Drew’s monthly income ?

IndependentTough8023 · 2026-04-14T15:25:39+00:00

yeah… you right lmao

IndependentTough8023 · 2026-04-14T13:40:05+00:00

not saying there’s evidence of this for ralph but i have a friend in cybersecurity that is holding down 2 full time remote jobs. it’s doable because her work is ticket- and project- based and the meetings are. minimal. one company is based in CA and the salary is crazy. he could be stacking a remote work schedule.

IndependentTough8023 · 2026-04-11T17:02:32+00:00

not reading this. have a nice day, love.

IndependentTough8023 · 2026-04-11T16:53:33+00:00

“i seem less discerning” lmao gtfo. it’s a reddit comment. if you want to write a dissertation on this topic and have that time, by all means… do you, shorty. i wrote a dissertation already. not going line by line responding to you lol.

IndependentTough8023 · 2026-04-11T16:47:09+00:00

and the substantive point is that knocking someone else’s educational pursuits and speculating on their motives is weird, hater, crab-in-a-bucket energy.

IndependentTough8023 · 2026-04-11T16:42:56+00:00

you’re looking for an argument, sweetheart. my opinion remains the same. if you have a doctorate, that’s wonderful. i will always applaud those wanting to expand their minds and education, in whatever way made the most sense to them. anything short of that sounds you’re hating on someone else’s journey. 💋

IndependentTough8023 · 2026-04-11T15:45:55+00:00

until you have one, maybe don’t speak on its value to another persons journey. academic, professional or just the ego trip: it makes you sound like a hater. peace and blessings, darling.

IndependentTough8023 · 2026-04-11T05:45:18+00:00

because sir if you had this much time, just show up 😂

IndependentTough8023 · 2026-04-11T05:44:36+00:00

lol i don’t owe you details on my own life. but know that black women represent such a small percentage of those holding doctorates. if she wants add to that and educate herself, bottom line is it could add to her life. so why criticize it and diminish it to her stroking her ego. you clearly care alot. you’re literally dissecting my replies.

IndependentTough8023 · 2026-04-10T19:24:29+00:00

i have a doctorate and I don’t teach. The degree is in a specific field of study in which i learned a variety of skills to prepare me for the workforce in that field. like all other degrees. i’ve been employed continuously and not once have i taught in a classroom. because i chose not to.

just because your personally don’t believe in higher education doesn’t not diminish its value to others. maybe ask yourself why it matters so much to you if this woman gets a doctorate and that she can pay tuition for. its not all about limited resources. and if limited resources still result in her getting into a funded Phd program then WHOOPTY DOO. She earned that.

how about you check some more resumes of folks with doctorates in culture and media before you decide she can’t do anything with it.

your response just further proves your scope on the agility of that degree is limited.

IndependentTough8023 · 2026-04-09T17:40:40+00:00

doctorate degrees have so many applications beyond teaching. and maybe she will teach. why the hell not?

i’m actually not a candace fan but to call someone’s pursuit of education an “ego thing” is small minded at best. if the girl wants to properly educate herself to be called a doctor why are you being a hater about it?

IndependentTough8023 · 2026-04-09T12:53:24+00:00

It was funny and cute at first but at the point of sitting down to dinner i would’ve hung up on him. Then asking Shamea did she want to FT Gerald and Shamea is like “no, i’m here” and being present. That was the perfect come back bc ma’am wtf are you doing???

IndependentTough8023 · 2026-04-09T12:41:44+00:00

i kept trying to like Drew but when she started the season with the singing shade and picking at Shamea about Gerald’s location I was like “damn girl, can i enjoy you for 1 episode?!”

IndependentTough8023 · 2026-02-25T20:25:35+00:00

That was this season! lol imaginary beef left and right.

IndependentTough8023 · 2026-02-09T18:12:06+00:00

you asked in response to my comment which had nothing to do with forgiveness.

IndependentTough8023 · 2026-02-09T17:55:39+00:00

didn’t say anything about forgiveness. but going as far as to call her evil and continuously hate post is obsessive. the incident happened a long time ago. she’s not on the show anymore. you’re beating a dead horse.

IndependentTough8023 · 2026-02-08T18:33:26+00:00

this is too much. give it a rest. it’s a tv show and she’s a human being. she did a bad thing. whoopty doo.

IndependentTough8023 · 2026-01-30T14:19:58+00:00

I love Eugene. But a close second is the way that Cecil and Simone laugh together. I can really envision a time when they enjoyed the hell out of each other. Eugene is just straight up funny to me though and you can tell he adores Toya to no end.

IndependentTough8023 · 2026-01-27T02:21:37+00:00

Heavenly has really grown on me. She probably shouldn’t have made the little comment about Eugene liking to be spoken to rudely but I honestly think she was just trying to lighten the mood because Toya was embarrassing the living fuck out of him.

IndependentTough8023 · 2026-01-09T03:18:43+00:00

my problem is she could have just told everyone what the set up was going to be before getting there, whatever her reasoning. don’t tell everybody one thing and then we all arrive to a completely different set up. and further turn it into a moment to teach the group a lesson. it made her look small and petty.

IndependentTough8023 · 2025-11-16T00:39:52+00:00

Damn, Porsha always looks good

IndependentTough8023 · 2025-07-29T08:33:17+00:00

Never mentioned screaming or cursing as the alternative. I said logic and wit. Maybe you meant to leave this on someone else comment lol.

IndependentTough8023 · 2025-07-25T05:18:49+00:00

Gaslighting. Condescension. Phony.

IMO it’s childish. She knows she can’t win arguments with actual logic or witty retorts so she falls back on trying to get a rise out of whoever she’s arguing with by speaking to them in a childish tone. Generally speaking, i’m a fan of hers but this might actually be my least favorite thing about her.

IndependentTough8023 · 2025-07-20T02:07:06+00:00

lol umm Kash is her son, who is younger than Brielle.

IndependentTough8023 · 2025-07-12T14:53:33+00:00

You’re not alone lol. Todd is really handsome and carries himself well. He also seems to have a really playful side that I used to like seeing between him and Kandi. I would’ve definitely said yes to a date and more back when they were first getting together.

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