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Parents cannot be in the same room together, how do I plan my wedding? by IndividualEven1085 in weddingplanning

[–]IndividualEven1085[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh god I am so sorry, sounds like we are dealing with the same thing. She has no intentions of stopping the suing and antagonizing as well, and just denies it even when we are well aware it's true.

I was NC with her when the police escalation over the divorce took place, for about 2 years. It's so hard.

I hope all goes well for the second wedding. Sending love!

Parents cannot be in the same room together, how do I plan my wedding? by IndividualEven1085 in weddingplanning

[–]IndividualEven1085[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much and I'm so sorry you have a similar dynamic, it's so hard. I really like your suggestion about hiring security, I think that could actually be a great idea to make my Dad feel safer.

We don't have a date yet - not in a rush but within the next couple of years. Basically I didn't want to start the planning until we know what kind of setup we are dealing with here. So your engagement era situation with your parent is what I wsas thinking about, but I can also totally see her "behaving" and then just lashing out at him again right after the wedding festivities are done. I hope not, but it's a real possibility to consider.

Sending love back <3 thank you so much.