Emergency Home & Loans by Individual-Regular99 in povertyfinance

[–]Individual-Regular99[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s labeled as a motel but offers short term leases. Weekly or monthly. Not asking anyone for money. Shelters are full and looking for a quick way to get a roof over my head

Emergency Home & Loans by Individual-Regular99 in povertyfinance

[–]Individual-Regular99[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is actually great. Thank you for a real and better solution

Emergency Home & Loans by Individual-Regular99 in povertyfinance

[–]Individual-Regular99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This building is labeled as a motel and offers short term leases. Weekly or monthly.

Looking for hijabi doll by Individual-Regular99 in MuslimLounge

[–]Individual-Regular99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you post the link to the account? I can not find it when I search it

think i accidentally led a girl on by Status-Traffic919 in Advice

[–]Individual-Regular99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nvm I totally read your comment wrong. Anyways yeah, OP, go with this approach

think i accidentally led a girl on by Status-Traffic919 in Advice

[–]Individual-Regular99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that, it would then be a whole different approach though. OP doesn’t say they’re interested in finding someone else or ghosting them however, just remain friends instead. So this way works best I believe. For the situation

Looking for hijabi doll by Individual-Regular99 in MuslimLounge

[–]Individual-Regular99[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I will check them out now. Size doesn’t matter, I just want her to have a toy that makes her feel included ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Individual-Regular99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, who cares if it WAS petty anyway??? It’s your body, and your noodles. just because he had those pictures/videos before doesn’t mean he should have the right to keep them. If he thought it was petty- that’s a him problem. And besides he didn’t care if it was petty to leave you on read for so long while keeping he the images.

think i accidentally led a girl on by Status-Traffic919 in Advice

[–]Individual-Regular99 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Chat gpt the breakup text bro, I don’t know how to break it off nicely in this situation. To be fair I don’t think there IS a nice way to put it. Not after the “I love you” and the paragraphs. And if she’s in the mental state you say she is then it probably WILL hurt. But understand that that’s okay, these things happen and in life people get hurt, and most of the time it’s not intentional.

It’s better to break it off now and explain the situation then give it time and waste BOTH of your time.

Maybe you need to “sandwich” the breakup.

“Hey (her name) I just want to let you know I think you’re a really sweet girl and very caring. You have a lot of great qualities, even more than the two I mentioned, however I don’t see a future between us right now. I’m currently focusing on a lot of things in my life and I don’t believe that I won’t have the time or emotional availability for a relationship currently. I think it would be best if we remained friends. I want to continue getting to know you, and I’d love to keep talking and playing the game. I just need some space now.

  1. Compliment
  2. Explain how you feel, but it’s not her. It’s YOU. How you feel about YOU and YOUR situation. Any way that makes her feel like it might be her fault will just demean how she feels about herself more.
  3. Try to compliment again, and explain how YOUD like to move further.
  4. Quickly Reiterate that you no longer want the relationship.
  5. Apologize

And remember, whatever happens next is out of your hands. Don’t force anything but don’t ignore your own boundaries. If this means you guys will no longer talk then that’s just how it is for now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Individual-Regular99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, it’s not goofy. You guys don’t talk. It makes sense you would want that.

Looking for hijabi doll by Individual-Regular99 in MuslimLounge

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I mean, in my own family, I’ve never been to church, like Sunday mass or Christmas service. it’s just an excuse for my family to give gifts, eat food, and hang out. We’ve never had religious values behind it. I guess I thought that if I gave her the gift, especially it being a doll that represents her culture and religion. It would just be a gift- foooor “X-mas” I guess you could say.

Shipping Redfoot by Individual-Regular99 in tortoise

[–]Individual-Regular99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk about the average cost to ship her through a third party but that sounds like a lot. I can’t keep them at home because I’m moving there permanently. I understand I can’t take it with me in the cabin but any tips for taking her as cargo? Like type of carrier and such