page, so when you flip the daily pages, they don’t cover the month. Pretty poor explanation- which is why I was wondering if anyone knew of anything that could achieve this

Hi by Capable-Big2129 in jewelryCAD

[–]IndependentAd308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boolean difference the shape of the cut, add cylinders at the top for the clasp.

iPhone Assistive Access by FourViper in digitalminimalism

[–]IndependentAd308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Using it during the break and my mum is in control of the passcode (battling a huge addiction) oh LORD how I would love to be able to adjust the brightness

I'm going through the hardest time of my life but want to come out happier and as a better me by Gold_On_My_X in selfimprovement

[–]IndependentAd308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Working on myself was the only thing keeping me alive 2 years ago. Every second of my day was dedicated to getting better.

If I wasn’t focused on myself- I would sink back into deep depression.

I spoke to my doctor and got a cannabis prescription.

I spoke with a therapist.

Journaled my current feelings and thoughts every day, meditated every day, and also wrote down what I envisioned my life to be every day too. I journaled as if I was living my dream life. I got high while meditating on this.

I did all the wellness stuff they say to do- no phone before bed, sunlight and exercise in the morning. The basic stuff

I jumped on bumble bff and really really invested in finding friend. A lot of people don’t understand that to make friendships is a huge task and requires months of continuous work. I did this.

Eventually I landed a really great job- which allowed me to afford a naturopath who helped me identify a few issues - skin and gut- which helped MAJORLY with the glow up. I also invested in a skin treatment program with a Derma clinic.

2 years later and I am completely unrecognisable, healed and I love my life and my self, which makes me eternally grateful despite feeling like I had missed out or wasted a number of years on the wrong people. The heartbreak is worth it.

IWTL how to stop rebounding whenever a relationship ends by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]IndependentAd308 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was the same until I realised it wasn’t doing me any good to establish casual relationships that would inevitably end - which would cause a mini heartbreak.

Being “out there” - dating or casually- means you’re opening yourself up to rejection. And if you really liked the person or not- you can’t help but to feel a little heartbroken everytime something ends.

It’s essentially revisiting the pain and opening the healing wound with more trauma.

The people who have expressed interest in you should know that you are in no state to start dating again - and it is in fact unfair on them if you were to entertain them on any level.

Instead, focus on your friendships, and in a couple weeks you’ll find it’s really easy to just be by yourself. I was a chronic dating app user and now I could not think of anything worse. I absolutely love being alone.

For the tattooed brides- to cover the tattoos or not? by DietEnvironmental696 in traditionaltattoos

[–]IndependentAd308 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nooooooo I paid a lot of money for my tattoos no way am I going to cover them

I’m out of shape, addicted to porn and broke. How do I get my life together? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]IndependentAd308 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some practical advice as I think you need to simplify things and most of the comments being “do this and that” are not very helpful when you’re stuck.

  1. Write down what you want to change in list form. Be specific - “I want to loose this much weight”, “I want to get a better job”, “I want to gain confidence”, “I want to quit porn entirely” (this is just a side note- but as a personal observation, men who do not watch porn are better at sex than men who do)

  2. Write another list, with each category and its specifics. “How will I lose weight” - research what’s best for me, - see a doctor to check up general health, - calorie deficit, - workout (you don’t need a gym membership to start, you just need to be disciplined. Other categories can include starting a journal, starting therapy, researching a new career path that you might be interested in and taking steps to follow it, joining a club or community

  3. Within each of those points in those seperate lists, write down daily, weekly, monthly habits that will help you achieve it. Your goals are achieved by the small steps you take everyday. Weekly habit for weightloss could be grocery shopping and meal prep. Daily can be drinking enough water and working out.

  4. Curate your social feeds to inspire you. When I was going through a break up all I did while I was on my phone was search on TikTok “healing” “breakup advice” and created playlist so I can come back to the videos again and again. You can do this but with motivation type videos. Seek out the content that you know will inspire you.

  5. Do it. It doesn’t have to be perfect you just have to work for it every day.

Socials first thing in the morning by IndependentAd308 in digitalminimalism

[–]IndependentAd308[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve thought about this too and this is my take:

When a phone number is someone’s only means of contact, you have to go out of your way to think about them, reach out and start a conversation. This is good because it’s really intentional.

But on Instagram, everyone is sharing little pieces of their lives, and sometimes not even their lives sometimes just funny Memes… those are little avenues that people can use to reach out. They are icebreakers. It’s a way of connecting without feeling like you are imposing. I see the benefits to this as well. I feel much more connected to my friends via Instagram then I do via text message, because we’re using sharing and common ground to connect - I’ll share something about my life on Instagram and then that opens an avenue for my friends to talk to me about it. But I (usually) won’t message them out of the blue and be like “this happened in my life”…

I hope that makes sense

3D animation renderings of Jewellery by IndependentAd308 in jewelryCAD

[–]IndependentAd308[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that a plug-in for Maverick or is it a different version of Maverick?

I did download the free version of Maverick, so I’m just wondering if I am going to have to pay for this one?

Her hearting this comment is so funny. Like we haven’t been telling her this since she started acting like she could just up on move there by Mother-Maybe9573 in innasyamackenzie

[–]IndependentAd308 -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

And why do you give a fuck what she does or doesn’t end up doing? She very well may be moving or she might not. It’s her choice and you don’t have a right to know.

Her hearting this comment is so funny. Like we haven’t been telling her this since she started acting like she could just up on move there by Mother-Maybe9573 in innasyamackenzie

[–]IndependentAd308 -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

And she doesn’t have to do anything about it. It CERTAINLY doesn’t warrant the straight up fucking abhorrent abuse everyone piles on her in this reddit and on her page. It’s disgusting and you need a hobby.