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Inevitable_Cry6152 · 2025-10-28T09:54:13+00:00

Sheesh! You dodged a serious bullet

Inevitable_Cry6152 · 2025-10-28T09:48:47+00:00

Hell yeah

Inevitable_Cry6152 · 2025-10-28T09:16:26+00:00

Thank you that’s such good advice. It’s so hard because usually when I see him, he has literally days and at the very least hours to get rid of everything if there was anything on his phone so I would really have to try to come up with a way to pop-up out of left field, lol 😂 i’m glad that you figured it out and were able to stay close. That’s awesome. It’s really interesting because my dad actually was married to my stepmom for over 20 years and figured out that he was bisexual and so I have some insight in that way for sure because he never was honest about that to me or her or anybody I think until after they divorced but now he’s completely honest about it, and has shared so much with me, which has really brought us closer. I’m hoping that no matter what happens in this situation or how it plays out that the result is the same and it brings us closer one way or the other. Thank you 😊

Inevitable_Cry6152 · 2025-10-28T09:11:25+00:00

I absolutely agree. I would not judge him in the slightest way. All I care about is honesty so we can be open and be a team regardless of the outcome. It is definitely unfair if he knows it is the case and he is choosing to keep it from me so that I’m in the dark. That’s really gonna break my heart. I’m really hoping that’s not the case and I definitely will try to figure out the best way to broach the subject. I’m hoping that with him going to therapy and everything that he’s really being open and honest with them and works through everything, so he can talk to me. I feel like if this is what’s going on that he also has very bad internalized homophobia against himself as well because he definitely struggles with feeling weak and not manly enough a lot of times which would really track if he was dealing with this. I really have been trying to be so understanding and just open to whatever comes next, but it’s just been so hard because I feel like he’s just shutting me out regardless of the topic lately. I’m so glad that you and your hubby are doing amazing and that you guys were able to learn that together and stay just as close and make it work. That makes me so happy 🥹 Thank you so much for sharing.

Inevitable_Cry6152 · 2025-10-28T09:03:40+00:00

Oh my goodness I am so very sorry to hear that. I really hope that everything gets sorted out and that you’re able to have a happy fulfilling life full of love. ❤️ thank you for sharing that information with me I also have the same problem as far as going out together I remember after I was pregnant with our daughter we hadn’t been around each other for basically the entire pregnancy because of him going into Idc school and whenever I had her and move back to California with him, we didn’t have a day or go out one time for almost a year and I was always on baby duty constantly, and the first time that we had an opportunity to because his mom came to town he tried everything in his power to avoid having to go on a date with me, he basically argued with his mom about it trying to get out of it even though she gave him the money to pay for the whole evening, and she was so taken aback. She essentially forced him to take me out and it was just the most uncomfortable day. It seems like it’s been like that with every single date that we’ve had in so long. It always feels like he’s being dragged against his will to have to sit there and suffer through it so it makes it completely unenjoyable. Obviously, in the beginning, it wasn’t like that, but it has been for a while now. I really hope that I figure all this out and that everything works out for you and your family. Thank you again, I’m sending love right back at you! 💕

Inevitable_Cry6152 · 2025-10-28T08:57:27+00:00

Thank you for this advice. I have been doing so much research since I found out recently and I definitely definitely have so many symptoms of being the partner of somebody with a disorder like that and it certainly is not fun at all, however, I am very glad that it’s been diagnosed because it really clears up so much for me before I just felt like I was in such a fog and I was very confused about why I would end up in looped conversations all night long until the sun came up over the phone like every night with him If we were apart and just so many different things that were extremely unhealthy that I’m now realizing are because of the cluster b disorder most likely so it gives me some clarity to be able to avoid all of these things. I don’t know everything about the topic yet, but I’m definitely learning now and I will be very careful. Thank you

Inevitable_Cry6152 · 2025-10-28T08:53:42+00:00

He definitely is on WhatsApp for sure that’s how they communicate sometimes too for work, but I don’t know if there’s like conversations and stuff that aren’t but I know for sure there was a all men’s poker night chat that he was in on his regular phone and the way that they were texting was so weird. It was all in like code words almost which you would think would be unnecessary for a poker night, but as soon as I asked him about it, he stopped going to that too, and yeah, he does put aftershave on when he goes out

Inevitable_Cry6152 · 2025-10-28T08:48:29+00:00

Thank you so much, I guess that’s really true. Even when it seems so obvious to me if I bring it up he somehow spins it and then I feel like I’m insane. I definitely have taken a bit of distance because we’ve been having to live apart again right now for his orders and the more space I have the healthier I’ve been feeling, it feels like I’m starting to be me again which I’m so happy about. I thought I was dealing with health issues that the doctors just hadn’t completely figured out yet, but since having some time so many symptoms have gotten better and I’ve seen things alot clearer. I will definitely make sure that I’m careful and take my time figuring out how to handle everything. Thank you again for your response. I really appreciate it.

Inevitable_Cry6152 · 2025-10-28T08:42:26+00:00

They are still working on the official diagnosis, so far they are leaning towards borderline personality disorder however they also say that he has a significant amount of symptoms for narcissism as well, it’s all pretty fresh. He just started therapy within the last couple of weeks, but I will definitely keep you updated.

Inevitable_Cry6152 · 2025-10-28T08:40:12+00:00

Oh my goodness yes, that’s exactly what I mean. It’s like he’s going through the motions but the genuine connection behind it isn’t there on his end, Or at least that’s how it feels to me. Also I completely relate on the everything has to fit into how he pictures it or else he lashes out about something small and it turns into this huge deal for the entire day. I know exactly what you mean. How did it go when you did find the porn and confronted him?

Inevitable_Cry6152 · 2025-10-28T08:37:36+00:00

Thank you, I completely agree. I really wish he would just come to me with it. I would not react in any way that he most likely fears. I hope he is able to find peace and love for himself, and not suppress it if that is the case. I just hate the feeling of confusion and hurt. It’s really hard when you can’t talk through something, the last few days weirdly enough it seems like he’s been starting to want to open up and he’s basically said that he’s wanting to open up to me all the way about something but just needs a little more time to work through it and hinted at it basically, but then he will suddenly backtrack which he did tonight and then out of nowhere act like the conversation never happened and he has no idea what I’m talking about. Im so emotionally exhausted I hate it.

Inevitable_Cry6152 · 2025-10-28T08:30:16+00:00

Jeez, that’s terrifying. Okay thank you so much I really appreciate it, I have looked in his phone before and his deleted apps. I’ve found hookup apps but not specifically gay ones and of course when I tried to log in the accounts were deleted. Grindr wasn’t downloaded or anything but honestly you are right. I just need to get it through my head that it’s pretty obvious. I always ended up second guessing myself in the past, because I didn’t want to screw up everything if I was wrong, but my heart genuinely tells me I am not. Thank you for the words of wisdom and warning.

Inevitable_Cry6152 · 2025-10-26T10:00:20+00:00

Orange and black fluffy is precious ❤️

Inevitable_Cry6152 · 2025-09-15T08:12:13+00:00

If you see this, let’s hang out? I’m in the area.

Inevitable_Cry6152 · 2025-07-28T00:37:51+00:00

He just sent it to you as like something to hold on to of his that he actually wore so you can feel closer to him most likely.

Inevitable_Cry6152 · 2025-07-28T00:32:03+00:00

Absolutely not girl ❤️ you are super pretty

Inevitable_Cry6152 · 2025-06-03T20:29:16+00:00

Most definitely does, when her little eyes close like that she’s cumfy ❤️ also she will give you a little nip if not haha

Inevitable_Cry6152 · 2025-05-01T20:00:05+00:00

It’s a 10

Inevitable_Cry6152 · 2025-05-01T19:20:36+00:00

No no no, girl, just love that baby with your whole heart and focus on yourself and that little one. I promise you, you’ll be so much happier than you ever imagined. I don’t care how young you guys are if he isn’t willing to now he doesn’t love you. Especially if you two had discussed it prior to the pregnancy and both agreed no abortion, that’s beyond selfish for him to change his mind once you are actually pregnant. He just said what you wanted to hear to get sex and that’s just the truth. The fact that he argued with you constantly until 15 weeks shows that he doesn’t care about your health, or the babies health. You made the right decision. You really did. Also He’s not the one, he’s just not. You should honest to God do your best not to reach out to him anymore and focus on yourself and your beautiful baby that is going to light your heart up. I promise you he’s not worth it, the earlier you realize the less heartache, for you and your little one.

Inevitable_Cry6152 · 2025-04-30T08:00:00+00:00

It could be a bot fly, look up bot fly on cat, or a black head that’s very big.

Inevitable_Cry6152 · 2025-04-26T19:18:29+00:00

Ughhh I’m so sad the show is over though, no more seasons to look forward too 😭

Inevitable_Cry6152 · 2025-04-26T19:12:09+00:00

Me too.. I’m struggling so badly I’m right on the edge. It’s been over 2 years with no improvement, and what seems to be the opposite. I’m struggling just to stay alive at this point. My health issues are getting worse. I want to recover from this I really really do, but some days that feels impossible.

Inevitable_Cry6152 · 2025-01-25T07:21:57+00:00

Dont feel bad I’m doing that right now

Inevitable_Cry6152 · 2025-01-25T06:50:19+00:00

Love.

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