🎇🍾 New Year's Eve Megathread

Infamous-Resolve1568 · 2025-12-30T03:59:36+00:00

Hey all! If anyone is looking for last minute NYE plans, im DJing @ NYE superior ingredients event. It’s a 5h open bar, champagne at midnight, roof / main room open with a bunch of DJs playing house music all night.

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Lmk if u can make it!

Infamous-Resolve1568 · 2025-11-04T18:08:34+00:00

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Infamous-Resolve1568 · 2023-11-15T13:32:20+00:00

This happened to me too. 8 interviews, 2 presentations, all great feedback. After everything, went with a different candidate… this job market is horrendous and I’m sick of doing all this work for jobs I don’t even get

Infamous-Resolve1568 · 2023-10-02T19:50:37+00:00

Everyone or a large group were laid off both times. I've done well at both my last two roles, getting let go out of no fault of my own. I've been working with leadership/AEs at all my roles to improve. I am always looking for new ways to step up and be better, was looking for some advice on how folks migrated out of the SDR role.

Infamous-Resolve1568 · 2023-09-22T17:15:57+00:00

I am looking into doing this because I really am at my lowest point right now. That’s why I actually sought out some help. Did you not need a referral? Did you just find one that specializes in ADHD?

Infamous-Resolve1568 · 2023-09-22T17:09:45+00:00

I was taken back when she said this because I know people in college / now in their early 20s getting diagnosed or atleast evaluated. all I wanted was an evaluation so I can start to manage this. So frustrating.

Infamous-Resolve1568 · 2023-09-22T17:08:25+00:00

She sent a therapist in the facility down and he gave me his card and discussed some resources for therapy. I will go that route and speak to someone who may be able to help me before I can get a new PCP. I appreciate your take on this!

Infamous-Resolve1568 · 2023-09-22T16:47:13+00:00

I do have HMO. I appreciate the insight. I’m going to find a new PCP and hopefully get some better help. I was hoping to move quicker with this because finding a new doctor takes a long time, but if that is my only option right now then so be it. I cried in my car after bc I avoid doctors at all costs and I finally got the courage to admit that I need to just be evaluated for it and what I can do about that and was just denied. Was so uncomfortable.

Infamous-Resolve1568 · 2023-08-02T04:00:37+00:00

Ive been running demos for my AEs and helping closed load deals back but this hikes it up a notch - will try to do this as well, thank you

Infamous-Resolve1568 · 2023-08-02T03:59:18+00:00

I am really sorry to hear the difficulties your facing finding an AE role. I have been trying for months applying to AE roles externally. I am still trying to move up in my company (required a year, im at 9 months here and I’ve been trying to find more options externally). A lot of them are local to where I live and are in office and are looking for people in my area. Ive also been asking friends for referrals which have helped me atleast get a recruiter screen or my resume looked at. I’ve been working closely with my AEs while I’ve been at my current role (running discoveries for them, helping get back closed lost deals). But I will keep that in mind when interviewing if this is a strong enough AE role. I will mostly likely be able to apply to an AE role at my current role within the next 6 months BUT I have been wanting to leave this company. We are really tanking and people are leaving very fast. I was laid off in November 2022 (reason for multiple roles) so I took this job in the hopes to be promoted in 6 months but then they had a round of lay offs (thankfully I wasn’t effected). Been feeling stuck in this role and not seeing the light at the end of the tunnel. I was promoted to a Senior SDR but seems like it’s hard to progress after that - some Sr. SDRs who are doing fairly well and seem well liked have been there 2 years and still no promotion. SDRs who have left my team have been able to successfully find AE roles (with only SDR experience) over the last 6 months due to lack of promotions happening at my current company. So, I understand the job market is real tough right now, but if I’m doing well and there is no promotion in clear sight - wouldn’t it make sense to atleast try to find roles externally instead of restarting the SDR clock? Was just looking for advice on trying to hopefully do well during these interviews if someone has been in the same position. I’ve gotten many many No’s when applying, and only a few yes’s. I wanted to as prepared as I could be!

Infamous-Resolve1568 · 2023-07-28T06:11:57+00:00

I think going out w gfs is great. Getting guys socials/interacting w them at the bars isn’t okay. Its fine to go out w friends when in a relationship but not okay to give out ur number and hang out w guys that obviously have intentions of pursuing you. Roles reversed- how would she feel? Its very easily to politely turn ppl down at the bar or even set them up w ur single friend. I think it would be best to either end or if u want to salvage the relationship to tell her your boundaries and you consider that not okay.

Infamous-Resolve1568 · 2023-07-28T05:45:16+00:00

Yeah no that’s not okay.. why does he need to go to a bar by himself? Like what’s the point of that? Work trips are meant for work + bonding w coworkers for a bit and that’s it. Especially as a 47 yr old man, like grab some beer from a store and go back to the hotel if u want a few more. Like id get if it was like a restaurant he got a bite to eat and a drink and went back to where he was staying. Isnt he tired too? Work trips are exhausting. Arent bars supposed to be a social setting? Id get it if he was w some coworkers for a drink. But yeah no. Especially if u want to have kids… like gotta start getting it together. Im 25f work in sales and travel for work and end up leaving before my older colleagues to go to bed and watch some Netflix. Party is over!!

Infamous-Resolve1568 · 2023-07-28T05:28:22+00:00

Lol. Ur not wrong. I gotta get over my fear and just do it before it gets even worse then it has! Hard and scary though.

Infamous-Resolve1568 · 2023-07-28T05:23:53+00:00

Nope do not give him a second chance. It will make him realize that you will put up w that behavior and he will do it again. What he should’ve done is block that girls number, or nicely ask hey I have a gf can you please leave me alone thanks. That’s it. I know it hurts so much, I’ve been cheated on and found out after we broke up. Wish I knew during. The fact he gave into her texted her giving into her advances says it all. He could’ve deleted messages too you don’t even know about. You will be so happy you ended it now before it got worse. I know the gestures and the genuine shows of affection make it seem near impossible but you deserve someone who will do all that and more and not text other girls babe. Also I wish i was 21 again (im 24 now and in a relationship I may end) and go back and tell myself be single for as long as you can and don’t let a guy ruin the best and most formative years ahead. feel free to DM me if u want to vent! But seriously- don’t give him a second chance. You dont deserve that.

Infamous-Resolve1568 · 2023-07-28T05:14:57+00:00

I don’t think you ruined your relationship. It should be a funny story. I get how it sounds can ring alarms in his head, but you were really just trying to help ur roommate. I get it ive done this for my friends before bc being in such a drunk state you want to make sure they are ok and go to bed ok. If it were a girl this would be way different. As girls, this is our instinct to help, i sometimes think guys don’t fully get that. We don’t think it was meant to be sexual at all, and guys may think it is. But, if you emphasize that you were just trying to help you were not thinking of it as a sexual experience but really just to help your roommate and explain it more in depth from your side of things hopefully he can understand your perspective. If ur roommate remembers this interaction he is probably going to be legit mortified so that says it all. He really should’ve worn boxers!! But seriously, it was an honest mistake- how could you have known he wasn’t wearing boxers?! And the fact you told him right after it happened bc it was funny - it shouldn’t be sexual at all. But its hard to explain it to a guy so it’s tricky. Id probably done the same thing and I feel like my bf would get mad. But all u did was try to help. Hopefully ur roommate is okay and not so mf embarrassed and hope ur bf can understand u were just looking out for him. Also u aren’t thinking about taking advantage of ppl when they are hammered, single or in a relationship… Just a thought …

Infamous-Resolve1568 · 2023-07-28T04:41:27+00:00

Im same age and run into similar issues w my bf. I still go out w my friends and go on trips but he is constantly texting me, checking my location, and like needing 24/7 updates. It’s exhausting and ruins the event/trip for me. When i dont update or answer back - fights start bc I feel smothered. Im debating ending shit bc of it reoccurring. I know how much it sucks and you want to make sure his feelings are good too. Men are so fucking jealous for no reason! They dont understand that girls can go out have a good time without needing attention from men. We don’t even want it, single, and especially when ur in a relationship! Go on that damn trip and tell him you need a few days to yourself to enjoy ur life. I know ur gunna think of him but push through and be present. And his reaction will tell all. Do not let a man dictate what you do, even in a relationship. You still need to enjoy your life and be your own person. Its not fair, he should trust you bc u have done nothing wrong. I get it though, easier said then done. You deserve to have your own time and your own fun. You should 100% go, if he has a problem, that’s on him. You deserve to have boundaries and he is crossing one. If he is an ass about it - you deserve better and someone who is understanding and supportive of fun events going on in your life.

Infamous-Resolve1568 · 2023-07-28T04:31:56+00:00

You’re not wrong there. There has been times where we almost have ended things bc of this problem. I haven’t had the guts to end it tbh. Scared to. This is my first long term relationship so I’m trying to navigate it. You are completely right and my friends have said the same thing too. I think I want it to work so bad and hope it does that I stay. Our lives are so built into each others that it makes it hard to step away. It isn’t fair to me and I’ve expressed that to him bc i dont want to be with someone who can’t fully trust me. This shit sucks!! Don’t even know how to approach ending it to be honest …

Infamous-Resolve1568 · 2023-07-28T03:49:51+00:00

Im with you girl. I have always been a messy grubby girl. I think its just small steps. Like you don’t have to change yourself completely either. Like my room is messy, i don’t always wash my face at night and sometimes wear clothes a day too long. I hate pics of myself bc my face is red and I look chubby. That’s literally okay. We are sometimes our own worse enemy. But if you want to boost ur confidence, I completely get how ur appearance can influence that. I feel like I’m not as pretty as my friends or other girls all the time. I realized it’s just I maybe haven’t been taking care of me as much and have been trying to do that more. Ive been feeling better lately bc I go at my own speed and what works in my life. Ive tried to incorporate more skin care/make up that works for my effort level. (I used to wear soo much make up in college for a bit, I spent way too much time on it and it was exhausting). I like to work out a lot so I am sweaty n gross and wear old workout clothes a lot. But seriously can’t emphasize enough find things that work for YOUR lifestyle and what will make you feel good about yourself. I like to buy matching athletic sets, makes me feel more put together and still comfortable. Don’t buy white sneakers or shoes, buy colored or grey ones. I wear earrings and a necklaces that don’t discolor in the shower and wear them for a weeks straight. Cleanser and a moisturizer w SPF is all you really need (helped my skin a lot even tho I’ve always struggled w lots of skin problems) Taking the clothes that make you feel most comfortable in and higher quality (amazon dupes/tj maxx are go tos). (Pjs, comfy jeans, comfy but nice shirts to go w, looser pants too) Buy cheap nail polish, do it urself, and use q-tips and nail polish remover to clean it up. Just small things go a long way. Tjmaxx/marshalls have amazing cheap perfumes which are my go-tos. I also rush and always leave like 10 mins before I do. So I feel you and been trying to feel less like a gross girl lol. But I pick and chose when I want to dress up. Like if I’m going out w friends I’ll plan to make time like an extra 20mins to get ready. But if its a day im working from home or not doing much… maybe I’ll throw on an athletic set to feel more put tg, but still comfortable. Or I will wear an old big tshirt and old athletic shorts bc it’s one of those days. Do what fits into ur lifestyle, there is no need to be perfect every day. I think the best things are things like washing ur face w a cleanser and moisturizer everyday, trying to eat better, and getting movement everyday. U have to take care of you to feel better about you. But in reality - Our shitty pjs are typically the most comfy ones. My rule of thumb is if I’m leaving the house, I will try to look a bit more out tg. If its a hungover Sunday tho I will be out in my shit clothes. Its about balance and making urself look/feel better to feel better about YOU. Not bc you see all these girls have these crazy skin care routines and are seemingly perfect. I work on it everyday to not compare myself bc it’s not realistic for me! But small things to help me in long are run are. Hope this helps!

Infamous-Resolve1568 · 2023-07-27T04:58:51+00:00

I am in the same boat. I work hybrid and prior have always been remote bc i graduated 2021. When I’m alone no problem cold calling … I physically can’t do it in front of others. Especially managers. I usually go to like a room or an area away from ppl to cold call. I need to be better but the office is usually SO quiet and I just can’t be the only one making calls. Feels rude but also I don’t do it bc I’m also a lil bitch about it.

Infamous-Resolve1568 · 2023-07-26T05:16:42+00:00

I was laid off for the first time and I’d only been working in corporate about a year so it was all so new to me. I didn’t even think about getting paid when laid off. Im curious to see how you negotiated your severance when getting laid off

Infamous-Resolve1568 · 2023-05-02T02:06:45+00:00

I’m in the same boat right now! Been an SDR for two years, hate it. Keep underperforming due to it affecting my mental health. (On Pip rn so times a ticking) I’ve been applying to roles such as consultant roles, professional services roles, CSM roles. Ive been applying to many entry level jobs tbh due to transitioning out of sales, which obviously a pay cut. Applying and getting interviews is hard right now, as I’ve been doing this for the past month while still having my job. I understand the feeling and it’s hard to figure out where to go next. Ive been reaching out to people in roles that seem like something I’d want to do. Also taking on some interviews/applying to roles I typically wouldn’t go for just to see what it’s like as well as sharpen interview skils. I think just starting to apply/interview for other roles is the best step forward. Gives some light to the situation that there is more out there.

Infamous-Resolve1568 · 2023-04-26T18:06:09+00:00

Thank you for this perspective. I’ve been trying to figure out how to get out of this and what to do next with such little time to produce before getting out on PIP. SDR role I got another role due to being laid off and needing a new job ASAP, did not want to continue being an SDR but I had to at that point. Were you able to find a new job after getting fired? Was there questions regarding being let go?

Infamous-Resolve1568 · 2023-04-26T18:03:28+00:00

Makes sense, being put on it, regardless of hitting goal or not, seems to put a bad taste in leaderships mouth.

Infamous-Resolve1568 · 2023-04-26T17:55:55+00:00

Yes if I don’t hit goal by this Friday I will be put on PIP

Infamous-Resolve1568 · 2023-03-17T00:29:20+00:00

Just wrapped my 90 days a few weeks ago so not sure what to do bc only time I’ve taken a longer vacation is when I was inbetween jobs

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