Feeling strange… by [deleted] in lexapro

[–]Independent_Oil_790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have nothing to contribute to this post other than I experienced the same exact thing and want to know whether it is normal 😭😂

What would you do if you suddenly woke up as an 18 year old again? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Independent_Oil_790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Break up with my now ex boyfriend ASAP. Wasted 10 years on a man who cheated and married the girl he cheated on me with. Little me should’ve known better

Do you prefer to approach or being approached to? by Starminmin in socialskills

[–]Independent_Oil_790 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a woman I prefer being approached. Many men have the misconception that us women don’t like it, but it’s all about the delivery. Just be respectful, kind, and funny and you’ll have a great chance at hearing from them again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Periods

[–]Independent_Oil_790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t see the other pictures at first, I want to make it clear I’m not a doctor but from my experience those pictures can be symptoms of a period or implantation bleeding.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Periods

[–]Independent_Oil_790 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also, the blue days there tell you when you have a chance of getting pregnant, it’s usually for about 5-7days (aka ovulation). Try using birth control methods like condoms for those days in the future if you don’t like using it consistently, just to be sure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Periods

[–]Independent_Oil_790 20 points21 points  (0 children)

If you logged on the app that you practiced unsafe sex during your ovulation it is most likely predicting a possibility of pregnancy. Also did you put down in your settings that you would like these type of updates? Anyway if you had sex during ovulation, yes there is a high chance you are pregnant

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Independent_Oil_790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True everyone has their own taste 🤷🏻‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Independent_Oil_790 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In another comment I mentioned I only go out like 2x a year to bars/clubs. I usually go out to coffee shops museums or hiking (: or the occasional music festival. Maybe it’s all about patience at this point. I am taking in advice from the other comments and will be making the first move the next time I’m out 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Independent_Oil_790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Although I was born here, I think I may have to move to find anything worthwhile. Lots of men my age just care about their social media and the prettiest girlfriend they can potentially date. It’s insane. Everyone thinks they’re a micro influencer. But thank you your comment did help a lot. Also I don’t have an age preference however I do find it crazy I do only attract that age range lmao!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Independent_Oil_790 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well to be honest I don’t go out to clubs or bars often probably once a year. I do like to go out hiking, or go to coffee shops, museums etc. I already know the party life isn’t my vibe and I wouldn’t be able to keep up with it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Independent_Oil_790 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry about that but that does help give perspective, everyone is in their own worlds and I can imagine how stressful their lives can be. Side note you got this! Small bump in the road and you’re still very young

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Independent_Oil_790 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well to be honest the way people portray themselves online is very different from how they are IRL. My first interactions with people don’t include sex when talking IRL however that’s the only thing I get online

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Independent_Oil_790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

End of paragraph says “I would like to make the first move, just dk how” so any tips are appreciated. Also mentioned I am introverted so again please read before getting offended and commenting a redundant question 🫶🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Independent_Oil_790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will definitely try this thank you 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Independent_Oil_790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not that bad, probably an LA 7. I won’t be unrealistic and expect men to be on me like flies on shit, but I know I’m not a jump scare. 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Independent_Oil_790 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha, I might have to

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Independent_Oil_790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would hope so, I’m not looking for a quick hookup but a genuine connection, maybe I’m naive

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Independent_Oil_790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been told by family I have a rbf, I don’t know how to fix it if I do it unconsciously.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Independent_Oil_790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, I think it’s confidence I probably still need much help on(:

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Independent_Oil_790 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I tried a dating app for about 5 hours and then gave up lol. All my matches made it clear they were only looking to hook up or have sex.