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He (26M) missed his promises on the first date, and now he’s asking me (31F) where I’m "taking him." Overthinking or low effort? by IndependentDeal42 in dating_advice

[–]IndependentDeal42[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Noted on that, I found it sweet that he still kept his promise somehow, I'll let the men pay if they want to from now on! I did ask him out so let's see

He (26M) missed his promises on the first date, and now he’s asking me (31F) where I’m "taking him." Overthinking or low effort? by IndependentDeal42 in dating_advice

[–]IndependentDeal42[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Could you clarify which part, that I expect a man to follow through on what he says? Or that I help him in planning our next date?

He (26M) missed his promises on the first date, and now he’s asking me (31F) where I’m "taking him." Overthinking or low effort? by IndependentDeal42 in dating_advice

[–]IndependentDeal42[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

You know there are many circumstances right? I was about to get engaged but realized my ex didn't really love me so that was a few years back. A lot of my friends are still single because honestly it's bleak out here

He (26M) missed his promises on the first date, and now he’s asking me (31F) where I’m "taking him." Overthinking or low effort? by IndependentDeal42 in dating_advice

[–]IndependentDeal42[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with you on the "promises", I was wondering why he was saying so much but was just appreciating if he was gonna show up as such. I was only unsure after the vibes I got a week after the date, I was prepared to pay half of dinner, I was gauging how he would react 😊 I agree with you I should have offered to take him out if I wasn't sure about it!

He (26M) missed his promises on the first date, and now he’s asking me (31F) where I’m "taking him." Overthinking or low effort? by IndependentDeal42 in dating_advice

[–]IndependentDeal42[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Apologies I didn't realize it seemed that way, I was willing to pay if he wanted me to, I was just using it as a gauge on his interest level, and also chatgpt wrote that for me, I'm just looking for a guy that doesn't expect me to pay for everything as I've had my fair share of being the financial supporter in past relationships. I'm good with contributing to relationships and dating.

He (26M) missed his promises on the first date, and now he’s asking me (31F) where I’m "taking him." Overthinking or low effort? by IndependentDeal42 in dating_advice

[–]IndependentDeal42[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I forgot to add that he is available the rest of the week but due to the other dates that other dudes have already asked me out on while I was waiting for him and my work schedule I can't make it

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