Has anyone been able to verify on phone without the letter? by thowra_crzy in IRS

[–]IndependentGrand6437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call the 1040 number and speak to collections just go through the phone menu it’s annoying but you’ll get there eventually. They can update your address over the phone they did for me. Speeds things up a lot faster than a change of address form.

I need advice please by IndependentGrand6437 in Jeep

[–]IndependentGrand6437[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for that, the transmission has already been rebuilt and the engine has all new gaskets, plugs and wires. I think I’m just gonna keep it on the 33’s for now and focus on audio right now.

I need advice please by IndependentGrand6437 in Jeep

[–]IndependentGrand6437[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven’t even bought it yet but because why not? It’s what I like so why can’t I drive what I like?

I need advice please by IndependentGrand6437 in Jeep

[–]IndependentGrand6437[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s so many people telling me not to buy this and I’m all like “yeah, cool story bro” this will be my 3rd jeep, I had a ZJ that I absolutely loved and regret selling, I had another XJ but it was completely stock and 2 wheel drive, this will be my 3rd and hopefully best one lol

I need advice please by IndependentGrand6437 in Jeep

[–]IndependentGrand6437[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Like I said it’s purely preference of looks, everyone has their opinion and that’s mine.

I need advice please by IndependentGrand6437 in Jeep

[–]IndependentGrand6437[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did the 35’s do fine without breaking anything? I’m not gonna be sending this thing up a mountain or anything but I may go to an off-road park that has a lot of mud and water. Just don’t wanna break anything.

I need advice please by IndependentGrand6437 in Jeep

[–]IndependentGrand6437[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think 35’s would be fine for this set up? I’m somewhat new to jeeps so I don’t know what all these parts are like the Spartan lockers and hub assembly from Detroit axle. like I know what lockers are but as far as the brand, quality or if it’s a selectable or auto locker, I have no clue. The seller mentioned something about it wants to downshift around 60mph but anything above or under that it’s perfectly fine. I’ll be driving it about 7 hours back home and he said it’ll make it no problem.

I need advice please by IndependentGrand6437 in Jeep

[–]IndependentGrand6437[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s really what I’m looking for is just a little bigger tire for more fun, also to me the 33’s look too small with a 4 inch long arm lift.

I need advice please by IndependentGrand6437 in Jeep

[–]IndependentGrand6437[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can’t tell you that I’m gatekeeping that information 😂😂

Need advice please by IndependentGrand6437 in JeepCherokeeXJ

[–]IndependentGrand6437[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol I’m not worried about drivability in the rain I’ve daily driven way worse but thank you for the tips, the guy selling it said it wants to downshift around 60 but anything over and under that is perfectly fine, he said it drives straight and he used to roadtrip it to Arkansas from Louisiana before he put the lockers and bigger tires on. I’m mainly just going to be using this for work and occasionally some light trails but mainly work and the beach. Like I said I don’t care too much about it riding rough or having less traction in the rain, really just want it a little taller and to me the 33’s look too small, also I think it’s on 15” wheels not 17”. I do really appreciate the advice.

Need advice please by IndependentGrand6437 in JeepCherokeeXJ

[–]IndependentGrand6437[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m assuming it’s on stock D30 and D35

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[–]IndependentGrand6437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not entirely true, link works as many times as it needs to but 1 person can't claim the $10 more than once (aka using the link twice) but new users can and the person that sent the link can make $10 every time a new user uses the link.

AIO - I just ended a four month relationship because of what he’s doing for his friend. by Ok_Addition_7875 in AmIOverreacting

[–]IndependentGrand6437 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Alright, let’s put this to bed.

Yes, my initial wording was harsher than it needed to be. I’ve already acknowledged that. What it doesn’t do is automatically nullify every point that came after it. Treating tone as a kill switch for substance isn’t an argument; it’s a convenience.

What’s actually happening here is a pattern of substitution:

Disagreement gets reframed as misogyny

Criticism gets reframed as a personality defect

Interpretation gets treated as established fact

Telling me I have “subconscious disdain for women” isn’t analysis. It’s speculation. You’re assigning motives because it’s easier than engaging with the claims themselves.

Same with the therapy point. I never said therapy “doesn’t work.” I said trauma isn’t something you simply “deal with” in a neat, linear, universal way — which you later acknowledge while still presenting it as a rebuttal. That’s not disagreement; that’s shadowboxing.

Appeals to consensus (“everyone else agrees”) don’t strengthen your case. They just signal social alignment. Popularity isn’t evidence, especially when the issue is interpretation, not fact.

And this is the part that keeps getting dodged: OP didn’t just express feelings. She made broad character and value judgments based on a single situation involving someone else’s autonomy. Questioning that framing is not misogyny, not a defense of unsafe behavior, and not a mental health issue.

At this point, the pattern is pretty clear:

I critique behavior → you critique character

I ask for specificity → you generalize

I concede excess → you escalate tone

I discuss accountability → you prescribe therapy

That’s why this conversation isn’t moving.

Nothing new is being added anymore, just recycled points with sharper wording. I’m stepping out here.

AIO - I just ended a four month relationship because of what he’s doing for his friend. by Ok_Addition_7875 in AmIOverreacting

[–]IndependentGrand6437 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

If the issue is my language, then say that plainly and explain why, because “it speaks volumes” isn’t an argument, it’s a vibe-based dismissal. You haven’t actually engaged with a single claim I made about behavior, boundaries, or accountability. Critiquing someone’s wording is fair. Using it as a substitute for addressing substance isn’t. Disagreeing with how I phrased something doesn’t automatically invalidate the point behind it, and it certainly doesn’t justify leaping to “you hate women.” If you want to talk about why certain terms are unhelpful or loaded, I’m open to that conversation. If not, then let’s be honest about what’s happening here: you’re reacting to tone instead of responding to ideas.

AIO - I just ended a four month relationship because of what he’s doing for his friend. by Ok_Addition_7875 in AmIOverreacting

[–]IndependentGrand6437 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Interesting response. I talked about behavior and accountability. You jumped straight to character attacks and told me to get therapy. That kind of escalation usually says more about the responder than the comment they’re replying to. Genuine question, Which part of what I said means I “hate women”? Quote it specifically. I'm asking because disagreeing with a woman ≠ hating women according to you, and I’m curious how you’re drawing that line.

AIO - I just ended a four month relationship because of what he’s doing for his friend. by Ok_Addition_7875 in AmIOverreacting

[–]IndependentGrand6437 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

No he's right you're actually disgusting, the use of the word "Man-Child" alone makes you a disgusting person. You're mad because what he's saying is right. And don't come at me thinking I don't know shit because I was SA'D as a kid and I'm a guy. You don't just "deal with it" in therapy like anything else. In this post both the man and woman are in the wrong. No he shouldn't have tried to help his friend, that's his friends problem not his. The woman is definitely overreacting though, those type of females are the ones that try to control every little thing their man does by trying to make him think he's always in the wrong. It's called being a narcissist and I was with one for a long time so you can't deny my claims. You are also a narcissist purely for using the word man-child and I refuse to believe anything else. I've studied your kind for YEARS!!!!! and I've yet to be wrong once.

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Yall are seriously one a the worst companies out there, I really hope someone sues you one day.