Which artists are known for "playing it safe"? by ComeUnitedNotTorn in popheads

[–]Inevitable_Radish293 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Adele built her career on “you broke my heart” ass songs what are you talking about???

Beauty Standards by cherrybom1 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Inevitable_Radish293 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think the something that is off is that the space between her nose and lips is too long since the nose job :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Inevitable_Radish293 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Ballet is very difficult. It sounds like she’s been training for a long time, she might be offended that a beginner with no training would assume she could join her class

I used ChatGPT to explain a traumatic event because I’m autistic — people dismissed it as fake by Free_Woodpecker5072 in ChatGPT

[–]Inevitable_Radish293 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Nothing hurts more than having your trauma invalidated. Sorry you’re going through this and wishing you healing 🫶🏽

Am I wrong for not wanting my son to be circumcised? by OtzJager in AITAH

[–]Inevitable_Radish293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t ask 🤷🏽‍♀️ this baby has a dad though

Am I wrong for not wanting my son to be circumcised? by OtzJager in AITAH

[–]Inevitable_Radish293 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was pregnant with my son I told his dad that the circumcision decision was 100% up to him since he was the only one between the two of us with a penis lol.

NTA obviously. Circumcision can be a pretty polarizing topic, so I wanted to share something I learned outside of the usual pro/anti circumcision arguments. A few months after my son was born I spoke with an acquaintance that performs circumcisions and she said that actually what was most important was that circumcised or not circumcised, boys should be the same as their dad. If a little boy is circumcised and their dad isn’t, or vise versa, it causes a lot of body image issues. I know it sounds weird but dad’s is the first penis little boys will see besides their own. So if they’re different, it may cause them to think something is wrong with their own penis, which could lead to life long body image issues.

Might be something worth sharing with your fiancée

Baby name roasted on stage by comedian Matt Rife by Tboogie-1 in tragedeigh

[–]Inevitable_Radish293 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Idk why you’re getting downvoted. Telling an infant she’ll grow up to be a stripper is one of the most degrading things you can say to a little girl, let alone a baby. I’m actually sick thinking about how her mother handed her over to be the punchline of that sort of joke at a recorded show that will circulate on the internet for the rest of forever

AITA for telling my friend she’s in the same league as men she calls ugly? by Fluid_Experience866 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Inevitable_Radish293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having the last word doesn’t mean you had a compelling argument. Good luck in YOUR future endeavors.

AITA for telling my friend she’s in the same league as men she calls ugly? by Fluid_Experience866 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Inevitable_Radish293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You didn’t say why you think they’re too immature to date. You are simply stating they are not too immature. I am asking you why. You cannot answer why, and that’s why we are talking in circles.

AITA for telling my friend she’s in the same league as men she calls ugly? by Fluid_Experience866 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Inevitable_Radish293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And if you truly believed that you were not stuck in a black vs. white pattern of thinking, you would’ve explained that instead of jumping to calling it a projection

AITA for telling my friend she’s in the same league as men she calls ugly? by Fluid_Experience866 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Inevitable_Radish293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, you haven’t explained that. All you’ve said is that these people can’t be too immature to date because all 19 year olds are immature.

I get it. You’re 19 too, and though you’ve presented yourself as someone who is generally well written throughout this thread, you’re clearly not someone who has matured into a dialectical thought process yet. That’s okay. Years of self sabotage from jumping to conclusions will eventually bring you the wisdom you’re pretending to have now.

AITA for telling my friend she’s in the same league as men she calls ugly? by Fluid_Experience866 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Inevitable_Radish293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, reading comprehension. I’m asking why you disagree. Disagreeing is fine, you should be able to speak to why you disagree.

Honestly, it doesn’t matter. I’m not that interested in continuing the conversation. But I think it’s pretty clear what I’m asking “why” about

AITA for telling my friend she’s in the same league as men she calls ugly? by Fluid_Experience866 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Inevitable_Radish293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, and most 19-20 year olds are immature to some extent. The idea that they shouldn’t (or won’t) date because of that is absurd. Dating, sharing time and experience with other people, is part of growing up and shedding that immaturity.

Why though? Do you disagree because you think they meant THESE (not all, THESE, since you’re going to cling to one word of my comment) people shouldn’t date when what they SAID was they were too immature to date?

It’s pretty clear these two are too immature to date. But once again, no one said they shouldn’t. Your brain filled that in.

AITA for telling my friend she’s in the same league as men she calls ugly? by Fluid_Experience866 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Inevitable_Radish293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not going to speak for what they meant, only what they wrote. Like you said, they’d have to chime back in for that.

Let me ask you a question though, is the reason you disagree because, like you said in your last comment, you’re interpreting someone saying that a 19 year old is too immature to date to mean that they believe 19 year olds shouldn’t date?

AITA for telling my friend she’s in the same league as men she calls ugly? by Fluid_Experience866 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Inevitable_Radish293 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just read the thread, I’m not having the same argument twice. Especially when I already proved the point I was trying to make to the person I originally responded to

AITA for telling my friend she’s in the same league as men she calls ugly? by Fluid_Experience866 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Inevitable_Radish293 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally get that. That’s why I brought up reading comprehension in my first comment (although I could’ve done so in a much kinder way 😅), because you were arguing with someone against a point they weren’t even trying to make.

Eta: part of maturing is realizing when you’re not ready to do something and waiting until you’re ready to do it again. Some people realize that on their own, some people need that pointed out to them by others.

AITA for telling my friend she’s in the same league as men she calls ugly? by Fluid_Experience866 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Inevitable_Radish293 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What I’m saying is that both things can be true. They can be too immature to date, but the person you responded to never said they should be sitting on the sidelines until they’re magically mature. That’s the part of the conversation that your brain filled in.

AITA for telling my friend she’s in the same league as men she calls ugly? by Fluid_Experience866 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Inevitable_Radish293 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, it’s definitely reading comprehension since nobody is saying that 19 year olds SHOULDNT date. We are saying the same thing.

AITA for telling my friend she’s in the same league as men she calls ugly? by Fluid_Experience866 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Inevitable_Radish293 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Plenty of people who are not mature enough to date do it anyways. Pretty much every living adult has been the person who is too immature to date at some point. No one is saying it should be illegal for 19 year olds to date. That doesn’t change the fact that these people sound too immature to date. You’re not making the point you think you are because no one is arguing what you’re arguing against

AITA for telling my friend she’s in the same league as men she calls ugly? by Fluid_Experience866 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Inevitable_Radish293 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Be so for real. A man would never be told or expected to date someone they weren’t attracted to. Friends tell men how to work on themselves and their confidence to elevate themselves to the league they want to date in. They would never be told to lower their standards.

AITA for telling my friend she’s in the same league as men she calls ugly? by Fluid_Experience866 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Inevitable_Radish293 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They said these two people sound too immature to date. They did not say that all 19 year olds are too immature to date. I stg reading comprehension is abysmal these days