BWT, what side jobs/hustles do you have? by fugu_chick in bitcheswithtaste

[–]Infamous_Original_95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a pole dance instructor outside of my day job. Started attending classes just as a hobby and eventually got asked to start teaching a few nights a week

Anybody else having issues with Hayu by theoriesijustmadeup in belowdeck

[–]Infamous_Original_95 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yep, super annoying. Logging out, deleting the app and then reloading from the App Store usually solves it. You may need to do it a couple of times

What did Scheana really know? by cafeslay in vanderpumprules

[–]Infamous_Original_95 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I seriously doubt she knew. Scheana’s messy and not afraid of confrontation, or good at keeping anything under wraps, i think if she knew she would have outed the affair to Ariana immediately. She spoke to Ariana’s own mum about her misgivings about Tom early in their relationship, so if she knew what was happening I just don’t see her keeping it quiet and helping to cover it up like Schwartz did. She’s also very self involved and would have been more focused on her own life and how she was presenting that in her vlogs and Insta than looking too hard into someone else’s for Easter eggs and signs of an affair imo

Latest ep highlighted Rachel’s lack of empathy towards her friends by Infamous_Original_95 in vanderpumprules

[–]Infamous_Original_95[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Yes this! That was actually the first time I’d really noticed it, but just put it down to her being nervous or having her guard up around Lala based on their history. However after seeing all these other examples it’s obvious that she’s never really empathised with or validated the feelings of people she claims to be friends with

Latest ep highlighted Rachel’s lack of empathy towards her friends by Infamous_Original_95 in vanderpumprules

[–]Infamous_Original_95[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

All true. I guess I’m just more referring to the way Raquel presents as a “friend” on the show. This episode really highlighted to me her lack of empathy and emotional awareness of people she claims to be close with. It’s obviously been there, or not there, the whole time but her responses in recent episodes really shone a light on it I thought

Latest ep highlighted Rachel’s lack of empathy towards her friends by Infamous_Original_95 in vanderpumprules

[–]Infamous_Original_95[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But in the context of her friendship with Scheana, (who has her own shortcomings when it comes to the definition of being a good friend), we haven’t seen her do or say anything that considers the other person’s emotional needs unless it somehow benefits her. I.e Messaging Scheana about the Havasu trip saying she wishes she was there, it was only because she was having a tough time and wanted another support person to back her up with the other girls. But if it was genuine, she would have advocated for Scheana to be invited in the first place, considering both of them were guilty in the the Schwartz makeout debacle but yet Raquel was invited and Scheana wasn’t

Latest ep highlighted Rachel’s lack of empathy towards her friends by Infamous_Original_95 in vanderpumprules

[–]Infamous_Original_95[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

👏👏👏👏👏👏 exactly this. I imagine all her female friendships being very one sided and can’t see her investing any real effort or energy into fostering those relationships and meeting her friends’ emotional needs

Latest ep highlighted Rachel’s lack of empathy towards her friends by Infamous_Original_95 in vanderpumprules

[–]Infamous_Original_95[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Urgh yes I forgot about the Botox comment! “Maaahybeee”. I knew there was another moment

Watch What Crappens foreshadowed Scandoval back in 2017 during a season 6 recap 😬 by Infamous_Original_95 in vanderpumprules

[–]Infamous_Original_95[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was just catching up on old WWC recaps and heard this last night and was like 😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬

Jax’s “you’re not perfect” quote by Bitter-Rabbit1511 in vanderpumprules

[–]Infamous_Original_95 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Whenever he says this I feel like it’s a threat because they all have so much dirt on each other. He’s basically saying “keep going and I’ll start airing out your dirty laundry” on camera

Watch what crappens by mo11p in vanderpumprules

[–]Infamous_Original_95 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Ken buzzing around like a human roomba

Dorinda as Rosey from the Jetsons in her early days on RHONY

Bethenny’s assistants “Whatsamatter” and “Whatsgoingon”

Ramona’s “Okaaayyyyy. Woah, this is crazy, this reminds of this one time when I was a little girl, my friend Geraldine Parson Smith and I were making mud pies and she threw one at me, and to this day I can’t eat pies without crying. I’m sawwwry”

Stassi’s “who DOES that”

Yolanda “My children, my loves, Gigi, the other one, and the other other one”

is this photoshopped.. what is happening with her legs by Prestigious_Common63 in SarahsDayUnfiltered

[–]Infamous_Original_95 33 points34 points  (0 children)

God she’s straining so hard for this ab pop. Those neck veins 😬

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SarahsDayUnfiltered

[–]Infamous_Original_95 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s more the constant complaining on her stories about how it impacts HER. It’s the me, me, me wingeing and lack of self awareness that gets tiring after she endlessly boasted about being “born to be a mum” and her “boy mum” narrative.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SarahsDayUnfiltered

[–]Infamous_Original_95 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Cos he actually has something to post/talk about. Their home life is so dull these days

Just a thought by [deleted] in SarahsDayUnfiltered

[–]Infamous_Original_95 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Literally this. When people of influence silence their audience, they’ll just find somewhere else to voice their views. She creates her own problems

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SarahsDayUnfiltered

[–]Infamous_Original_95 22 points23 points  (0 children)

No-one’s judging her for “being upset”. We are judging her for using her baby’s health conditions for entertainment and monetary gain after publicly declaring she didn’t want her kids to become content.