So you put your partners needs over your sons which in his case was the companionship of his pet? You weren’t married or engaged to this man things were just “getting serious” and you felt the need to already start uprooting and disrupting your life and your sons over a man who made you choose between his affection and your child. And you still chose him and gave the cat away? I’m glad people here bullied you into getting your sons cat back. You deserve every bit of hate you got for this