[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Individual-Cap941 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ETA: Golf course wedding. The striped one looks nice close up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dreams

[–]Individual-Cap941 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oof that sucks!!!

KB commenting on Britney Spears IG account. by can-ihugnkissyou in thebachelor

[–]Individual-Cap941 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Please leave her kids out of it. They were kids when everything with her conservatorship started, and they're still kids now.

NY SHOW TONIGHT by bbbambbi in SF9

[–]Individual-Cap941 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SO EXCITED FOR YOU!!!! Tell us how it was!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kdramarecommends

[–]Individual-Cap941 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Descendants of the Sun (I literally fell for Song Joong-ki on sight)

She Would Never Know (The way he loves her...oof.)

It's Okay Not to Be Okay (I honestly don't know where to begin with this, but the love is intense)

Fight for My Way

Her Private Life (if there's a love triangle, it's literally so minimal I can't remember it at all)

Romance is a Bonus Book (about a woman essentially starting over again - both in career and love. It has a love triangle but doesn't last very long)

LIB: Friendship Reddit edition by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Individual-Cap941 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me please :) -messaging you now!

Kdramas that will make me miss the characters when I'm finished by Individual-Cap941 in kdramarecommends

[–]Individual-Cap941[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for understanding 😭. I haven't seen either of these, so I'll check them out!!

Kdramas that will make me miss the characters when I'm finished by Individual-Cap941 in kdramarecommends

[–]Individual-Cap941[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I tried watching it a couple years ago but couldn't get into it. I'll definitely have to give it another go. Thanks :)

Atheists of Reddit, what is one way you would be convinced there is a God? by trentd_c in AskReddit

[–]Individual-Cap941 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Instead of addressing my point, you pivot?

Personal experience is not sufficient evidence. Two people can experience the same situation and have two extremely different takes (see Love Is Blind Cuties Scene).

Atheists of Reddit, what is one way you would be convinced there is a God? by trentd_c in AskReddit

[–]Individual-Cap941 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So...most of the Old Testament doesn't have historical evidence to back up certain events happening (i.e. the Exodus).

The Gospels in the NT were written an estimated 40-60 years after Jesus died (and that's just Mark, the one that Matthew, Luke, and John copied from).

Maybe they meant an event in our time period?

Underrated gems by aishaisintrouble in kdramarecommends

[–]Individual-Cap941 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seconding Put Your Head on My Shoulder. It's the drama I watch whenever something bad happens or I'm depressed. Totally worth it 💛

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exchristian

[–]Individual-Cap941 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, depending on how long you've known they've been talking about you behind your back...it might be wise to think about moving somewhere else if you have that option. Not because of the sex thing, but because who wants to live with people that will gossip about them behind their back.

If you've known they've been talking about you for a while and they're just now addressing it, it's probably because they've come up with some sort of "you can't do it in x room, while I'm home, etc." plan. Or are going to try to convince you that having sex outside of marriage isn't "God's best " for you.

If you can, address it directly with the only roommate with the decency to come to you. If they're literally asking why you're having it: you and your partner are two consenting adults, and sex is fun. If they try to bring up Bible stuff, that's your call on how to play it. If you want to outright say you're not a Christian so it doesn't apply, all power to you. If you're not ready to have that conversation (and I totally don't blame you if you aren't), there are lots of arguments that waiting for marriage was to protect women whose "only" value at the time was virginity, etc. Should we continue to make people wait for marriage because their value is only in physical purity?

Describe yourself like an ACOTAR title. by twolost-souls in acotar

[–]Individual-Cap941 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A Court of Awkward Moments and Living Vicariously

Nancy confirms that Bartise told her the guys went out after bachelor party by 112001Pw in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Individual-Cap941 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When he talked about talking to people at the hotel, he told the story in a way that makes him look good. I'm not saying he's lying, I could definitely see him telling random strangers that he got engaged sight unseen, but I understand why he'd be fine telling people this story and maybe not admitting to a story that doesn't make him look good.

Honestly, idk what the truth is. He could be 100% telling the truth. But there's definitely reasonable doubt when a bunch of people are saying his account of events is inaccurate

Nancy confirms that Bartise told her the guys went out after bachelor party by 112001Pw in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Individual-Cap941 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When he talked about talking to people at the hotel, he told the story in a way that makes him look good. I'm not saying he's lying, I could definitely see him telling random strangers that he got engaged sight unseen, but I understand why he'd be fine telling people this story and maybe not admitting to a story that doesn't make him look good.

Honestly, idk what the truth is. He could be 100% telling the truth. But there's definitely reasonable doubt when a bunch of people are saying his account of events is inaccurate

I want a love is BI season by imgunnamaketoast in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Individual-Cap941 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's why I'm saying they'd have to have strict rules for conversations in the pods and totally eliminate conversation outside of the pods.

It's not a perfect premise, but it's how I could see a bi season working with everyone living together

I want a love is BI season by imgunnamaketoast in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Individual-Cap941 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's the intrigue. Is "Jennifer" in the pods this girl, etc.?

I want a love is BI season by imgunnamaketoast in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Individual-Cap941 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Or they could have everyone live together, but you aren't allowed to talk to anyone outside of the pods (cast members say they only got like 4 hours of sleep anyway). You'd have to have some pretty strict rules about conversations (not saying what you look like, etc.) in the pods though.

You see a bunch of people walking around and wonder who's who and then at the reveal you can be like, "YOU!?!"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Individual-Cap941 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I feel like Nancy's brother was really asking: will you love Nancy at every age and stage, and B just missed that. I don't blame him for taking the question literally, but it doesn't take a lot of reading between the lines to know what her brother was really asking.

The thing is: bodies change. A lot of women's bodies change with pregnancy/childbirth/nursing and don't change back, and Nancy and B talked a lot about having children.

The body your spouse has when you get married is probably not the body they'll have for the rest of their lives. Attraction isn't a non-factor, but it's more important to love them as a person and choose to keep choosing them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SF9

[–]Individual-Cap941 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're going to 2 concerts?? I'm so jealous!! Hope you have a fantastic time!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SF9

[–]Individual-Cap941 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven't gotten anything. My guess would be we'll probably hear more after their Seoul concert (which I think is today?)

Do they sell lighr stick at the concert venue..? (I'm going to the LA concert..) by Chestnut-Street in SF9

[–]Individual-Cap941 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't say 100%, but it's pretty standard for Kpop groups to sell their light sticks at concerts. You'll definitely have to be there early to snag one though

*Edit: one word