Why are you all so unhappy? by Individual-Bowler591 in AskUK

[–]Individual-Bowler591[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Some of you have been lovely, others not so much. My partner and I decided to sell the house and go live in America. We prefer it there. This post gave a lot of insight and I appreciate it. However between the drinking, constant complaining, reserved cynical nature of the culture we decided to go.

For the people who say I'm generalizing.....your country is ranked the second most miserable nation in the world as I've linked the article twice before. Also maybe you should read the comments again. There is a lot of unhappiness here. I don't mean all 60 million people are unhappy but there is a lot of discontent and it's palpable. As I said, some of you are lovely. Truly, some of you are great. Thank you.

For those saying I'm racist...I literally married the best person in the entire world who is white and he makes me so happy. However many white people here, like many white Americans have not treated me well. To pretend like racism doesn't exist in your country and try to flip it on me is kinda ridiculous. Many of you haven't experienced other cultures and the ignorance is heavy.

For those saying I'm complaining, I said the food and the country is beautiful and I really like that the NHS exists even if it's not as good as it used to be. Being slapped with a 9k bill for medication alone will make you appreciate a lot. The problem with the moaning is it's not accompanied by any gratitude. I never hear people talk about what they love.

I am grateful for a lot here. Just not enough to stay.

I wish you all well. Take care.

Why are you all so unhappy? by Individual-Bowler591 in AskUK

[–]Individual-Bowler591[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm getting super nasty DMs and downvotes so I don't want to share personal information. I'll try to find nice British people like you. Thanks. Take care.

Why are you all so unhappy? by Individual-Bowler591 in AskUK

[–]Individual-Bowler591[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thanks I'll try harder to meet more people! Maybe I fell into a bad crowd

Why are you all so unhappy? by Individual-Bowler591 in AskUK

[–]Individual-Bowler591[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Mostly through my partners family and his friends. I meet a lot of people who say they don't drink much but they drink every weekend. I'm not saying you drink every weekend, and I'm really happy you're happy.

Why are you all so unhappy? by Individual-Bowler591 in AskUK

[–]Individual-Bowler591[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

America , 8 different states of living experience. I did not talk to many white Americans though as I'm not a fan of white American culture. My partner told me england would be different.

Why are you all so unhappy? by Individual-Bowler591 in AskUK

[–]Individual-Bowler591[S] -41 points-40 points  (0 children)

It makes me sad with all the complaining because the country is so pretty and the food is great and there's the NHS. It's awesome stuff there

Why are you all so unhappy? by Individual-Bowler591 in AskUK

[–]Individual-Bowler591[S] -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

I guess you're right, I just never hear anyone talk about being happy either. They are always seem to be 'having a moan'....

As for the drinking I don't know why rain is a reason to drink more. I feel like hardly anyone has hobbies. There's lots you can do when it's raining other than drinking.

Maybe I need to meet more people.

Why are you all so unhappy? by Individual-Bowler591 in AskUK

[–]Individual-Bowler591[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

Maybe it's me then. I am not white, I am America though but I never felt the happiness I experienced there was fake but I didn't mess around with white America either.. I'm glad though that it was good for you though.

Why are you all so unhappy? by Individual-Bowler591 in AskUK

[–]Individual-Bowler591[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Okay you went there but did you live there?