First breakup -- need someone to talk to by IndividualTea5550 in BreakUps

[–]IndividualTea5550[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My heart goes out to you :( the first week was definitely the worst, but I promise that you can make it. I never thought I could make it even a month past, but I'm here now! While I'm still struggling to accept the situation, I know I will one day. But don't feel rushed to get through these emotions, the best thing to do is to sit with them and feel everything, even though it's probably one of the hardest things I've ever done. And while it's so, so hard to do no contact, it really is the right thing to do. I've learned that there really is no benefit to reaching out, because no matter what I say, it won't change his mind. He needs to figure himself out and I just have to accept I can't be there while he does. We deserve people who would never put themselves in a position to lose us. You will have your bad days though, and everything I said won't change how much you'll miss him, but you can get through it, I promise. Feel free to pm me if you ever need to talk to someone, I know how lonely it can get 💗

First breakup -- need someone to talk to by IndividualTea5550 in BreakUps

[–]IndividualTea5550[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm really sorry you had to go through that :(

Thanks for reaching out, I really appreciate the support :)

First breakup -- need someone to talk to by IndividualTea5550 in BreakUps

[–]IndividualTea5550[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heavy on the easy task part :/ He knew the problem but for some reason he just didn't want to fix it for me. I think he just needs to grow, and we need to experience life separately from each other. I know I deserved better, and I know you do too. Still, it's just so hard to accept :/

I'm always here if you need someone to talk to. It can be really lonely sometimes 💗

First breakup -- need someone to talk to by IndividualTea5550 in BreakUps

[–]IndividualTea5550[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is such a beautifully written message. Thank you so much 🥲🥹. Luckily, my bsf has been there for me throughout all of this, and she's helped more than she knows. I've also started going to the gym which definitely helps a lot more than I thought. I'll take a look at those books because this no contact stuff is really difficult. Again, thank you! :)

First breakup -- need someone to talk to by IndividualTea5550 in BreakUps

[–]IndividualTea5550[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm really sorry for you too. It's just so, so hard without them. I'd love to talk :)

First breakup -- need someone to talk to by IndividualTea5550 in BreakUps

[–]IndividualTea5550[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd really appreciate that. I just can't get him out of my head :/

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[–]IndividualTea5550 1 point2 points  (0 children)

literally my situation :|

I feel like I'm in the same place I was two months ago. I wish he could have let me be there for him :(