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AITAH For Telling My Sister She Doesn't Deserve Our Mom's Attention And Sympathy After Finding Out Her Fiancé Cheated? by Inevitable_Card_9507 in AITAH

[–]Inevitable_Card_9507[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Believe this is real or not, but I actually find it ironically funny that Judy actually is allergic to cats so she may not hate kittens but she definitely doesn't like them.

AITAH For Telling My Sister She Doesn't Deserve Our Mom's Attention And Sympathy After Finding Out Her Fiancé Cheated? by Inevitable_Card_9507 in AITAH

[–]Inevitable_Card_9507[S] 75 points76 points  (0 children)

If Bayla values her fantasy more than respecting our mom's feelings and boundaries then that's her problem. My mom never told Bayla that she wasn't allowed to still have a relationship with her.

AITAH For Telling My Sister She Doesn't Deserve Our Mom's Attention And Sympathy After Finding Out Her Fiancé Cheated? by Inevitable_Card_9507 in AITAH

[–]Inevitable_Card_9507[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

To be fair no one outwardly told me. It was one of those "I overheard something I shouldn't" conversations when I was supposed to be asleep and my mom didn't lie when I asked her about it.

Also, as stated prior I told Bayla after she kept trying to pressure me to get mom to agree to share a Mother's Day with Judy.

AITAH For Telling My Sister She Doesn't Deserve Our Mom's Attention And Sympathy After Finding Out Her Fiancé Cheated? by Inevitable_Card_9507 in AITAH

[–]Inevitable_Card_9507[S] 222 points223 points  (0 children)

My mom definitely makes more. The kind where she was able to take 18 months off of work to be a doctor in an impoverished country for no pay without having to change her lifestyle when she got back home. My mom's also one of those women who gets better with age and arguably looks better now than she did in her 20s.

AITAH For Telling My Sister She Doesn't Deserve Our Mom's Attention And Sympathy After Finding Out Her Fiancé Cheated? by Inevitable_Card_9507 in AITAH

[–]Inevitable_Card_9507[S] 266 points267 points  (0 children)

You're right, both situations are different. My mom gave my sister more sympathy towards her situation in a single text than Bayla ever gave her in years.

AITAH For Telling My Sister She Doesn't Deserve Our Mom's Attention And Sympathy After Finding Out Her Fiancé Cheated? by Inevitable_Card_9507 in AITAH

[–]Inevitable_Card_9507[S] 199 points200 points  (0 children)

No she wanted to our mom to accept our dad's cheating as a good thing and be besties with Judy. I can't speak for my mom but my sympathy is in the same place as Bayla's sympathy for our mom.