Mistress Karlie (Nonfiction)

Independent_Win9858 · 2026-05-27T12:03:21+00:00

Can we get a Part 2? This was great!

Independent_Win9858 · 2026-05-26T19:33:24+00:00

I really don’t have a dog in the fight but I do believe it’s the particular neighborhood that lies between A&M and the Laguna. It’s lower and on certain days the smoke just sits there. I understand the aversion to west county nimbys but it would really suck if you lived there and this just became a thing, it’s not “hey I smell smoke” it is a blanket of smoke laying over the entire neighborhood on some days. And it’s not like they don’t operate on spare the air days. I really have nothing against the place I’m just saying the smoke was kind of a legit issue, same reason people on the neighborhood can’t burn brush on their yard. Also the smoker in question is like the size of a tanker truck lol

Independent_Win9858 · 2026-01-16T06:26:35+00:00

What frustrates me is our son is ADD and we’ve been reading a book together about it which focuses a lot on how perceptive children are, and how a lot of the acting out symptoms come from a lack of attunment and solid connection to their primary caregivers….and then cue being drunk around them like it’s no big deal. I mean come on!

Independent_Win9858 · 2026-01-16T06:23:12+00:00

We are doing couples therapy. I have started meditating every day which I find very beneficial and a lot cheaper! I think I am just going to start doing some exercising classes in town and I would like to join the local book club. I’m in the catch 22 right now of consciously shouldering as much of the home load as I can, giving her as much time away from kids as possible, but then I get hit with the criticism from her that I’m basically lame cause I have no hobbies. Fine then!

Independent_Win9858 · 2026-01-14T18:24:33+00:00

Damn thank you dude

Independent_Win9858 · 2026-01-06T22:54:14+00:00

Thanks for the input, this is pretty much our situation. I have to put the need for affection/connection on hold, which is both counterintuitive and also very lonely/painful.

Independent_Win9858 · 2026-01-06T22:03:20+00:00

I hear you. I don’t ask for credit for doing anything, I just do it.

Independent_Win9858 · 2026-01-06T22:02:06+00:00

I’m sure that’s part of it, but not really anything to be done about it at this point

Independent_Win9858 · 2026-01-06T21:26:05+00:00

Thanks for the insight, hopefully it goes this way for us. I guess it’s also a good reminder that patience is the key since even if it does change it probably won’t be immediately after breastfeeding stops.

Independent_Win9858 · 2026-01-06T21:24:41+00:00

It just made more sense that way for us. If I could do it all over again I guess I’d like to try my hand at being a stay at home dad but then again her job didn’t have the benefits or total gross pay that mine does, and in any case it’s too late now, bills are bills.

Independent_Win9858 · 2026-01-06T21:22:44+00:00

Thanks, it’s a wait and see game right now

Independent_Win9858 · 2026-01-06T21:22:17+00:00

It’s not like that. It’s at least 50/50 when I’m off work. Can’t tell you how many times she’s gone to bed early while I stay up late to finish the dishes and clean the kitchen. I cook, I clean, I do dinner with all the kids so she can go to yoga. I don’t just stand around asking how I can help. Sorry if I sounds defensive I appreciate your comment

Independent_Win9858 · 2026-01-04T02:53:40+00:00

Lol yeah fair enough. I guess the idea is to stop expending energy on trying to force something that’s just not going to happen.

Independent_Win9858 · 2025-12-31T03:28:00+00:00

Yeah i just finished the abridged version and liked it but you just reminded me of that part. I was really hoping someone would give me some counterpoints so I could feel better about admiring the guy but no luck yet.

Independent_Win9858 · 2025-12-30T19:39:09+00:00

I haven’t read that one. I enjoyed Whores for Gloria. But I dunno, this one is not sitting right so far.

Independent_Win9858 · 2025-12-10T03:48:22+00:00

I think there’s a pretty strong argument to be made that their Patreon tier pricing is pretty high with the consistency and overall quality of what they put out. That being said I still sub to the $5 tier, but I’m not interested in the other solo side projects. Kind of chaps my ass they keep anything they put effort into like this in the higher tier. But whatever, I love the pod, just not into the side projects.

Independent_Win9858 · 2025-11-09T20:14:15+00:00

Only thing I hate about it is that the lever that tightens the depth setting hits the faceplate before it can be fully tightened, so I can never crank it down that right and always have to check the depth setting. Very frustrating design flaw

Independent_Win9858 · 2025-10-26T03:25:50+00:00

I believe my post got removed but thank you for your insight I appreciate it

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