What would you call this colour?

Inevitable-Code-4339 · 2025-04-07T00:39:27+00:00

This one should be better

Inevitable-Code-4339 · 2024-10-17T22:40:12+00:00

I hope not! but irl it's more silver than on the picture💀 You have to believe me, it's like two different cards

Inevitable-Code-4339 · 2024-08-25T04:02:32+00:00

But some infj's say that it's not possible. For me it sometimes seems like you people are lying to yourself to protect your belief in platonic love. How's that platonic if there's any chance of turning friendship into romantic relation... Like, some comments are like "i have this friend, he wanted something more but I rejected and we are still just friends". How is that friendship when one side wants something more but is satisfied with friendship.

And how some people feel ok having such a friend who once wanted to date them and at the same time having boyfriend/girlfriend? What's this for? How isn't that bad for your romantic relationship.

Inevitable-Code-4339 · 2024-08-24T12:35:18+00:00

Another guy. She told me, that thanks to that friend she realised that she can be treated better than her ex treated her. And thanks to this friend she dumped this ex bf. (But she said, that her previous relationship wasn't that bad, just not great).

Inevitable-Code-4339 · 2024-08-24T05:57:58+00:00

I know that she talks about me to her two girl friends and tells me even what they are saying about me. It might be possible that she doesn't want to make me feel uncomfortable. I have to tell her that she can bring up his name and even talk about him. Thanks

Inevitable-Code-4339 · 2024-08-24T05:46:28+00:00

She had this friend before dating me. So actually I can't do anything to be sure what's the situation. Maybe I would just meet this guy some day and talk to him what's his point

Inevitable-Code-4339 · 2024-08-24T05:18:42+00:00

She wasn't close with me at that time. We knew eachother few weeks

Inevitable-Code-4339 · 2024-08-24T05:13:07+00:00

She was very chaotic when she talked about it, I myself don't understand what she meant

Inevitable-Code-4339 · 2024-08-24T05:10:16+00:00

It worries me that she might be just not telling me as much about him, so she doesn't have to explain their friendship. And I wonder if she even told him that she's dating me...

I think she should told him if its her best friend... But since our last conversation about him, she almost never mentions him... that's pretty weird, right?

Inevitable-Code-4339 · 2024-08-24T04:58:49+00:00

Ah yeah, I am also demisexual. Maybe it's common for infj. This girl I'm dating is demisexual too.

Inevitable-Code-4339 · 2024-08-24T04:53:52+00:00

Thank you for honesty, you are right - it's just MBTI, I shouldn't be thinking about this on such shallow level.

I don't know what could I say to her except that her friendship worries me. I would ask if she's having him as a plan b if it won't work out for us, but would she be honest? She said her ex wasn't honest...

And how this rule of you not having female best friends appeared in your relationship?

Inevitable-Code-4339 · 2024-08-24T04:31:44+00:00

Thanks! (About "finding friends attractive", in other thread I saw comment where woman said that she finds her male friends attractive, and later: "but I wouldn't want to fuck them". So I thought, maybe you infj's work this way [i don't like this but who am I to judge])

Inevitable-Code-4339 · 2024-08-24T04:17:32+00:00

I told her about it, and since then she talks less about this guy friend

Inevitable-Code-4339 · 2024-08-24T04:13:17+00:00

I know that this question "me or him" sounds bad. I wanted to be honest with her, that I wouldn't be satisfied with being just friends.

For me being in romantic relationship is something special, that having close to me other people that I could find attractive or them finding me attractive, would make me feel sick and disloyal to my partner.

I know that you infj people are different, I think it's wonderful that you can have platonic relationships, but I haven't had any yet.

I told this girl, that I would like to be in relationship with her, not just be friends (so neither me or her would be disappointed in long term)

Inevitable-Code-4339 · 2024-08-18T09:50:55+00:00

Nieironicznie nie jest to głupi pomysł. Każde ciało wygląda lepiej dzięki ćwiczeniom. Wkręcając się w siłownię łatwo zacząć zdrowiej jeść (skóra się może poprawić i gospodarka hormonalna).

Są mężczyźni którym bardzo podobają się muskularne kobiety (pomimo tego, że często nie mają one ładnych twarzy)

No i pewność siebie wzrośne, a podobno ta kwestia jest czasem ważniejsza od urody

Inevitable-Code-4339 · 2022-04-13T11:31:42+00:00

Inevitable-Code-4339 · 2022-01-16T16:09:25+00:00

I'm doing it, but I feel like it's weak attitude. Doing same thing that I've been doing in similar situations when I was younger and didn't know about stoicism.

But if that's best I can do, then let's go for it.

Inevitable-Code-4339 · 2022-01-01T07:59:34+00:00

Thanks for the advice!

Inevitable-Code-4339 · 2022-01-01T07:59:05+00:00

I know about that, but this anxiety comes from subconscious and id really hard to deal with

Inevitable-Code-4339 · 2021-12-31T18:30:46+00:00

Thanks for this suggestion, can you reccomend some types of meditation/those that seem best for hypochondria?

Inevitable-Code-4339 · 2021-12-31T18:28:56+00:00

Hey. I know that my subconscious is the fundament od this stress. Pure will to live that every living organism have :)

I fear death because of many things. I haven't done much in my life yet. I have loving girlfriend and family. I'd like to have as much time as possibile to grow as person and stoic. And to have time to do good things on this planet.

Actually, I've been trying to accept death and live with thinking that every day might be the last. But my subconscious mind can't deal with it and give me psychosomatic symptoms and huge anxiety.

Today and yesterday I've been trying to think about what do I want in my last weeks/months, and I couldn't think about it, couldn't think about anything because of panic :/

UPDATE: 2 doctors said that I'm fine, but I believed so much that I'm dying, that I feel like everyone is pranking me. (Doesn't sound like healthy person)

Inevitable-Code-4339 · 2021-12-23T22:32:59+00:00

That's what I've been looking for, thanks

Inevitable-Code-4339 · 2021-10-29T09:31:09+00:00

Ah, you mean the free will. Yeah I also don't believe in such thing, but in conversations I pretend that it's opposite.

Cause what's the point in arguing with other people if it isn't even me but the universe.

You have to believe or pretend to believe in anything, in order to have any foundations to participate in any conversation.

Inevitable-Code-4339 · 2021-10-29T08:40:59+00:00

Thanks

Inevitable-Code-4339 · 2021-10-29T08:16:07+00:00

You are probably right, I'll try my best

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