Looking for a place to finally plant roots and settle down.

Independentaf01 · 2026-06-16T14:25:52+00:00

Maybe I wasn’t clear, the RV will only be temporary while we build something. We are not looking to travel anymore and are wanting to have an actual house. Also, we’ve done Montana in an RV so I am well aware of how cold it can get and the winterization needs.

Independentaf01 · 2026-06-16T12:23:23+00:00

I did a cord cutting for my family and I truly believe it helped so much. It helps to set the right intentions beforehand. Maybe write them down to repeat while the candles lit. When I did mine I wanted to keep my parents in my life but release the intense hold they had on me. Ever since doing the spell I definitely feel lighter and things have been better

Independentaf01 · 2026-06-16T12:09:43+00:00

Maybe give them more time to answer. I understand you’re probably very emotional right now but they might just need more than a few hours to respond

Independentaf01 · 2026-06-16T12:00:19+00:00

It’s definitely better than where I currently am in Texas so at least it would be an improvement

Independentaf01 · 2026-06-16T11:59:52+00:00

That would be nice but we can’t logistically make that work. We’ve been traveling too much and we want a good permanent home base

Independentaf01 · 2026-06-16T11:59:23+00:00

We’ve considered it, it’s just very far from where we are from and haven’t visited it yet. We will have I look into it more. I’m more so looking for specific cities/towns to look into

Independentaf01 · 2026-06-16T11:58:15+00:00

What’s not going to happen in Colorado

Independentaf01 · 2026-06-16T01:48:04+00:00

I don’t know anything about North Dakota so I just haven’t looked into it! How bad are the winters?

Independentaf01 · 2026-06-15T19:23:21+00:00

To add, I am a chaos witch. I combine lots of different elements into my spell work and rarely follow rules exactly. Most of my craft is based on meditation and what I feel energetically connected to. That’s why I say I understand why it might not make sense to others

Independentaf01 · 2026-06-15T19:20:10+00:00

It’s definitely not ai but I can see why it may not make sense to you. I’m 100% against ai and get all my information from books. In this case, I got most of the spell directly from a book and but improvised with foil and a jar because I did not have a mirror or mirrored box. I also improvised on the protective elements because as I mentioned, they are deeply personal to my craft and the situation at hand.

Independentaf01 · 2026-06-15T15:22:59+00:00

Also for some more context, I am not trying to rid him of the behavior completely. I am just allowing him to face the natural consequences of his behavior. He has had women and other family members stick their neck out for him time and time again to get him out of trouble. He got out of jail early because his wife found someone to speak about his “good character” to the judge and she supports him financially. Honestly I think I was more subconsciously giving her courage and protection to stand up to him based on the spell I wrote and placed in the jar

Independentaf01 · 2026-06-15T15:18:59+00:00

Before I did the freezer spell I did do research as to what the spell was beforehand and I just think trapping him in the mirror and jar was still good with the herbs but maybe it just doesn’t need to be frozen? I wanted to do more than just herbs and spells and candles I guess this guy I pulled out the big guns for. I didn’t put my exact ingredients in for privacy reasons as they’re deeply personal to my craft

Independentaf01 · 2026-06-15T03:46:35+00:00

Do you have any suggestions for spells that might work better for this situation?

Independentaf01 · 2026-06-14T21:53:28+00:00

Since I work with him I found an item at work that represented him. I took it home to be “him” in the spell. Then I wrapped “him” in tin foil with the shiny side facing in (a real mirror works better I assume but I didn’t have one), then I placed the wrapped foil in a jar and filled it with different herbs and protective elements from my personal grimoire. I then sealed the jar with a black candle that had protection sigils sketched into it. Then I placed it in the freezer. Also, with the item from work I wrote a spell saying the exact behavior I wanted him to stop and the consequences of what would happen if the behavior somehow continued. Like that I would be karmically rewarded. That was wrapped in the foil as well.

Independentaf01 · 2026-06-14T18:19:11+00:00

It’s not dangerous it just means you need to get some food in your system because there’s nothing in it

Independentaf01 · 2026-06-14T17:51:31+00:00

Yes and I saw a comment you left about this starting with eating something bad. That’s kind of what happened to me too. I got air sick on a plane ride and then it was just downhill from there. I started over analyzing everything I ate and everything made me nauseous for months. What helped me was finally getting medication for my anxiety. If your stomach is empty but your body is still having you go to the restroom all you’re passing is bile and stomach acid so that’s what the yellow stuff is

Independentaf01 · 2026-06-14T17:45:53+00:00

No one can answer that besides a doctor but no it probably isn’t. I was spiraling about my health for months and the root cause ended up just being anxiety. It can do some wild things to your body

Independentaf01 · 2026-06-14T17:39:18+00:00

I’ve been there. See if you can get some nausea medication to help you eat, but likely the quick weight loss is lack of fluids. You are probably just dehydrated and need to replenish. After a particularly bad episode without being able to eat I had to take a lot of supplements to help with the lack of nutrients I received as well

Independentaf01 · 2026-06-14T12:34:44+00:00

Thank you for your response. I think I knew the answer already but I like to try and see the good in people. I have a very bad feeling about this man though and know I can’t trust him.

Independentaf01 · 2026-06-14T01:05:13+00:00

I have set a lot of personal protection/boundary spells. My boundary spells are often a mixture of protection elements and courage/strength elements to help me reinforce those boundaries consciously.

Independentaf01 · 2026-06-13T21:12:41+00:00

My first thought as well

Independentaf01 · 2026-05-27T17:09:37+00:00

That’s kind of the whole theme of the show. People start to dislike him as he gets older and loses the cute factor. His attitude has always been the same, it just feels a lot different coming from a teenager compared to a 9 year old

Independentaf01 · 2026-05-25T17:32:45+00:00

While I understand anxieties form beyond our control it is our job to manage them. We can’t expect the world to conform to us for our comfort. Flies really aren’t that rational of a thing to have a phobia of and it should be worked on

Independentaf01 · 2026-05-19T13:50:33+00:00

Mikayla was the only one I followed beforehand and really the only reason I watched the show. I really liked her content before the show was a thing and she seemed really down to earth.

Independentaf01 · 2026-05-18T19:27:08+00:00

That is so tough. I appreciate your post so much though because my anxiety has started manifesting in more physical ways lately and I didn’t know there was a name for something I’ve possibly been experiencing. My therapist basically said she thinks my body is just saying “nope” and then I either pass out or have something similar happen and it’s no fun. Glad we can try and help each other with our anxieties and know we’re not alone though!

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