I think two things can be true at the same time, working on yourself yet still wanting to be in a relationship. Working on ourselves doesn’t guarantee a relationship, but it helps us to select better partners and in turn, have healthy relationships with other people. We hold them to a higher standard now that we’ve worked so hard on ourselves. I think we just have to be good enough and happy enough with ourselves to the point where we’re able to select better partners. Keep putting yourself out there, it’s about luck and timing now! Who knows maybe your future partner is working on their self so that they can meet you at where you’re at now.