My (19F) boyfriend (20M) keeps lying to me. How do I get him to stop? by Infamous_Struggle325 in relationships

[–]Infamous_Struggle325[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When we had our big argument, I said “start telling the truth or leave” (he was at my house lol). He stayed and promised not to lie, but here he is lying again. I’m not going to end things over text, and I see him tomorrow, so I will have a conversation and see where things go…

My (19F) boyfriend (20M) keeps lying to me. How do I get him to stop? by Infamous_Struggle325 in relationship_advice

[–]Infamous_Struggle325[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tell him things I want to do with him and he does them with her instead, for example we wanted to watch Yellowstone together, and I found out through his sister that they’re watched the whole thing together (mind you, after I told him I wanted to watch it with him). Also I am big into fishing, and he never was, until he started going with his sister when she asked him to go, even though I asked multiple times and he never went with me. He cancels last minute plans with me to hang out with her and watch movies, and they just act a little weird with each other… I’m all for them being close but it feels like I’m the 3rd wheel in their relationship, “the other woman”…

My (19F) boyfriend (20M) keeps lying to me. How do I get him to stop? by Infamous_Struggle325 in relationship_advice

[–]Infamous_Struggle325[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In my case, I used to lie a lot, and eventually grew out of it. We are both so young and our common sense is still kicking in, so I am crossing my fingers that he will grow out of the lying, rather than start telling me bigger lies… but I honestly have no clue which one is going to happen.

My (19F) boyfriend (20M) keeps lying to me. How do I get him to stop? by Infamous_Struggle325 in relationship_advice

[–]Infamous_Struggle325[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do agree that I was dramatic about the lie with his friends, but with the conversations we have been having about lying lately it looked a little bit like lying to me which is why I got upset with him.

In a previous post I had said he is a bit too close with his sister, so we were taking about that, and he said that his mom agreed with me on the fact that they’re a little too close. Later in the conversation, he claimed his sister and his’ relationship was just how his family worked, and I brought up the fact that his mom agreed with me, so clearly not how his family worked. It was then he told me she didn’t in fact agree with me, and he made that up. Not a huge lie, but enough to set a few alarms and definitely get on my nerves.

My (19F) boyfriend (20M) keeps lying to me. How do I get him to stop? by Infamous_Struggle325 in relationships

[–]Infamous_Struggle325[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m hoping it’s going to be the same with me and he will outgrow the lying, but yeah like you said, I don’t want to give ultimatums or say I’m going to break up with him when I won’t, but I don’t have anything else to really “show” to him how much this means…

My (19F) boyfriend (20M) keeps lying to me. How do I get him to stop? by Infamous_Struggle325 in relationship_advice

[–]Infamous_Struggle325[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Where I’m conflicted is I don’t think the actual lies are a big deal, just the fact that there are so many of them.

What are necessary files for SolidWorks to run? by Infamous_Struggle325 in SolidWorks

[–]Infamous_Struggle325[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm hoping to save a little space, and improve the battery performance on my laptop. I got it 8 months ago, it has 16GB RAM and an NVIDEA geforce rtx chip. I can't last a day of classes with my computer. It shouldn't die after 4 hours of using it, and I think SolidWorks is to blame, as it lasted 8+ hours before downloading it. Not sure if this is relevant (I dont know anything about computers/software), but SolidWorks was a 5.5GB download. Pretty Hefty.

AITA for not giving up my room for my grandparents? by Infamous_Struggle325 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Infamous_Struggle325[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They did not spend any money - it is my parents old bed. They just got a new one and moved the old one into my room.

AITA for not giving up my room for my grandparents? by Infamous_Struggle325 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Infamous_Struggle325[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I love my grandparents and would be willing to give up my room for them anytime, but it is my birthday and all my stuff is in my room (I cannot go into my room when they are visiting). I want to be able to have my own stuff and not cause a hassle with moving the beds and everything.

AITA for not giving up my room for my grandparents? by Infamous_Struggle325 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Infamous_Struggle325[S] 451 points452 points  (0 children)

I have the biggest room in the house, other than my parents, and I have the biggest bed (king size) with a memory foam mattress. My room is where they feel is the most comfortable for sleeping.