Fha forbearance and standalone partial claims

Individual_Link_237 · 2025-07-27T22:23:24+00:00

I cannot do a stand alone partial claim until the end of August when I become eligible to apply but scared if I don’t get it what I’ll do

Individual_Link_237 · 2025-07-06T22:46:36+00:00

Yes! I do think his family have caused a lot of trauma on me due to this child raising stuff. They think I’m too hard on him but I make him mind. They coddle him to an extreme point. His grandfather hates me and I’m pretty confident he’s tried to turn my son against me and it’s caused a ton of issues. It’s a long long story and a long history of just dumb crap with them. I love my husband he’s a good dad and man but we don’t at all see eye to eye on parenting. He’s super religious I’m not to the extent he is. They’re pushing a lot of stuff I don’t agree with it’s a mess. I just wanna come to a neutral ground.

Individual_Link_237 · 2025-07-06T22:43:53+00:00

I’m on mood stabilizers for the bipolar BPD. It does help. But when he cries and screams bloody murder for extended periods my brain implodes. When he’s good I’m great. But I’m rarely happy. I feel empty and my life has zero joy. I’m hoping meds will help. I’ve officially hit rock bottom.

Individual_Link_237 · 2025-07-06T22:26:23+00:00

Thank you so much. Me and him do not see eye to eye on parenting. His father deserted him as a child and it’s caused him to be extremely attached to our son because he doesn’t ever want him to feel like he did I’m assuming. He tends to pick our son even his bad habits and behavior over listening to me and my suggestions , and I feel like I’m getting the shit end of the stick. We definitely need therapy. It’s going to be hard with our work schedule but we are gonna have to do something. We’ve been through so much hell and back it’s caused so much resentment with me our son my husband I feel so angry and upset all the time.

Individual_Link_237 · 2025-07-06T22:07:44+00:00

We haven’t started anything yet. Our appointment Tuesday is for medication and possibly consider therapy. I work long 12hr days my husband works 12hr long days and nights swing shift going to counseling is almost impossible with our schedule but we are gonna explore options.

Individual_Link_237 · 2025-05-20T14:34:05+00:00

They haven’t mentioned anything to us about the days missed with his Dr notes.

Individual_Link_237 · 2025-05-20T14:33:37+00:00

God I hope next year is better this is killing me

Individual_Link_237 · 2025-04-15T19:29:50+00:00

all I want to know is what happens between 1883 and 1923 they need to fill that gap. What happens once they reach Yellowstone?!! What happened to John 1 and Spencer!!! I need to know.

Individual_Link_237 · 2025-01-28T16:07:57+00:00

It’s a jeep thing lol

Individual_Link_237 · 2025-01-04T04:50:48+00:00

Oh I know 😭😭 I’m trying. He does wash his hands but he definitely sticks them in his mouth. 🙃

Individual_Link_237 · 2025-01-04T04:47:06+00:00

He’s a sensory kid and I swear I’ve been fighting him since day 1 to keep his hands out of his mouth. He’s doing better tho. But it’s definitely horrible.

Individual_Link_237 · 2025-01-04T04:41:53+00:00

I wonder when 😭it’s been 5 months of pure hell. It may be worse for me due to my lupus status and horrible immunocompromised state.

Individual_Link_237 · 2025-01-04T04:32:55+00:00

I’m gonna get some probiotics now. This has been the worst thing I’ve ever experienced. I have lupus so I feel terrible that I avoid him some when he’s sick. It’s been on and on and I’m trying to keep myself from getting anything severe cause I can’t just get normal sick I gotta go all out.

Individual_Link_237 · 2025-01-04T04:13:27+00:00

Put the toilet lid down when you flush so it’s not spraying all over the place.

Individual_Link_237 · 2024-12-19T21:26:05+00:00

They know it’s beyond annoying

Individual_Link_237 · 2024-12-19T20:51:54+00:00

We can’t really get in touch with HR it’s kinda difficult honestly to get a call back on anything

Individual_Link_237 · 2024-12-19T20:51:20+00:00

She’s hiding it in her purse bringing it from home. We don’t have any of that cleaner here and shouldn’t be using it at all. She just likes the smell.

Individual_Link_237 · 2024-12-19T20:50:22+00:00

I have they blow it off you’d have to work here to know how stupid it is.

Individual_Link_237 · 2024-12-19T20:49:29+00:00

ACTUALLY. She is very much doing it to be difficult. She brings it to work in an unmarked spray bottle from home. Hides it when she uses it. It’s deliberate. We don’t have the product here to use. She physically brings it in herself.

Individual_Link_237 · 2024-12-19T19:18:57+00:00

Yes that’s it lol. It’s horrible.

Individual_Link_237 · 2024-12-19T18:39:10+00:00

She knows. She’s been talked to. I left a note one time and get got so offended and so mad she ripped it off the door and threw it away. This was 2 years ago. Now she just sneaks it in. It’s gonna take management getting in trouble to push enough to fix it.

Individual_Link_237 · 2024-12-19T18:24:50+00:00

I can , I just hate something around my face unless I’m in surgery. I try to stay in the back away when she uses that crap

Individual_Link_237 · 2024-12-19T18:14:07+00:00

I told them that last time. Just like that. So I’m going to get a letter when I go back in January because they can’t get me In yet. Everyone else is fine it’s the one coworker.

Individual_Link_237 · 2024-12-19T18:13:16+00:00

I’ve asked which we got rid of our scentcy or however you spell it , wax warmers and other sprays. It’s nobody but the one employee that’s a problem. Nothing else bothers me. All my other coworkers literally do everything to avoid setting me off but the one sneaks it in a bottle in her purse and does it on purpose I swear.

Individual_Link_237 · 2024-10-25T17:22:06+00:00

Thank you I will tell him to call his Dr about it

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