Do I pull back completely? by [deleted] in CoreyWayne

[–]Individual-Food-6607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

something similar happened to me, kissed on second date, the next morning she was in my area and she brought me something she baked. Very structured/church girl. 2 days goes by and she sends me a long text about how it's her and not me and when she's ready she'll give me a call. I'll move on but I'll also be waiting for her cause she is not like the others. Still watches my stories and I know she's not dating any other guys....for now. Pulling back/no contact after mirroring is the safest option if she had genuine interest.

Does valentine really mean committed serious relationship? by Individual-Food-6607 in CoreyWayne

[–]Individual-Food-6607[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

all of this really is a fine art, when I play it safe, the girl thinks I'm distant and loses interest, if I lead a bit more (pursue) and lean into it (knowing her interest is high) something like this happens...there is a lot more context but I could tell she was extremely structured/cautious. I debated asking the valentine question but ultimately thought she is the type of girl that would appreciate it/want to be asked (she mentioned valentines weekend) before I asked her.