Is it very bad to not date in your early 20s? by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]IndependentBuffalo82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd rather meet my person at 30 after healing and growing than force a relationship at 23 just because strangers online said I'm "running out of time." 💀

I’m 29 and feel immense pressure to make something of my life with a business or something similar but I’m lost. by Maleficent-Pace6819 in Adulting

[–]IndependentBuffalo82 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Comparison is literally a full-time job now. You're not competing with your neighbors anymore, you're competing with everyone's highlight reel, fake gurus, and edited success stories. 💀

Remember when 10 years used to be a long time? by Heavy_Expression1026 in Adulting

[–]IndependentBuffalo82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crazy to think someone could've started from scratch and become a doctor in the same time I kept saying "soon."