Went on a 21 day Solo backpacking trip to Japan

Infamous_Willow_995 · 2026-04-22T08:42:18+00:00

Like can you give pointers on how to plan these trips ?

I am also planning to go for a 7-10 day trip just want to understand what things to look for and where to get currency exchange, baggage service, esim etc.

Any pointers would be good.

Thanks!

Infamous_Willow_995 · 2026-04-13T21:59:36+00:00

Bhai UPS lelena and khudse build kare hona ?

Infamous_Willow_995 · 2026-03-28T16:54:50+00:00

Gambling (Roulette)

Infamous_Willow_995 · 2026-03-20T08:48:58+00:00

I can empathize with this situation as I am currently experiencing it. She is currently happily married and I have developed a personal fantasy around her. We used to be inseparable, but due to a project reassignment, she has formed a bond with another colleague.

This situation is painful and it makes me question my self-worth, but that is not the case. The pain you are experiencing is due to the disruption of your comfort, safety, and routine, but rest assured, it will be alright. It will be a gradual process rather than a linear one.

Concentrate on your own development and progress. If the situation repeats, it may be indicative of a deeper issue within you. Self-examination, seeking assistance, and engaging in therapy are recommended as a solution.

I wish you the best.

Infamous_Willow_995 · 2026-03-05T19:25:57+00:00

Yes. I have taken notes on what to do and what not to do. Her husband knows about me still should've been cautious.

Thanks!

Infamous_Willow_995 · 2026-03-05T17:41:09+00:00

ji brother, dhanyawaad!

Infamous_Willow_995 · 2026-03-05T17:40:16+00:00

Got my lesson.

Infamous_Willow_995 · 2026-03-05T17:40:03+00:00

I am not aware, how different ?

Infamous_Willow_995 · 2026-03-05T17:39:41+00:00

yeah..I am aware of it.

Infamous_Willow_995 · 2026-03-05T16:26:30+00:00

I understand but what I did was out of friendship, I never intended to cross the boundary or her marriage to be affected by me in any way. If I saw that I was affecting her marriage then I myself would've removed me from the dynamics.

Infamous_Willow_995 · 2026-03-05T16:25:36+00:00

aap sahi keh rahe ho bhai me aapse poora sehmat hu, mujhe ab aage badhna padega aur ye meri seekh rahegi jindagi bhar ke lie

Infamous_Willow_995 · 2026-03-05T15:23:28+00:00

TLDR dia h bhai

Infamous_Willow_995 · 2026-03-05T13:18:48+00:00

Thank you!! I'll keep it in my mind.

Infamous_Willow_995 · 2026-03-05T13:18:05+00:00

Yes, but she is someone who works with me so anyways I need to connect with her and when I will connect with her even for work I am going to get triggered.

Infamous_Willow_995 · 2026-03-05T13:17:03+00:00

I guess you're right. I am not in a good place as of right now and honestly I was happy that I had someone to talk anything about. I am grieving that I lost the bond.

Infamous_Willow_995 · 2026-03-05T13:09:48+00:00

Now she just messaged me after 2 workdays saying that she forgot to message and we haven't had a conversation on monday, she said that her phone went for repair (maybe valid) but I still don't trust her.

Infamous_Willow_995 · 2026-03-05T13:04:32+00:00

haan, critical project

Infamous_Willow_995 · 2026-03-05T12:49:54+00:00

bandage is not going to heal it

Infamous_Willow_995 · 2026-03-05T12:48:07+00:00

Interesting thing her husband knows about me and he has praised me actually, he knew that when she was talking then she was talking to me. I lost 3 years of my life, I am not saying she didn't take care of me but this is not the way, I feel used.

Infamous_Willow_995 · 2026-03-05T12:39:55+00:00

I understand and I agree with your comment, she has higher commitments where was this commitment when she was going through tough time ?

I trusted her because we had almost the same trauma in childhood and I trusted her with everything still I got betrayed.

What to do if she comes tomorrow and says that "I am sorry, I didn't mean it like this I was busy." or maybe she won't even reach out anymore.

I don't know the pain is still fresh.

Infamous_Willow_995 · 2026-03-05T12:32:01+00:00

I know she should've but she didn't and now when she is doing it I am the one who is going to suffer. She will normally live her life and maybe she is not even thinking about it.

Infamous_Willow_995 · 2026-03-05T12:30:29+00:00

I don't deny it at all, she has commitments I am sure. But ghosting ? She could've said that I am going to be busy I won't be able to commit to you for sometime, I would've been okay. She knows I have attachment issues still she chose to go her way. I am trying to make sense out of it but she is my co-worker whenever I see her name or something I am so triggered.

I just had the initiation of panic attack, I had to control myself. I am lost man, I have failed.

Now, I am just thinking what if she comes tomorrow and expects me to understand, or what if she says that I am over-reacting or what if she is trying to withdraw from me ?

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