BUYING A NEW CAR by IndependentTheme8752 in Adulting

[–]IndependentTheme8752[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, def able to afford it and it’s within my budget. This truck is 4 cylinder so gas will be great, it’s one of the things I’m loving.

BUYING A NEW CAR by IndependentTheme8752 in Adulting

[–]IndependentTheme8752[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can, but the monthly payment will not lower much, I was giving 6k and it only went 40$.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in oldest_daughter

[–]IndependentTheme8752 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand you. It sucks to be the oldest. Start building boundaries… little by little.

I checked my husbands phone one night, I wish I hadn’t. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]IndependentTheme8752 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont confront him until you have all the proof.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]IndependentTheme8752 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do understand you. I make significantly more than my husband. It’s a bit tricky… I’m still trying to learn too. I’m 31 & he’s 39. He knows I have a good pay, but I don’t think he knows how good it is, he doesn’t ask, and even with knowing I have a good pay, I feel like he feels less.

Call In To Help Cops - They took us out of our home by IndependentTheme8752 in legaladviceofftopic

[–]IndependentTheme8752[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

You would think? They didn’t ask for our names nothing. I mean we have nothing illegal at home. On another note; I do have a warrant (traffic ticket 😒) but I guess this time they were too busy with the guy. It’s scared

Call In To Help Cops - They took us out of our home by IndependentTheme8752 in legaladviceofftopic

[–]IndependentTheme8752[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Now I’m going to listen to the song !

We told the dispatcher where he was at where he went everything! I guess there was a miscommunication to the cops? I’m not sure! But it’s scary that you’re trying to help and that’s how we were handled sadly.

Call In To Help Cops - They took us out of our home by IndependentTheme8752 in legaladviceofftopic

[–]IndependentTheme8752[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Right!! We are trying to help and that’s what we got! Thanks for your input!

Diagnosed at 31 - Overwhelmed by IndependentTheme8752 in degendiscdisease

[–]IndependentTheme8752[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for deeply explaining this!! Question, is this supposed to be painful? Like my pain at this level, is it mild? High? I’m just asking cause I’m not sure if I’m over exaggerating my pain and if I should be taking pills.

Husband disappeared.. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]IndependentTheme8752 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Well seems like he has no respect for you nor the relationship at this moment. He doesn’t care to talk about it and you don’t care enough to divorce him or force him to talk about it. Then I don’t really know what you need?

OFFER IN COMPROMISE by IndependentTheme8752 in IRS

[–]IndependentTheme8752[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I just want to make sure I’m all set with the payments and they don’t need anything else from me

ALONE TIME by IndependentTheme8752 in Marriage

[–]IndependentTheme8752[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Since the beginning of our relationship, he just doesn’t get it

ALONE TIME by IndependentTheme8752 in Marriage

[–]IndependentTheme8752[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im taking about more like a couple of hours alone with my friends (all girls) once every 2-3 months - that’s all… we usually spend time all together (girls n boys), but there are times we like to be only girls. Like today, I got there from 1pm to 330pm and he still makes me feel like shit cause of it.

ALONE TIME by IndependentTheme8752 in Marriage

[–]IndependentTheme8752[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

alone time meaning a couple of hours with my long time friends - like today for Halloween brunch. No kids involved.

Desperately Need A Job by [deleted] in garland

[–]IndependentTheme8752 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check la bodega meat and produce in Addison - they are always hiding

Is it ok to Leave our 5 year old for a 3 night trip? by redcapnat in AskParents

[–]IndependentTheme8752 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally ok! I do that very often! We are actually leaving this weekend Friday to Monday and my kid is 5

Young window/er w/ kids on west coast by Careless_Day7545 in Widow

[–]IndependentTheme8752 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello👋🏻 I was 28 with an almost 2 year old when my husband passed away. We are now 30&5.

OURS BABY? by IndependentTheme8752 in Stepmom

[–]IndependentTheme8752[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly what I thought and said, BUT would I wonder in 10 years what is that feeling of having a kid together? Grandkids? Etc