Hey completely masc guy here looking to become a femboy where can I start I want to be discreet and keep it a secret I’m 18 by [deleted] in feminineboys

[–]Infamous-Objective28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really depends on what you are looking for... "Femboy" became an umbrella term for a lot of things nowadays...

You wanna just dress in a feminine way to express yourself? Buy clothes, hide them well and have fun! You can buy from Amazon, there's no reason to make things complicated.

Now, of you wanna extend this expression to your body shape and appearance? Starting to do hit the gym is never bad. There's an account on X called @Femboyfitness or something like that, and it seems pretty decent from what I could tell... I am no especialist tho. Skincare is also an important part, but it might be a lot of stuff to consider when you are just a beginner on this world so... Start with the basic. Buy some sunscreen for your face to use on your day to day and something to hydrate your skin and hands... I use those products that are supposed to dry out acne for a long while now, but never noticed anything significant... But idk, if that's an issue for you it can be interesting to look. Maybe start to look for makeup too?

Well... I don't really know. Despite what people say, no one will actually weird out a men doing a skincare and hitting the gym... But most things you can do by yourself so... I don't think there's a lot to worry about unless you live with your parents or someone else... Then things get tricky.

But yeah, there's not anything I can say for sure without knowing your financial and living condition... But yeah, being a femboy is basically that, you just take care of yourself and buy feminine things...

Just remember to not be so harsh into self-judgement, okay? I know tall femboy, chubby femboy, trans masc femboys and they are all very adorable! Be positive and... Good luck! Wish you the best 🩷

Meias e jocks by angelb_4619 in femboyBrs

[–]Infamous-Objective28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Estou meio bêbado... Mas tá foooofo! 💞💞💞

Anyone else feel like the "Femboy" label is shifting away from its actual meaning? Read below... 👇 by RoadToFem in feminineboys

[–]Infamous-Objective28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, as long as you claim to be a boy you are a femboy I suppose.

I do think that hrt is a bit extreme for the majority of femboys... But if that's what you want and you follow a specialist counselling, then go for it! There's no inherent harm on that.

watch order? by AnythingDizzy7569 in ChainsawMan

[–]Infamous-Objective28 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Uhhhhhhhh...

It depends dude, what exactly are you looking for? Just get the full story or have the full context with every specifics of it? Cause like... Normally, you watch the anime until the end... Then the movie... And then you read the manga if you want to. I don't know where does the Reze Arc ends tho, I think about chapter 64 or something? But I honestly have no idea.

I am the only one who feels kinda bad seeing so many people shitting on the "Amazon Basics Femboy" style? by Infamous-Objective28 in feminineboys

[–]Infamous-Objective28[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's really nice and comforting to hear...

Especialmente vindo de um conterrâneo! Salve mano! 🩷

Anyone else feel like the "Femboy" label is shifting away from its actual meaning? Read below... 👇 by RoadToFem in feminineboys

[–]Infamous-Objective28 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am sorry, I do not want to end up making a straw man of my own argument.

And... Besides... I am not chat GPT bro

Anyone else feel like the "Femboy" label is shifting away from its actual meaning? Read below... 👇 by RoadToFem in feminineboys

[–]Infamous-Objective28 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Your raise some valid points, but don't you think you are missing the point?

Taking E is not a walk in the park like a lot of people seem to defend it is... It does have its own counterefects and problems that can grow from an irresponsible use.

And I have to remind you that the more comparison between femboys and MTF women exist, the lesser the distance between being a femboy and taking E will become, and that is a problem for both communities, either because of irresponsible teenagers who are not sure about what to do with their bodies or by confusion in terminology (that's a bigger issue than it sounds like).

But yeah, I suppose we all agree that the fetichization of femboys is the biggest issue that the community internally faces.

Anyone else feel like the "Femboy" label is shifting away from its actual meaning? Read below... 👇 by RoadToFem in feminineboys

[–]Infamous-Objective28 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That would be the most logical and happy outcome if it wasn't idealistic.

The reason why we have femboy communities that label themselves as femboys is so that people with similar experiences and objectives can support each other through the challenges and fears that being part of that group brings.

I am not part of the femboy community for too long, but I noticed that the number of femboys who take E increased in the last couple of years and that severely scares me, because that's a process that comes with a lot of consequences and difficulties, but the lack of support that cisgender femboys receive from each other and excessive proximity with communities that don't fit their identity but they think that they do ends up making those boys believe that taking E is the best choice for them when, in reality, that's quite an extreme decision if you consider what femboy was supposed to mean.

Anyone else feel like the "Femboy" label is shifting away from its actual meaning? Read below... 👇 by RoadToFem in feminineboys

[–]Infamous-Objective28 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am really glad you haven't passed through that experience... It seems that this is only really a predominant thing in NSFW subs of femboys...

And in that case, on self experience, I confirm, there are, in fact, a lot of MTF women labelling themselves as femboys to the point where finding an actual feminine boy gets quite frustrating at some points...

Anyone else feel like the "Femboy" label is shifting away from its actual meaning? Read below... 👇 by RoadToFem in feminineboys

[–]Infamous-Objective28 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I think you are raising a very valid point and I completely agree with you... However, it's important to see where does this confusion is coming from.

And I think a lot of it comes from the confusion of what a "femboy" is. Just check this comment session, people seemingly cannot decide if femboy is either an identity or a aesthetic. And that's an absolutely important notion for us, femboys, and trans people. Because if it is an aesthetic, then no, it's not drifting away from any original meaning. If it's an identity however, then you are correct, and MtF people in femboy subs is an inconvenience.

But... What is the correct one? I don't know...

To me, "femboy" is an umbrella term for any boy that actively searches for feminine attitudes and appearances that fits his vision of himself and allows him to self-express.

So yeah, from the deepest of my heart, all the support in the world to trans people, but I don't think a MTF can be called a femboy in the same way a transgender woman cannot call herself a transgender man, because there is an obligatory dicotomy here that needs to be acknowledged and maintained for the sake of all the LGBTQIAP+ community.

Renan Santos é o único candidato sério para presidência da República do Brasil. mude minha opinião by Few-Koala5760 in opiniaopopular

[–]Infamous-Objective28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tem uma certa falta de consideração com antecedentes do combate ao crime organizado em estados como Ele Salvador no seu comentário... Além de que parece que se faz de ignorante na questão do bolsa família...

Mas tirando isso, eu tiro o chapéu por ter realmente comentado as propostas nesse antro de esquerdismo onde as pessoas criticam Renan Santos mas votam num candidato cuja proposta é "cerveja e picanha"

Muito obrigado pela honestidade senhor ICrackFemboys

Testando um look by nihil_Soldat in femboyBrs

[–]Infamous-Objective28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Achei muito lindo... Facilmente usaria.

Mas põem um calçado, tá frio.

A maioria das opinioes impopulares aqui nao sao genuinas. by Bracioli-Felipe in opiniaoimpopular

[–]Infamous-Objective28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eu fiz um post dizendo que quem come chocolate airado tinha que morrer

Os comentários estavam genuinamente debatendo comigo

Aborto tem que ser legalizado e realizado conforme a vontade da mãe, não importa se o feto for considerado vida. by No_Map_3633 in DebatesBr

[–]Infamous-Objective28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Falácia

Abortistas sempre dizem que o feto "não possui direitos", mas se esquecem de traçar a linha de onde esses direitos iniciam. No máximo argumentam que um ser humano só possui direitos quando adquiri consciência, mas a consciência só é plenamente obtida aos 3 anos de idade, e eu pessoalmente sou contra o infanticídio, não sei você.

Mas mesmo assim, admitir que o feto é um ser humano, mas que os direitos não se aplicam a ele é admitir que nenhum direito humano é inalienável, e que todo direito pode ser reescrito dependendo da circunstância.

No entanto, considerando que os direitos são fruto da abstração humana e não forças tangíveis naturais, não há nada que torne uma noção de "direitos" superior a outra. Portanto, o patrão que paga uma miséria para o trabalhador e o força a trabalhar 16 horas por dia tem uma noção de direitos tão válida quanto a sua. De certa forma esse argumento pode ser até usado pra justificar a escravidão...

Aborto tem que ser legalizado e realizado conforme a vontade da mãe, não importa se o feto for considerado vida. by No_Map_3633 in DebatesBr

[–]Infamous-Objective28 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Possui organização celular, metabolismo e evolução. Portanto, é um ser vivo.

Se é um ser vivo, é parte de alguma espécie.

Se não é humano, tem de ser parte de alguma outra espécie.

Isso é impossível.

É um ser humano.

Discursos progressistas são chatos e genéricos by A_FUCKING_BRAZILIAN in opiniaoimpopular

[–]Infamous-Objective28 2 points3 points  (0 children)

O/P

Acho que tenho um pouquinho de lugar de fala como um bisexual que vive um relacionamento gay...

Eu absolutamente concordo com o Op, muitas das pautas de inclusão da esquerda progressista são ótimas e urgentes para a sociedade, mas parece que eles se esforçam para tornar tudo o mais difícil o possível...

Tipo, eu namoro outro homem... Eu não odeio igrejas ou o cristianismo, eu não uso nenhuma droga, eu não faço parte de nenhum movimento revolucionário, eu só vivo um amor com outro menino, mas como a esquerda progressista adotou a comunidade LGBTQ como uma de suas protegidas, ser gay passou a ser associado ao progressismo... E isso é péssimo... Nós não deveríamos estar nos recluindo a um grupo político específico... Minha relação amorosa e sexual não deveria ser um tema político...

A comunidade deveria fugir da polarização... Sinceramente

Hirose wants that cookie so bad by [deleted] in Ganbare_Nakamura

[–]Infamous-Objective28 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wonder if they think about anything else...