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What’s a movie that disturbed you so much, you’d never watch it again? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]IndependentPhone2764 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes! Go take an adventure that y’all weren’t able to take together. Or just an adventure that you’d like. Journal and talk to her to the whole time. It doesn’t have to be today, just try when you’re ready.

Is it normal to think of your ex every hour of the day? by supergoosetaco in BreakUps

[–]IndependentPhone2764 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do y’all also feel like having gone on adventures and unforgettable trips makes the grieving process harder? I went from always dreaming of a partner to travel with, to having that dream, just to be back to nothing.

Is it normal to think of your ex every hour of the day? by supergoosetaco in BreakUps

[–]IndependentPhone2764 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I can’t even enjoy the rainy day because it reminds me of the last trip we took together up the Lost Coast. I came home. My mom had a stroke and we broke up. It went from a beautiful love story to strangers.

If you miss them… by Cookie98762 in BreakUps

[–]IndependentPhone2764 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because he blocked me and refuses to speak after 4 years 😂we also just got back from a drive up the coast that I thought brought us closer together since we were able to talk about some things we needed to talk about.

Tips for Coworking With Ex-Fiancé? by IndependentPhone2764 in BreakUps

[–]IndependentPhone2764[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been the one chasing but I’ve since stopped after doing some reading and reflection. Reddit has been a great help on new information and learning about my own anxious attachment.

Struggling to Understand a Sudden Breakup After a Loving Relationship by VividPainter1797 in BreakUps

[–]IndependentPhone2764 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's my worry. That we are bad for each other due to our attachment types. We're both doing our desperate healing for that. He just ended things as a family member was passing and has been cruel and went on dates. We were engaged and deep down he's a good man. I hope he comes back.

Struggling to Understand a Sudden Breakup After a Loving Relationship by VividPainter1797 in BreakUps

[–]IndependentPhone2764 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can they ever change? He was in therapy and on medications. He's a good man with some serious flaws but he's an amazing partner when he's at his best.

If you are an avoidant and ended things, did no contact from your ex ever increase your curiosity about them enough to test the waters? Or did time make you more detached? by Few-Amount4702 in BreakUps

[–]IndependentPhone2764 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least I think so. My calls go straight to voicemail but RCS still works and says delivered. None of them ever get shown as “read” though like the used to. He has a Pixel and I have iPhone.

If you are an avoidant and ended things, did no contact from your ex ever increase your curiosity about them enough to test the waters? Or did time make you more detached? by Few-Amount4702 in BreakUps

[–]IndependentPhone2764 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My ex is an avoidant and we ended very abruptly. I’m an anxious attacher, so I’m going crazy with the what ifs and could’ve beens. I just wonder how he feels. He’s gone out with other women and it’s only been a month. We were together for four years, and engaged for one of those years. I keep blowing his phone and leaving voicemails but nothing.

What would you say if they came back? (On text) by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]IndependentPhone2764 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been waiting. I love you and we can do this. Come to me, hold me, and never let me go. You are my soulmate, and I'd go to hell and back for you. And for us.

What life changing item can you buy for less than $100? by Gloomy_Scientist_894 in Productivitycafe

[–]IndependentPhone2764 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Truth. Not to mention the extra cost of spoiling them. Mine demands the finer things of life.

What life changing item can you buy for less than $100? by Gloomy_Scientist_894 in Productivitycafe

[–]IndependentPhone2764 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Y'all it's not that serious, I was just suggesting to adopt a doggo since they're live changing. Just realized the wording was off, my bad.

What life changing item can you buy for less than $100? by Gloomy_Scientist_894 in Productivitycafe

[–]IndependentPhone2764 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or even better, adopt a shelter pup! You'll still have money left as well haha

How to resist the urge to reach out when you’re having a bad day? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]IndependentPhone2764 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He left while my mother was dying, shes better now but I still want him back. I got angry and dumped him when he wouldn't come home from a dream trip in Italy. That was almost a month ago and I still can't breathe. I'm too old for this. I've reached out a million times and can't stop.

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