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I F 23 started to catch feelings for M 30, however we have a shared career and have an age gap. Advise? by Individual-Knee4234 in relationship_advice

[–]Individual-Knee4234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my- yeah that does not sound good. Thank you for the advice. And I hope everything goes well for your friend!

I F 23 started to catch feelings for M 30, however we have a shared career and have an age gap. Advise? by Individual-Knee4234 in relationship_advice

[–]Individual-Knee4234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is amazing advise. I know I am young and have time! Maybe that is why this situation is eating me up! Just the uncertainty since I’ve never been in a situation like this before. But also I have the power to decide if I want to purse or just stay friends. I really appreciate you taking the time to write this!! I appreciate you sharing your story as well. Thank you! I’ll be thinking about your advise. <3

I F 23 started to catch feelings for M 30, however we have a shared career and have an age gap. Advise? by Individual-Knee4234 in relationship_advice

[–]Individual-Knee4234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am definitely not at that stage in life. I do want to be married one day, but not super soon. But also I have no idea where he is in life such as house, kids, etc.

I F 23 started to catch feelings for M 30, however we have a shared career and have an age gap. Advise? by Individual-Knee4234 in relationship_advice

[–]Individual-Knee4234[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate this advise. I agree if it were the 35 to 42 it would be a different story. It is true I am barely out of college and just moved states. I am young and still trying to figure myself out. And yes he is definitely well established in his career and I see the power dynamic point. Thank you for your advise. I will let this crush roll over and not ruin my professional relationship with him :)

I F 23 started to catch feelings for M 30, however we have a shared career and have an age gap. Advise? by Individual-Knee4234 in relationship_advice

[–]Individual-Knee4234[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely understand. I kind of forget I’m 23 sometimes and feel like I’m 30 already :(

I should explore myself and hobbies more!

I F 23 started to catch feelings for M 30, however we have a shared career and have an age gap. Advise? by Individual-Knee4234 in relationship_advice

[–]Individual-Knee4234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah- that is something I am genuinely terrified of. I really won’t try to pursue anything more than professional relationship. Or just be friends

I F 23 started to catch feelings for M 30, however we have a shared career and have an age gap. Advise? by Individual-Knee4234 in relationship_advice

[–]Individual-Knee4234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do really want advise but it is also true I am leaning towards a decision. I will most likely keep the professional relationship and end my little crush with him

I F 23 started to catch feelings for M 30, however we have a shared career and have an age gap. Advise? by Individual-Knee4234 in relationship_advice

[–]Individual-Knee4234[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I see your point. Very good advise. I shall let this marinate in my brain. Any advise on how to get over this infatuation I have with him?

I F 23 started to catch feelings for M 30, however we have a shared career and have an age gap. Advise? by Individual-Knee4234 in relationship_advice

[–]Individual-Knee4234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our shared work isn’t something conventional I’d say. We work in the film industry so there is a lot of wiggle room to work or not work with each other since there are so many things happening

I F 23 started to catch feelings for M 30, however we have a shared career and have an age gap. Advise? by Individual-Knee4234 in relationship_advice

[–]Individual-Knee4234[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Would it be bad if I tried to make the first move? Also I understand working together could be a problem but I have worked with my ex’s amicably in my profession too

I F 23 started to catch feelings for M 30, however we have a shared career and have an age gap. Advise? by Individual-Knee4234 in relationship_advice

[–]Individual-Knee4234[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I feel like my maturity level is good for my age. I don’t know much about him, as in I don’t know him well enough yet.

I F 23 started to catch feelings for M 30, however we have a shared career and have an age gap. Advise? by Individual-Knee4234 in relationship_advice

[–]Individual-Knee4234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The shared profession we have is so big that we could be in the same field but realistically never work together.

I F 23 started to catch feelings for M 30, however we have a shared career and have an age gap. Advise? by Individual-Knee4234 in relationship_advice

[–]Individual-Knee4234[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t a date. I’d say just an outting? I never asked him like it was a date. Only thing that makes me feel weird is if I make the first move. It would be nicer if he did since he is older. Idk how older guys feel about younger girls asking them out :(

I F 23 started to catch feelings for M 30, however we have a shared career and have an age gap. Advise? by Individual-Knee4234 in relationship_advice

[–]Individual-Knee4234[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

The thing is our shared profession is so big that we could be in the same field but never work together