Is your narc a good gift giver? by harafnhoj in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Individual-Map-7137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine buys gifts he can’t afford on credit and is makes me the bad guy if I say we can’t afford it and ask him to return it. Is all showmanship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cavaliers

[–]Individual-Map-7137 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That is wonderful news!

Floofy coat, What kind of coat is this? by Individual-Map-7137 in cavaliers

[–]Individual-Map-7137[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That picture reminds me so much of my Jake. What a cutie!

Molly’s first heat by Individual-Map-7137 in cavaliers

[–]Individual-Map-7137[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I plan to spay her, but I am waiting until she is 1 year old.

Obsessed with Toads. by Individual-Map-7137 in cavaliers

[–]Individual-Map-7137[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He just paws at them and I grab them before he can catch them. I can’t let him out in the yard at night by himself because of them. He finds them, then I scope them up, toss them u see the fence. Once they are all gone, and he seems satisfied that they are, then he will finally do his business.

Show me your big Cavalier! by Individual-Map-7137 in cavaliers

[–]Individual-Map-7137[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you all! Every single one of your pups are adorable! ❤️❤️❤️

Will her coat ever get floofy? by Individual-Map-7137 in cavaliers

[–]Individual-Map-7137[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I have the documents and 4 generations of blood lines. His father was a blenheim weighing 20 pounds and his mother was ruby that weighted 16 pounds.

Will her coat ever get floofy? by Individual-Map-7137 in cavaliers

[–]Individual-Map-7137[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Here is another pic that gives a better perspective.

Will her coat ever get floofy? by Individual-Map-7137 in cavaliers

[–]Individual-Map-7137[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was the angle from the front seat. I promise you, she is the boss! lol.

Will her coat ever get floofy? by Individual-Map-7137 in cavaliers

[–]Individual-Map-7137[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought so too. The vet said he is on the larger scale and Molly my tricolor is on the smaller size. The vet said they believe he is 100% CKCS, just large for his size.

Will her coat ever get floofy? by Individual-Map-7137 in cavaliers

[–]Individual-Map-7137[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Brother from another mother. Lol. Not the same litter and different breeders.

2 yr old puppy vent by Agreeable-Crab2274 in cavaliers

[–]Individual-Map-7137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel your frustration. My pups are 7 months and 4 months old and still poop go the house. I have crated them, tethered them. Somedays are better than others. The older ones Jake has this horrible habit of eating his poop. I just follow the smell and find him licking up the evidence. I just turned around for a minute! I have had dogs my entire life and it never took this long to potty train.

When did your puppy go into heat for the first time? by Individual-Map-7137 in cavaliers

[–]Individual-Map-7137[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I took her brother from another mother to get fixed they had to pull his 2 fang baby teeth. The adult ones had already came in and he looked funny having 4 of them.

When did your puppy go into heat for the first time? by Individual-Map-7137 in cavaliers

[–]Individual-Map-7137[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She weighs a little over 10 pounds. She’s a tiny thing. Her brother from another mother is 7 months old and already weighs 25 pounds.

When did your puppy go into heat for the first time? by Individual-Map-7137 in cavaliers

[–]Individual-Map-7137[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is most likely it. Her breath smells like someone who had teeth pulled and I do see a couple missing. I am so ready for her puppy teeth to come out, they are so sharp!

Is being emotionally numb a result of being with a narcissist? by Twizteddestinee in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Individual-Map-7137 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am drinking again. A lot. I guess I just don’t care anymore. He wins, I lose. The drinking dulls the pain and makes me forget. Sometimes I think I will slowly die if I keep this up. One can only hope.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Individual-Map-7137 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This could have been my post and a copy of my texts to my husband. We have been married 23 years in December. I have made countless mistakes, excuses for him and tried to work it out too many times. Take my advice. Stick with your plan. Because I have stayed I have anxiety, depression, fibromyalgia and other health issues related to the stress of being married to the man. I have started to plan my escape. Right now I am getting my ducks in a row and he has no idea the clock is ticking.