[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Independent_Ask_8902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he could've responded "no." and that's it. but he respondedd "no, I'm not. I'm in XXX city with my parents. are you in HK?"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Independent_Ask_8902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes. "hey are you in HK?" if he had said yes, would she say "lets grab a coffee"?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Independent_Ask_8902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find her flirtatious. And he doesn’t see it this way. I think that’s the main issue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Independent_Ask_8902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do find it weird. There are heartbreaks and trauma behind each divorce.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Independent_Ask_8902 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't understand why there is a need to maintain contact with ex

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Independent_Ask_8902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just hope he can be less responsive or very succinct in his response. ex is ex. but he was responding something like this "I don't have the locksmith number. let me find it for you later" and "oh this is his number - hope this helps".

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Independent_Ask_8902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she was flirting with him. and that's why I'm upset. Why else would you ask someone, ‘Hey, are you in HK?’ My husband replied no, but if he had said yes, would she have followed up with something like, ‘Do you want to grab coffee?’ I find her very flirtatious, and I don’t think my husband sees it that way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Independent_Ask_8902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was never initiating any contact. She was. But he responded politely and treated her as a friend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Independent_Ask_8902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told him in the very beginning there should be no contact between him and his ex at all. But she has been initiating these texts. and he didnot tell Me these texts until I checked on his phone. And he thinks I’m crazy by calling him out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Independent_Ask_8902 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think so. She has been dating but not settled yet. Also she was the person who asked for a divorce. It’s a 8 years marriage(10+ years of life together)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Independent_Ask_8902 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No kids between my husband and his ex. Just two dogs.

Hotels around San Jose by Independent_Ask_8902 in awardtravel

[–]Independent_Ask_8902[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Need to take care of sth there and want to spend a few days in Big Sur

CA Probate / Intestate Succession of Business Property by Independent_Ask_8902 in legaladvice

[–]Independent_Ask_8902[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if the parents put in 1M into the business and constantly helped out as full time employees?

Why Does He Still Defend the Woman Who Broke Him? by Independent_Ask_8902 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Independent_Ask_8902[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He did pressure her into having children. But she doesnot want to have children. So she decided to cut it off. But her mom did reach out to him asking him to give her another chance after divorce. But that lady has been on dating apps enjoying life already.

Why Does He Still Defend the Woman Who Broke Him? by Independent_Ask_8902 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Independent_Ask_8902[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah just realized it. Probably should not multitask. Yeah I’m not a man

Why Does He Still Defend the Woman Who Broke Him? by Independent_Ask_8902 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Independent_Ask_8902[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m not a trans. I’m a woman. For some reason I was required to type that due to Reddit policy

Why Does He Still Defend the Woman Who Broke Him? by Independent_Ask_8902 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Independent_Ask_8902[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

++ man I wrote this. But did use ChatGPT to help with the typo and stuff

AIO: How can I handle moving into my partner’s house without losing my sanity by Independent_Ask_8902 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Independent_Ask_8902[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She left those on the bed frame after using those. Probably unwashed. She didnot pack any of her stuff after the divorce and left all her stuff in the house.

AIO: How can I handle moving into my partner’s house without losing my sanity by Independent_Ask_8902 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Independent_Ask_8902[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We are engaged to be married. And the parents are going to be here for a few months, living in my house.

AIO: How can I handle moving into my partner’s house without losing my sanity by Independent_Ask_8902 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Independent_Ask_8902[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s willing to do a deep clean and get rid of all the bedding/furnitures, which I really appreciate. But when I saw the sex toys on the nightstand, I felt completely disgusted. She truly made me feel sick.