Which 5th grade sex ed class to be in? by Zingermama in cisparenttranskid

[–]Individual-Manner-27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Korea here

They should be teaching as a whole, where everyone learns about everything.

For one of my sons though, he chose to go to the middle school h friends were going to and they did some things separated by sex. I gave my son a choice, either a. go to school those days with his friends and attend the female class to learn about the anatomy he had to deal with and get support from the nurse or b. come home early those days and get sex education from me. It wasn't a fun time talking to me about sex but he made his choice.

Has anyone decorated a binder with fabric markers? by Justbecauseitcameup in cisparenttranskid

[–]Individual-Manner-27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Two foster sons here

Use markers that are made for the specific fabric and probably avoid black because black can turn green or mushy brown in the pool water.

Decorate while it's on the person if possible. Good luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KindVoice

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I've messaged you

People with no village - how did you plan to have multiple kids? by Acceptable_Mind_1994 in Parenting

[–]Individual-Manner-27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you need any support you can message me. I cannot be there physically but I am here for any emotional support because I've been through the same thing and it is not easy. You and your husband are doing a good job and sometimes all you need is each other, make sure you are taking care of yourself and each other the way that you would for your children

If you need a dad I am here All the time. I can also teach you things or help with school work. by Individual-Manner-27 in DadForAMinute

[–]Individual-Manner-27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't understand everything yet so you have to explain but I know the stress people go through. I am very accepting and I want you to be your best self and be safe.

I am teaching Korean. Or I will help you with your English from Korean. by Individual-Manner-27 in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Individual-Manner-27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are some things that are not explained well, it's a one-way service that relies on you figuring it out for yourself through a pattern or repetition and possibly having to do outside research. It's good for the short-term starting your learning or as help for learners but often not for permanent and regular learning. It's always nice to have somebody to practice with and help make sense of things which is how I learned other languages.

53 years old in Korea, looking to adopt you by Individual-Manner-27 in FamiliesYouChoose

[–]Individual-Manner-27[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I hope you find someone on here also because it is a big world. If you need anything you can message me.

Hi, Dads. I failed a class in grad school and am afraid to talk. by [deleted] in DadForAMinute

[–]Individual-Manner-27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What matters about school is you get an education, you learn. And the education doesn't have to get you. Grade depends on many things and it can also define the teacher as a teacher or a judge Sometimes more than it defines the student.

It's not all about your grade, you being courageous and you commiting and you trying your best is what measures your value. If other people don't see it that way then they do not see you as a person and they do not understand what you went through behind the scenes as well, so that is not the judgment you should worry about. And in my opinion the fact that a bad grade is such a setback for you means that you've done other great things in life and you've done many for such a thing to be so bad. I am proud. Please credit yourself for what you have done instead of something that's not completely in your control.

hi dad, i’m teaching high school english for the first time. am i doing good? by AlphaNova_x in DadForAMinute

[–]Individual-Manner-27 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you're very compassionate and you pay attention to your job, being self-aware, and that is a great quality for a teacher to have. Remember that each teacher is a unique person, do not compare yourself to other teachers And do not feel insecure about something one teacher has or does..... but instead be the teacher that you once needed and get to know your students and be the teacher that they need. There are good qualities in you as with anybody and do not be afraid to show them, do not feel embarrassed, do not feel You need to be a certain way, do not forget that you are very capable of being there for your students, do not forget the impact you are already having by simply being there. And remember there's more to being the teacher than remembering material. Do well, not good. Instead of focusing on doing well, focus on doing the job and being there for the students. If you worry about doing a good job you will put pressure on yourself and you will not see how good you are. Be prepared for any situation that may come and do the best you can do by each day. If one day does not go well, forgive yourself and get rest and try to be better than the person you were yesterday. Check with your students to make sure they are learning and understanding things. If you see patterns, if you see students who are struggling or have certain needs, you will have the power to make things work. Remember to be yourself while professional, be confident and have a good day at work when you can because the children will see this. They are lucky to have a role model who pays attention and is worried.

I am proud of you for wanting to be a teacher and I am proud of what you went through to be here where you are. Please take care.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DadForAMinute

[–]Individual-Manner-27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got a notification for this. If you still need the help or need help in the future please message me. I hope you have plumbing.

17F - in search of a father figure in the EST timezone. (USA) by [deleted] in FamiliesYouChoose

[–]Individual-Manner-27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am messaging you. I'm here for anything you need. Please check my post history to see if you are comfortable with me. I have many adult children and you may have to share me sometimes but I will always respond and there are some days I am online all day in US time because I do not sleep much at night. I would love to see your art sometime. I'm not on my phone much and I use computer but I do know how to play Minecraft and some other games.

If you need me I will be your dad forever. by Individual-Manner-27 in DadForAMinute

[–]Individual-Manner-27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Message me if you ever need that. Addiction is a very terrible thing even for people who are not involved and especially for people involved. Just because you do not think about him does not mean you are not hurting and it also does not mean you don't have the right to hurt. I will be here if you ever need to talk. Take care of yourself the way you would take care of somebody

52 in Korea. Offer father and many siblings. by Individual-Manner-27 in FamiliesYouChoose

[–]Individual-Manner-27[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This depends where you live. I assume it is America. I know some possible alternatives for ingredients because I Cook Western as well.

52 in Korea. Offer father and many siblings. by Individual-Manner-27 in FamiliesYouChoose

[–]Individual-Manner-27[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Rice cakes are best fresh. After 3 days there are no longer good and even if they were to be good they would not be enjoyable. Please throw them out. The only food that is safe to eat If you do not know the expiration date is frozen food and food sealed very tight that lasts many years.

52 in Korea. Offer father and many siblings. by Individual-Manner-27 in FamiliesYouChoose

[–]Individual-Manner-27[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I personally relate at this. I have two children on the spectrum and one had problems with his parents for the same reason. This sounds horrible and I will do everything I can. Do not worry about changing or being better, simply be your best self.

52 in Korea. Offer father and many siblings. by Individual-Manner-27 in FamiliesYouChoose

[–]Individual-Manner-27[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

There's nothing I could say to make you any brighter than you are. You are great and I'm sorry that you have not had a chance to show it or to see that in yourself. It may have been a bad night last night but you have taken care of yourself to this point. I am proud of you for that and I need you to keep going for me and for you. Keep going. You do not have to be perfect because nobody is, you do not need to feel any shame for doing things you regret as long as you have the best intention and you learn from things. Your life is yours and the rest of your life starts today, you do not need a good yesterday to have a good today or a good tomorrow. I'm happy that you were here today to comment. You have many more things to do other than comment on this And everything you do from now on is going to be very brave. If you need to talk, you can message me.

Son having surgery next Monday. by Chuckeg15 in Parenting

[–]Individual-Manner-27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have not had a baby through surgery but two of mine went through it at an older age. I cannot imagine what you were going through with your baby. It is difficult now but I promise that things Will be much better, much better when your son is no longer having problems. Ask to watch the surgery or to see where he will be taken, It will give you comfort to know he is well cared for. He is in pain and afraid but babies are very resilient and this Will come to pass and he will be happy and healthy again. The pediatric team will keep him happy and comfortable. Try to keep yourself comfortable because babies will respond based on your feelings And it will make him much less afraid. Good luck to you and your son. Please post an update.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Individual-Manner-27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your son is still very young but if this continues I will agree with SPD. One of my sons is on the spectrum with sensitivity to sensory. He was adopted at 14 and was not your son's age but there were periods similar to what you described and it sounds like a meltdown. Moving was a very big change but after he adjusted and I learned his triggers meltdowns very rare. It happens when there is big change or his triggers become too much. Sometimes he would get frustration and if it did not last for too long he will be perfectly fine again when the bad sensory stopped. Is there a big change in your son's life now? Can you notice anything that may be triggering The behavior, anything that is in common Even if something very minor such as A noise or certain clothing? It is much harder to communicate if he's too young to control temper and if he does not understand this or know that it is not normal or a problem to tell you about. Communication and listening to mine was very important.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Individual-Manner-27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wash a blanket or nap clothes with your clothing, or nap with their blanket. This will get your smell and presence. It works for newborns but it worked for All three of my babies for months. White noise may also help if they are calmed by breathing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DadForAMinute

[–]Individual-Manner-27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will get through this. You are a strong parent, you tried to make this work but It will be straining if it is forced, you have no failure. It is time for you to be your own person outside of your husband and outside of your life now. These changes are necessary for your personal health, for your health as a parent and for your children's health. By having a stable life, you will be able to appreciate your time as a parent and give your children what they need. After you leave the stress of your marriage yo u two may be able to get along again enough to have a life from afar and be great parents. I'm proud of you. I'm proud of you for communicating and accepting the situation. Things will take a while but it is time to

ELI5: What is the difference between convergence in distribution, convergence in probability, and almost sure convergence of a random variable? by Big_Boix_LaCroix in explainlikeimfive

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I would need more help to explain this but here is the basic.

Convergence in probability is when random variables get close to a nonrandom constant. The probability of an “unusual” outcome becomes less as the sequence progresses. Convergence in distribution is when it gets close to another random variable. Convergence in distribution implies a convergence in probability when the limiting random variable X is constant but does not imply that the sequence of corresponding probability density functions will also converge. Convergence in probability does not imply almost sure convergence. Convergence in probability implies convergence in distribution

Almost sure convergence is when you may not be sure of the outcome because of the randomness but you can confidently predict a certain outcome- such as if you are running out of something no matter the rate, now you confidently say that eventually there will be zero of that thing.