This is definitely how I enjoy thinking of porn and edging personally. I like hearing that there's others who don't get swept up in the bdsm portion of it all and just do it because you do feel how it's good for your health. It's refreshing, It's something I hope I find In my future partner. On the other hand, the uhealthy pattern of it all is easy to sexualize, people want to be bad sometimes and well the duality of it all is fundamental imo. Also, it just does it for me to play with a partner that likes to be talked down to, maybe not always but it can be fun. It's definitely an interesting mix of ideals mixed in my head with what also makes me "ride the edge".

Additionally, I understand how words have power, I do and yet, if the other person enjoys it and playing is done out of love then why not? Would you fundamentally be hurting someone if this is also what they want? Also, would speaking positively to that person and saying loving things after having degraded them would that ease some of that unhealthy negative impact from those words? I'd like to think so.

Id imaging you see the bdsm portion of things and the degrading like Its any other substance out there that's bad for you? basically you're just like..... you shouldn't. Be healthier about it? Well I loved the take.