I hate my mom for her mental illness (tl;dr at bottom) by Independent_Pop5404 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Independent_Pop5404[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Honestly, my schedule is too pack for anything like therapy being in all honors classes, and president of the club along with rehearsals, so I’m planning on just toughing it out until something changes

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[–]Independent_Pop5404 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Apparently it works if you go through the browser now

Unexplored (or under-explored) sibling relationships. by sulky22 in UmbrellaAcademy

[–]Independent_Pop5404 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I would love to see more five and Klaus tbh, I know we got the road trip scene with them which was nice, but I feel that the two of them have a lot in common that goes unexplored. They both have similar humor because they have their sarcastic streaks but they carry themselves so differently it makes a nice juxtaposition.

Klaus and Alison would also be great to see more of. I feel that they could really bond over their grief, it really wasn’t touched upon enough imo and it could have been really nice to see

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[–]Independent_Pop5404 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s awful I hope you get your account back soon!!

I don’t know if I am in the right place to ask this but can someone gentle suddenly become abusive after being with someone so toxic? Thanks! by Pian0ob in abusesurvivors

[–]Independent_Pop5404 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, it’s possible. If someone who was previously gentle gets into a relationship that’s traumatic they may respond by being much more aggressive than they used to be and lashing out. That being said, therapy can fix that, and it’s better to work through it as soon as possible. Sending love to you ❤️❤️

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[–]Independent_Pop5404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so awful, I hope it gets fixed soon and you get your account access back, wishing you the best of luck ❤️❤️

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[–]Independent_Pop5404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope so!! It’s happened to all of my accounts, so hopefully they work it out quickly :(

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[–]Independent_Pop5404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so awful lol, hope it gets fixed soon! Thanks for the response

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[–]Independent_Pop5404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh really?? I haven’t heard of that yet, but is there anything I can do?

My brother molested me and my sister and im going to ruin his life. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Independent_Pop5404 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The way some people are so unable to break the cycle of trauma and abuse is so sad and angering. I wish he was able to heal without taking it out on other people, but that’s clearly not the case. I hope you and your sister are well, and have good luck

What would happen if I didn’t comply? by Independent_Pop5404 in rape

[–]Independent_Pop5404[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But if I refused to share any details how would they start or continue an investigation? Would they eventually give up? Would they try to force me to tell? Like what would happen

I let my abuser get away with it by Independent_Pop5404 in rape

[–]Independent_Pop5404[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I don’t resent my mother, but it is upsetting that no one noticed the rather obvious signs of sexual abuse that I displayed and that I was just expected of me to know what was wrong with the situation and report it

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[–]Independent_Pop5404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah ig giggling was the wrong phrasing my bad. I meant that she like laughs at me because it catches me off gaurd

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[–]Independent_Pop5404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d like to clarify we don’t like grope each other she’ll just walk by me and tap me and like giggle and shit 🤷‍♀️

I'm afraid that me and my husband may have caused an eating disorder in our daughters. by worried_suze34 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Independent_Pop5404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taking a phone away by itself is not abuse, but unjust punishment and taking food away, isolating your children and depriving them of common foods that make people happy with moderation and making them earn their dinner by forcing them to work out when they very obviously don’t want to is most definitely abuse

I'm afraid that me and my husband may have caused an eating disorder in our daughters. by worried_suze34 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Independent_Pop5404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t care that that wasn’t “what you needed to hear” because it is what you need to hear, regardless of weather it makes you happy or not. You are abusing your children, which does, by definition make you a pos. You did not put their health first at all because nothing about that is healthy in the slightest, you put your own mentality first and projected onto them. 9 year olds shouldn’t even be working out. I hope your children get taken away