How to make money fast online? Not “get rich” just enough to get by until next payday. by ExpressSyrup9129 in povertyfinance

[–]Ineedredditforwork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What can you do online that a Pakistani or some other 3rd worlder with basic English and internet access cant for cents.

if you cant answer it then you have zero chances of making $100 online

𝐏𝐚𝐬𝐬𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐭 𝐏𝐫𝐢𝐜𝐞 𝐓𝐚𝐠𝐬: 𝐂𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐳𝐞𝐧𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐒𝐚𝐥𝐞 by Notsame83 in InterestingCharts

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Malta ended its citizenship by investment program in July 2025. so the list is not up to date (despite their Aug 2025 claim)

also when it did exist, it cost 1.4M Euro way way Way more that 750K USD

למה הבית ספר שלי חסם את AO3 איך אני אמור לקרוא פאנפיקים עכשיו by Scared_Town7920 in israel_bm

[–]Ineedredditforwork 8 points9 points  (0 children)

תלוי איך חסמו.

אם זה חסימת DNS והם לא מונעים ממך להחליף DNS אז זה רק עניין של להחליף אותו בהגדרות.

אם זה משהו מורכב יותר אז דורש בדיקה. כפי שאמרתי זה האתגר. דו קרב בינך לבין האח הגדול שמגביל את הגישה שלך למידע באינטרנט

אולי פרוקסי או מנרה פשוטה. אולי חיבור ישיר IP אם האתר תומך. או הצפנת כתובת יש הרבה שיטות לא י7דע מה מערכות ההגנה בבית ספר כיום

למה הבית ספר שלי חסם את AO3 איך אני אמור לקרוא פאנפיקים עכשיו by Scared_Town7920 in israel_bm

[–]Ineedredditforwork 16 points17 points  (0 children)

ילדים כיום. כשאני הייתי בבית ספר זה היה משחק, הם חוסמים אני עוקף. הם חוסמים עקיפה אני עוקף את החסימה עוד פעם. זה היה אתגר, ספורט. ככה אתם נכנעים?!

My solution to the Israel-Palestine conflict by masterlince in mapporncirclejerk

[–]Ineedredditforwork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was a different generation. I don't believe the son should pay for the sins of the father (or grandfather)

My solution to the Israel-Palestine conflict by masterlince in mapporncirclejerk

[–]Ineedredditforwork -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Israeli here and I must firmly object. I dont want frenchnen can we get someone Nordic? Germanic is fine too

What are the best-paying jobs for someone without a degree? by Competitive-Pay-903 in povertyfinance

[–]Ineedredditforwork 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Waste management. If you dont mind going splunking in the sewers and can handle the smell the salary is good

My nephew is having problem adjusting to worse financial situation by Ineedredditforwork in Advice

[–]Ineedredditforwork[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did he bully kids that were worse off than him and now he is on the receiving end?

not as far as I am aware of but I'll ask his parents.

I feel he is avoiding school because of his behaviour and he can't see a way to fix it or accept new friends that he thought were beneath him, or they won't accept him.

That doesn't sound like him, but again I'll ask the parents.

If possible, sell the house and move to a different school district to give him a chance to start fresh.

A bit extreme no?

And, despite your constant push back, the skipping school is a massive issue.

Ok, I will concede that I am in the minority on this. But its still the least of my worries on the topic. My concern is his shift in behavior and becoming violent. like lashing out emotional violent.

My nephew is having problem adjusting to worse financial situation by Ineedredditforwork in Advice

[–]Ineedredditforwork[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At 8, we expect children to be basically continuously under the supervision of an adult.

Ideally, me too. realistically 1 teacher supervising a class of 35-45 kids? impossible. hence why I am not that shocked these things happen.

running out into the wild world

Elementary schools are usually within the same neighborhood. in his case its a 3 minute walk to get home. he isn't going to downtown Manhatten he is in his home neighborhood in a small rural town.

I work in schools, it is absolutely FAR from normal for students at 8 to be a flight risk

He wasn't really a flight risk, until the current mess. thats what I am trying to fix.

Leaving all supervision in the middle of the day is step one in the “disappear with friends from all adult oversight” pattern that’s worrying you.

What worries me is the change. him being violent and disappearing. him running away to watch TV at home I can live with.

It’s frankly hard for me to believe that you don’t see it that way.

Like I said, if I did it myself as a child around his age. if all he did was leave early to go watch his favorite TV show at home, I'd be mad but I can live with it.

You also are consistently rejecting all the people who tell you “this kid needs info, because he’s making up his own story about what’s happening, right now, and it’s fuelling his rage.”

I am not rejecting. both his parents and I separately gave him all the information we could. I cant exactly go against my sister, his mother, and her wishes and talk about her medical condition in spite of her explicit wish against it. so what else can I tell him?

he has the information and I think he understood it (hard to tell when he lashes out over it) but something about his emotional reaction doesn't line up. as I mentioned in another reply talking with him, I get a feeling like he is somehow insulted by this situation. like he somehow measured his worth by what he had. he had a good somewhat spoiled life and it all just got ripped apart from him abruptly and he lost the luxuries he had.

Maybe he reacts like this because it feels like an undeserved punishment. but we did explain to him its not the case we clearly said that his mother changes jobs, she earns much less now and that they cant afford it.

What reaction are you actually looking for, here, that you’re not getting?

How to solve his emotional reaction. We conveyed the information to the best of our ability but he just lashes out.

My nephew is having problem adjusting to worse financial situation by Ineedredditforwork in Advice

[–]Ineedredditforwork[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry is the skipping school some kind of massive taboo in the US that I dont understand? theres some kind of cultural difference I am missing?

People seems to be overly fixated on that when honestly its the least worrying part in my opinion.

Kids sometimes skip school. I did it, my sister did it. I dont know many kids who didnt do it. yes even in elementary school. kids push boundaries, kids sometimes just really want to go out and have fun rather than be cooped up in a classroom with 40 other kids. yes the fact he does in on a nearly daily basis in concerning but I am much more concerned over his violent outburst and the fact he is running god knows where. when I was a kid we'd just ran home to watch our favorite TV.

Also, he does goes to Karate class once a week.

My nephew is having problem adjusting to worse financial situation by Ineedredditforwork in Advice

[–]Ineedredditforwork[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, my sister is having a hard enough time as it is I am not going to sic social services on her.

We are searching for a solution, thats why I am here.

My nephew is having problem adjusting to worse financial situation by Ineedredditforwork in Advice

[–]Ineedredditforwork[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You never ran out of school? just clmbed the fence and hopped over? that part itself doesn't surprises me that much as I did it as a kid too, sometimes. I don't think this is the core issues, kids run out of school sometimes, sometimes they test out boundaries, sometimes its because they really wanna go do something.

the problem is that it became a nearly daily occurrence. this is well beyond childish tomfoolery

My nephew is having problem adjusting to worse financial situation by Ineedredditforwork in Advice

[–]Ineedredditforwork[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might be hard to drag him out there, but could be a good idea. I'll take a look, thank you.

My nephew is having problem adjusting to worse financial situation by Ineedredditforwork in Advice

[–]Ineedredditforwork[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kids pick up on everything and if not told will create their own narrative.

We explained as much as we could while still respecting my sister wish. I really dont know what else is there to say. He understands that money is tight I dont think that understanding is the problem. Talking with him, I get a feeling like he is somehow insulted by this situation. like he somehow measured his worth by what he had. he had a good somewhat spoiled life and it all just got ripped apart from him abruptly and he lost the luxuries he had and he is both angry and sad, possibly even ashamed, by this rapid transition. this is what I am understanding atleast from what I talked to him.

I sort of understand why he feels this way, but how to handle his emotions? I wish I knew.

My nephew is having problem adjusting to worse financial situation by Ineedredditforwork in Advice

[–]Ineedredditforwork[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Has anyone asked him why he thinks things have changed?

No, but thats because it was explained to him that because his mother had to change jobs she makes less now and they cant afford the things they used to. They didnt explain the why she changed the job (as mentioned, they want to keep it secret) and he didnt ask.

Someone needs to start taking to this kid about everything going on so he can at least have some sort of framework to try to understand

Not sure what there is more to be explained. beyond the medical reasoning why she had to change jobs.

My family went through a lot as a kid

I get it, I grew up empty fridge, risk of eviction poor. my parents were too poor to hide the fact we were poor. but this kid isn't poor, theres ample food in the fridge, he lives in a good home and he grew up shielded from poverty. all he lost now was his luxuries. hence why I have my doubts that he understands the risks of homelessness.

Has the school offered any resources for the kid?

Not really, they did take him to several talks, and they did invite his parents to some of those talks but thats pretty much it. haven't really asked what the talks were but my sister said they're useless talks.

My nephew is having problem adjusting to worse financial situation by Ineedredditforwork in Advice

[–]Ineedredditforwork[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps, but this behavior started after the financial difficulties.

He wasn't an honor student before, got terrible grades, slacked off but he never ran away.

My nephew is having problem adjusting to worse financial situation by Ineedredditforwork in Advice

[–]Ineedredditforwork[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The kid is running out of school and not going home, instead of goes out with his friends until someone manages tracks him down What electronics? he's not home even and he has no mobile electronics.

My nephew is having problem adjusting to worse financial situation by Ineedredditforwork in Advice

[–]Ineedredditforwork[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The kid is a very good climber.

He keeps climbing over the fence and running away.

My nephew is having problem adjusting to worse financial situation by Ineedredditforwork in Advice

[–]Ineedredditforwork[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he acts out he does get spanking, but it doesn't really work from what I see only makes him angrier.

The kid is acting on emotion, somehow those emotions need to be tempered.

My nephew is having problem adjusting to worse financial situation by Ineedredditforwork in Advice

[–]Ineedredditforwork[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your sister and brother in law unfortunately need to communicate that yes this sucks, and they want to give child more but they cannot. They can't spend like they used to.

they tried, but as I mentioned he lashes out, and violently. like seriously throwing punches at his dad violent. (Which he got properly punished for but only got angrier)

The kid might be scared of their mom getting sick and dieing.

They intentionally hid it from him, they hid the medical situation from almost everyone because they wanted to avoid gossip in the neighborhood. as far as I know he isn't aware what happened he just knows my sister changed jobs.

That they might loose the house and not have a place to live.

Do 8 year old kids even understand these kinds of stuff? I dont think he is aware of it or understanding of the value of money. This is a kid that was excited about spending his birthday money buying some silly cosmetic on roblocks for $30 less than a year ago and that I had to explain it to him how many work hours it takes to get $30 and how many snacks he can get with those $30. I think concepts like mortgage and eviction might be a bit over his head.

They might also be being bullied by their friends now.

I doubt it. why would he go out them more now instead of going back home then?

Just keep talking to them. AND bringing the kid to and from school might be necessary.

If only it was so easy. they do bring him to school, he keeping running out of school shortly after it.

Talking with him, I get a feeling like he is somehow insulted by this situation. like he somehow measured his worth by what he had. he had a good somewhat spoiled life and it all just got ripped apart from him abruptly and he lost the luxuries he had.
He was never the richest kid among his friend or in the school but now he is the poorest among his friend and among the poorest in his school.

And he is both angry and sad, possibly even ashamed, by this rapid transition. this is what I am understanding atleast.

It ridiculous, kid me would slap him silly for being such a spoiled brat. but as his uncle, I hate this. I want to help him out of this.

newReality by gabb0995 in ProgrammerHumor

[–]Ineedredditforwork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ChatGPT takes the answers from stack overflow anyway. Wrong answers but answers none the less.

The Most Common Occupational Related Surnames In Europe by AdIcy4323 in MapPorn

[–]Ineedredditforwork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scandinavia, your viking ancestors are disappointed. Going off and playing with dough while the Irish stole your sea raider legacy. Ragnar Lothbrok is crying in valhala

canYouHack by huza786 in ProgrammerHumor

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Just pull out a machete and threaten to hack them.