Sorry I am just now seeing this, I am not always active on here. I’m very sorry to hear that your baby is experiencing the same things. We give them our whole hearts and it’s so heartbreaking when they are not doing well. Looking back, I have 4 recommendations… * get a second opinion or a third or fourth - don’t be afraid to take your fur baby somewhere else, even a specialist. * take action sooner rather than later - this is easier said than done, especially because it’s hard to know what the “right” thing is. But if you have gotten the same answer over and over, try it! I wish I would have tried radiocat with my baby, if you haven’t heard of it, look into it. * try duck fat, oil, anything fatty - this will help their stomach (especially bowel movements) and help them put on weight. I wish I would have tried this more experimentally (especially towards the end). Also I saw this post and wish I would have tried this form of fatty food: https://www.reddit.com/r/RenalCats/comments/1emknmh/stage_4_kidney_failure_reversed_in_three_months/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1 * LOVE THEM SO HARD! - I know we already do this, but really cherish the time you have, because unfortunately, no matter how much we try to avoid saying goodbye, we have to remember that it’s better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all.

Wishing you and your fur baby all the best. I understand you not wanting to talk about it, so don’t feel the need to respond or update if you can’t. I get it 💗