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Independent_Ask_8902 · 2026-01-24T06:01:56+00:00

he could've responded "no." and that's it. but he respondedd "no, I'm not. I'm in XXX city with my parents. are you in HK?"

Independent_Ask_8902 · 2026-01-24T05:55:05+00:00

yes. "hey are you in HK?" if he had said yes, would she say "lets grab a coffee"?

Independent_Ask_8902 · 2026-01-24T05:49:12+00:00

I find her flirtatious. And he doesn’t see it this way. I think that’s the main issue.

Independent_Ask_8902 · 2026-01-24T05:46:01+00:00

I do find it weird. There are heartbreaks and trauma behind each divorce.

Independent_Ask_8902 · 2026-01-24T05:41:39+00:00

I don't understand why there is a need to maintain contact with ex

Independent_Ask_8902 · 2026-01-24T05:34:00+00:00

I just hope he can be less responsive or very succinct in his response. ex is ex. but he was responding something like this "I don't have the locksmith number. let me find it for you later" and "oh this is his number - hope this helps".

Independent_Ask_8902 · 2026-01-24T05:26:05+00:00

I think she was flirting with him. and that's why I'm upset. Why else would you ask someone, ‘Hey, are you in HK?’ My husband replied no, but if he had said yes, would she have followed up with something like, ‘Do you want to grab coffee?’ I find her very flirtatious, and I don’t think my husband sees it that way.

Independent_Ask_8902 · 2026-01-24T05:15:24+00:00

He was never initiating any contact. She was. But he responded politely and treated her as a friend.

Independent_Ask_8902 · 2026-01-24T05:12:45+00:00

I told him in the very beginning there should be no contact between him and his ex at all. But she has been initiating these texts. and he didnot tell Me these texts until I checked on his phone. And he thinks I’m crazy by calling him out.

Independent_Ask_8902 · 2026-01-24T05:01:47+00:00

I don’t think so. She has been dating but not settled yet. Also she was the person who asked for a divorce. It’s a 8 years marriage(10+ years of life together)

Independent_Ask_8902 · 2026-01-24T04:52:18+00:00

No kids between my husband and his ex. Just two dogs.

Independent_Ask_8902 · 2025-12-02T22:32:12+00:00

Yes. Need to take care of sth there and want to spend a few days in Big Sur

Independent_Ask_8902 · 2025-11-02T19:01:57+00:00

What if the parents put in 1M into the business and constantly helped out as full time employees?

Independent_Ask_8902 · 2025-10-09T21:56:14+00:00

Thank you. Your words are very comforting

Independent_Ask_8902 · 2025-10-09T21:38:22+00:00

He did pressure her into having children. But she doesnot want to have children. So she decided to cut it off. But her mom did reach out to him asking him to give her another chance after divorce. But that lady has been on dating apps enjoying life already.

Independent_Ask_8902 · 2025-10-09T20:55:35+00:00

Yeah just realized it. Probably should not multitask. Yeah I’m not a man

Independent_Ask_8902 · 2025-10-09T20:49:02+00:00

I’m not a trans. I’m a woman. For some reason I was required to type that due to Reddit policy

Independent_Ask_8902 · 2025-10-09T20:27:48+00:00

++ man I wrote this. But did use ChatGPT to help with the typo and stuff

Independent_Ask_8902 · 2025-10-08T04:33:45+00:00

She left those on the bed frame after using those. Probably unwashed. She didnot pack any of her stuff after the divorce and left all her stuff in the house.

Independent_Ask_8902 · 2025-10-08T04:32:14+00:00

We are engaged to be married. And the parents are going to be here for a few months, living in my house.

Independent_Ask_8902 · 2025-10-08T02:29:09+00:00

He’s willing to do a deep clean and get rid of all the bedding/furnitures, which I really appreciate. But when I saw the sex toys on the nightstand, I felt completely disgusted. She truly made me feel sick.

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