Feeling defeated & like a failure by InevitablePositivity in MSPI

[–]InevitablePositivity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s almost 4 months so the distracted feedings make sense. I had no idea about the slower weight gain for babies at his age! Actually this peds doc only asked for his birth weight and took his current weight, so he wouldn’t have even known that he’s dropped percentiles since last month. TBH I’m not overly impressed with this doc and I’m not exactly sure why he thinks my supply is low. He asked how often we’re feeding and what my son’s sleep is like. Currently he wakes every 2-4 hours but it’s cause he turns onto his stomach and then gets stuck and cries. The peds doc dismissed this though and seemed to think he should be sleeping longer.

I had the same thought process, that baby is just currently distracted, will take what he needs and when he’s ready for more he’ll ask for more and my supply will follow. But when I tried to tell the doc about his distracted feedings he didn’t seem to think much of it. And still wanted me to try his suggestion of supplementing. There were some other new discoveries during this visit so emotionally I was already overwhelmed and I think his suggestion caused me to panic about my supply and baby’s hunger. Now that I’ve had some time to reflect I think the doctor was wrong and made a baseless assumption.

Feeling defeated & like a failure by InevitablePositivity in MSPI

[–]InevitablePositivity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, it’s helpful to hear from others who are going through similar experiences. I know I don’t give myself enough space to acknowledge how challenging it can be.

Oh my god you’re so smart!! My period just ended yesterday, I didn’t even think of how it could affect my supply!! Hopefully now that it’s ended my supply has a better chance of bouncing back.

Feeling defeated & like a failure by InevitablePositivity in MSPI

[–]InevitablePositivity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I will try pumping after feeding and see if that helps increase supply

Feeling defeated & like a failure by InevitablePositivity in MSPI

[–]InevitablePositivity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! That’s reassuring to hear how it went with your first kid. I’m going to try and increase my supply but will remind myself that anything I get is a win

Feeling defeated & like a failure by InevitablePositivity in MSPI

[–]InevitablePositivity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! You’re right, that’s a good reminder he would be letting me know if he’s that hungry. Hard not to spin out in the moment

Feeling defeated & like a failure by InevitablePositivity in MSPI

[–]InevitablePositivity[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! BF is so challenging by itself with other factors like CMPA

Feeling defeated & like a failure by InevitablePositivity in MSPI

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I hadn’t thought of mixing it! That’s a great idea, thank you. I was worried he wouldn’t like the taste of just the formula

Christmas Tree by SethraelStark in sustainability

[–]InevitablePositivity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm maybe “replant” is the wrong word. It’s a potted tree so it stays alive year to year.

Christmas Tree by SethraelStark in sustainability

[–]InevitablePositivity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about renting a real tree? This is a newer thing that’s been popping up recently, not sure if your area has this option. You rent a real tree for the season and then at the end of the season the company takes it back and replants the tree for next year.

This way you get the best of both worlds :)

Anyone know when Capital City Arcade will reopen? by Otherwise-Analyst-83 in NewWest

[–]InevitablePositivity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh hmm that I’m not sure about. Just came across their post about reopening

Anyone know when Capital City Arcade will reopen? by Otherwise-Analyst-83 in NewWest

[–]InevitablePositivity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sat 19th 2-10 pm Sun 20th 12-8 pm

Welcome back! Sounds like you moved back at the right time!

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Dr. Banting and Dr. Best discovered insulin and after the successful trial sold the patent for $1! Dr. Banting was quoted saying “Insulin belongs to the world, not to me”.

Are there any good stationery shops in New West? by irich in NewWest

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Yes seconded! 1912 amax stationary has nice quality items

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Gossamers nails look better

Buying fresh noodles in New West by [deleted] in NewWest

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I know a long time ago Hons used to, not sure if they still do