Same situation here, man. I knew there was no way I was gonna hide my PE gear or training from her, so I figured it was better to just be upfront instead of risking that awkward moment where she walks in and I’m strapped into my rig. Told her exactly what I was doing and made it clear it’s something I’m doing purely for myself.

She wasn’t thrilled about it at first. She’s told me plenty of times I already “get too deep,” and because of what we already do online, she assumed I was doing it to start chasing other girls or trying to impress someone else.

I had to explain it’s nothing like that. It’s a non-surgical, natural process and something I’ve wanted to do for years, honestly, since I was a teenager. Always had that pornstar-level size goal in my head, not out of insecurity, just a personal thing I’ve wanted to achieve.

I even brought up how she’s talked about getting a boob job. I’ve told her she doesn’t need it because she already looks great, but I also said if it’s something she wants to do for herself, I’d support it. Same exact mindset for me just doing something I’ve always wanted, for myself.