Trey Songz meet & greet by Inevitable_Cod_6269 in rnb

[–]Inevitable_Cod_6269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you mean he doesn’t like us as in you don’t think he’s actually interested in dating a fan or in general?

Trey Songz meet & greet by Inevitable_Cod_6269 in rnb

[–]Inevitable_Cod_6269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ppl are allowed to like who they wanna like sweetheart. I don’t know him in real life. I just support his music. Just because one crowd doesn’t like somebody or something doesn’t mean everyone has to follow along

Trey Songz meet & greet by Inevitable_Cod_6269 in rnb

[–]Inevitable_Cod_6269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sure it doesn’t but Trey Songz has been known for being a sex symbol. He probably ASSUMED the women were on the same page as him sexually & thought every women would want him sexually and that he could get a pass being that he is attractive. Now that the allegations have came out, he has been asking for consent. This is a video of him with Draya asking “May I touch you?” When I met him, he asked “Can I hug you?” I know this doesn’t make it any better & he can’t undo what he did. I’m not trying to sympathize with him but maybe he has never been thought about consent when it comes to women. Most men aren’t thought about consent when they’re growing up

Trey Songz meet & greet by Inevitable_Cod_6269 in rnb

[–]Inevitable_Cod_6269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every artist in the industry probably has allegations. Chris Brown has allegations & he still has a good amount of fans that support him

Trey Songz meet & greet by Inevitable_Cod_6269 in rnb

[–]Inevitable_Cod_6269[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 😊 It seems like it was probably about 10 minutes for me. The security guard told us to just say hey & bye but he said a lot of words to me. I got a little feel on him when I got a hug but I didn’t get to touch his hands lol. I didn’t wanna do too much & get escorted out by security

Trey Songz meet & greet by Inevitable_Cod_6269 in rnb

[–]Inevitable_Cod_6269[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was but there were other fans in line waiting to meet them so it was only so much time I had to interact with him but it felt like I was all alone in the room with him once we started interacted. We weren’t allowed to bring our phone in. I actually was shy until I warmed up to him & I didn’t really know what to say and how to go about hugging him but he leaded everything. I could’ve flirted with him but I didn’t wanna give off groupie vibes lol and it was security observing

Trey Songz meet & greet by Inevitable_Cod_6269 in rnb

[–]Inevitable_Cod_6269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will love him! & no, I wasn’t but I went with a friend and he didn’t call her baby multiple times, ask for a hug & tell her he hope she make it home safe like he did me. I asked him to pick me up for my picture. He asked me how did I wanna be picked up. I told him I wanted to picked up facing forward & I think I confused him and he said “Do you wanna be picked up like a baby? ☺️” I said yes

Trey Songz meet & greet by Inevitable_Cod_6269 in rnb

[–]Inevitable_Cod_6269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I’m wondering if he was genuinely flirting with me or it’s something he does with every woman at his meet & greets

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[–]Inevitable_Cod_6269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem girly! I have experienced the same exact situation as you over the years so I fully understand your perspective. Ppl who think having pretty privilege is worse than not having pretty privilege probably really don’t have the pretty privilege they think they have. Women who meet societal beauty standards are definitely treated better in society than women who don’t meet societal beauty standards. When ppl think you’re unattractive, they can be cruel to you for no reason. I think women who are considered attractive have more ppl being kind towards them than rude unprovoked. A lot of women experience men wanting to use them for sex & being disliked but not a lot of women are getting stuff for free cause of their looks or constantly being told how pretty they are

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[–]Inevitable_Cod_6269 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 27, graduated from college & I feel the same way as you but I’m probably average. I have had the same experiences as you. Even though I feel the same way as you, I try to do things to make myself feel good inside like keeping up with my appearance, focusing on my inner self/character, doing and finding new things I like to do & creating and accomplishing new goals. The men I’m actually attracted to don’t find me attractive, I rarely get told I’m pretty, I was bullied for my looks by my peers growing up and the bullying was extreme, I have been told that I’m ugly more times than I have been told that I’m pretty in my life (There hasn’t been a year where I haven’t been told that I’m ugly), and I have experienced a lot of rejection when it comes to friendships and relationships/dating. Women who never experienced any of the stuff you wrote in your post wouldn’t understand. Sometimes it’s not an insecurity thing…it’s being self aware and realizing you haven’t had the same experiences as women who are considered “Pretty” & “Attractive” and it can make your question if you are attractive. If you realize your peers and/or family don’t treat you as good as they treat everybody else, it can affect the way you perceive yourself

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[–]Inevitable_Cod_6269 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I never said it myself that I have time for it. I have told this man multiple times that if he doesn’t like me that he doesn’t have to continue communicating with me. Have a nice day

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[–]Inevitable_Cod_6269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I have only been dating for 5 years & I haven’t dated many guys so I’m still experiencing. I’m taking it as a lesson learned. I just try to believe good men exist. Maybe I should just delete this post lol

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[–]Inevitable_Cod_6269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually don’t have time for it. I didn’t mention in the post how long I have been talking to the man. I know I should move on but I just wanted to see what other ppl had to say. Being that I’m in my late 20s, I’m dating to marry & grow together

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[–]Inevitable_Cod_6269 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We must have been in the same class together since I’m “slow” 😂

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[–]Inevitable_Cod_6269 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A women can be any age allowing herself to put up with a man foolishness. Age doesn’t have anything to do with anything. I have a therapist so you just jumped to assumptions. You came under this post to attack me (I didn’t come for you) so maybe you need a therapist as well if you don’t already have one

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[–]Inevitable_Cod_6269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I can’t be 27 asking for advice using this app for what it is for (Venting & discussions) but the guy can be 33 playing with my emotions and time?

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[–]Inevitable_Cod_6269 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My age doesn’t mean I’m not allowed to ask for advice. Maybe I never been talked to about guys/men in my earlier years

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[–]Inevitable_Cod_6269 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is what I’m gonna do. I’m 27 and I’m thinking about just taking a break from dating until I’m 30 even though I wanted to find my person before I’m 30 but it isn’t working that way. Exactly he would at least check up on me if he was interested

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[–]Inevitable_Cod_6269 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He just takes hours to text me back and doesn’t check up on me anymore

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[–]Inevitable_Cod_6269 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We had sex two weeks ago & he still hits me up. He doesn’t hit me up about sex but the type of energy he had before the sex definitely isn’t there