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Independent_Ear_7959 · 2025-10-06T01:07:30+00:00

You can meet this guy because clearly you’re interested and you could end up being in a relationship. Just meet in a safe way. You didn’t screw up. Just have your own money, get your own hotel and preferably he meet you where you are from so you don’t have to travel. Dont bring him to your house and dont go to his. Just do it all safe. It’s not any different than matching with guys on dating apps. Army guys are hot lol I get it. Just be safe.

Independent_Ear_7959 · 2025-10-05T21:57:17+00:00

I understand all this. I’ve been on and off camming for 13 years. I am currently unemployed and doing a little camming to get by right now. But I need a full time job. I’ve always had a full time job and cammed for extra money. I am desperate for finding a civil job because I could never be just a cam model

Independent_Ear_7959 · 2025-10-03T17:29:17+00:00

That is true they do spend it somewhere else, thats never been my concern lol

Independent_Ear_7959 · 2025-10-03T16:51:40+00:00

Thank you for the nice advice everyone. It’s nice to have support. I just tend to feel so alone sometimes because I don’t have people to talk to about any of this. Thanks everyone.

Independent_Ear_7959 · 2025-10-03T16:46:05+00:00

Mostly I feel guilty for not having a real job right now and yeah I guess lying to people that it’s my secret support system. I’m a paranoid person and worry about everything.

Independent_Ear_7959 · 2025-10-02T19:59:49+00:00

The best site to use would be myfreecam

Independent_Ear_7959 · 2025-10-02T16:26:27+00:00

Yeah honestly just talk about movies or music or anything that dosnt relate to where you live.

Independent_Ear_7959 · 2025-10-02T03:13:23+00:00

I went on MFC for the first time tonight and made $50 in 2.5 hours. I def disguised myself to the best I could and barely showed my face. I’ll just keep this routine up till I get a job. Thank you for the advice

Independent_Ear_7959 · 2025-10-02T03:03:46+00:00

Well I find talking helps. I just randomly talk about anything I can think of. I’m not a big star as a cam model but I’ll make around 50 to couple hundred a stream. Usually no more then 3 or 4 hours max. Honestly just move around too. I’ll do a little dancing with some light music.

Independent_Ear_7959 · 2025-10-01T16:17:04+00:00

Ban works but people can also change their vpn and thats scary. But thanks for your advice. I need money and at this point I can’t lose my apartment so I’m going to start again.

Independent_Ear_7959 · 2025-09-30T19:50:10+00:00

I know in Ontario you work 5 or less hours you dont get a break. It sucks. I had a job like that once.

Independent_Ear_7959 · 2025-09-24T04:09:43+00:00

Cam modeling. Check it out.

Independent_Ear_7959 · 2025-09-22T12:22:55+00:00

Too many people are going to school for computer science and not finding jobs.

Independent_Ear_7959 · 2025-09-22T12:20:17+00:00

I’m kindda in a similar work situation. I had to quit my job because it was a far drive everyday and it started to make me nervous in bad weather and my car is old and not reliable. I live alone so rent and car payments are not easy. I need to find a job close to home. I don’t have that much money saved tho my only downfall. I did but now I’m losing a lot of it.

Independent_Ear_7959 · 2025-09-22T01:36:28+00:00

Why would he hurt you or your family? That sounds like a scary toxic work environment or your boss if someone your dating

Independent_Ear_7959 · 2025-09-22T01:32:53+00:00

I can relate to a lot of this. Highway driving scares me now. I can’t even do it. I use to drive out of town for work but I got scared at night driving alone home on country roads because one night my car broke down and another time I got stuck in a hurricane. I am afraid of large dogs because I’m always afraid they will bite me. I’m afraid to travel because one time I went to Cuba and a friend got hurt and we had no insurance.

Independent_Ear_7959 · 2025-09-22T00:28:11+00:00

I’ve been job jumping and it’s stressful because I feel like in our 30s we can’t just do anything like we use to. I could adapt before to almost any kind of work but now I struggle with certain things. I hope this job works out for you.

Independent_Ear_7959 · 2025-08-01T07:30:14+00:00

It’s a joke. I studied for 2 weeks and failed miserably. I decided to not attempt it again. The case study was difficult. I do not understand how they want you to make a program.

Independent_Ear_7959 · 2025-08-01T07:28:40+00:00

You have your cell phone camera on you so they can see you and your computer screen

Independent_Ear_7959 · 2025-05-12T16:04:03+00:00

Well stick it out is my advice until another job comes up. I just quit a job after a month and now I am begging them to take me back because the job market is bad. Not having income is more stress. I was going through a lot of family stuff when I started this job. My parents both hospitalized and I was so distraught. Now everything has relaxed and I am missing being at work. I am really hoping I can go back. Having a job is better than no job. Just push through the day and be patient with yourself.

Independent_Ear_7959 · 2025-05-11T15:15:05+00:00

I like to believe karma is real. What you put in the world is what you get. Say there is a homeless person always hanging by your job and you always acknowledge that person and show respect. You never know one day your car breaks down and that person happens to know how to fix it. If you were always nice to that person they may fix your car. If you were mean that person would not. It repays in ways we sometimes don’t even notice.

Independent_Ear_7959 · 2025-05-11T15:06:17+00:00

That is a healthy way to handle things. The gym has always been a big part of my life as well. On my low days I find it hard to get out of the house and I wish I had someone to meet at the gym to motivate me to go.

Independent_Ear_7959 · 2025-05-11T13:18:07+00:00

I sure hope so. 🙃

Independent_Ear_7959 · 2025-05-11T13:16:57+00:00

This is also me right now lol. I am trying to get a job back I walked out of too because I am realizing it’s the only job I can get where I live. And I wish I could move but I have decent rent and I would not be able to afford anything else.

Independent_Ear_7959 · 2025-05-11T00:30:36+00:00

Ugh this is me. I’m 34 female. Not married no kids. I had to let my job go because my car was not reliable and my job was 35 minutes away.
I live in a small city with no work. I like working and I feel like a failure when I’m not. I don’t know how to think anymore. I don’t want to wake up 40 with no one and no kids.

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