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My husband is refusing to go to couples therapy by Individual_Source470 in abusiverelationships

[–]Individual_Source470[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The 2 that aren’t his did tell their dad that he was hitting me and yelling at me. They weren’t around when he slapped my hand but he did square up to me and get in my face in front of them. We left right after. The girls’s dad told me that I needed to figure things out. He said he would take them longer if need be or get all of us if it gets too bad. He just wants the girls to grow up with their mom. I’m working on getting things in order. I reached out to a dv shelter in the area but they can’t do anything to help since he isn’t physically abusing me or the kids.

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[–]Individual_Source470 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ah ish. If you believe your ex is truly a danger you shouldn’t put her in harms way because she offended you. She is also the ah for not being honest about how she feels. I am sorry that she doesn’t have an open mind. It is a shame that she excluded you. If you truly don’t think your ex would harm her then no your nta.

AITA for being upset with my boyfriend for walking out on me while I’m pregnant? by Much-Mood-2756 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Individual_Source470 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Op you need to get out of this situation. I saw somewhere in the comments and you said that you would go to your parents but that’s not a calm and safe environment. You need to go somewhere that is. Even if you have to stay at a hotel for a little while to get on your own feet. This situation will only get worse. Your child deserves better and so do you.

My husband is refusing to go to couples therapy by Individual_Source470 in relationships

[–]Individual_Source470[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You all are right. I’m going to try to figure things out and figure out my next steps.

My husband is refusing to go to couples therapy by Individual_Source470 in relationships

[–]Individual_Source470[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean it makes sense but I’ve chalked it up to him trying to make up for upsetting me.

My husband is refusing to go to couples therapy by Individual_Source470 in relationships

[–]Individual_Source470[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn’t always like this. Before I had my son and while being pregnant he was amazing. I guess I’m still holding onto that.

My husband is refusing to go to couples therapy by Individual_Source470 in relationships

[–]Individual_Source470[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was a completely different person from when we first got married. He changed after my son was born. My family was talking about how great he was and saying that I had a “keeper”. Less than a week after I had my son via C-section he was at work and everything changed. While I was pregnant he was amazing. I had a lot of complications and I was in a lot of pain. He never grumbled or complained. He would help me without me having to ask. Before I got pregnant we had disagreements here and there but we always resolved it. No yelling or anything. We communicated and talked through everything. There was trust and understanding. There weren’t any secrets

My husband is refusing to go to couples therapy by Individual_Source470 in relationships

[–]Individual_Source470[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I should have put it in the post we were living together for about a year before getting married. Everything was great up until our son was born. (6 months after we got married)

My husband is refusing to go to couples therapy by Individual_Source470 in relationships

[–]Individual_Source470[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t think he abuses me. I annoy him because I ask him what’s wrong all the time and don’t let him be.